Yes we do have different opinions but people don't realise that they first need to understand than being understood. It's not like your opinion is incorrect but mine is not incorrect either, you just need to see it from the other's perspective and that would have happened if people were willing to listen each other rather than blabber their own opinions infront of world while the world blabbers its own opinion to the person, and in the end no one would understand anyone's perspective because they never tried looking at the other point of view which is possible when the person is a better listener. Sure controversies won't end after this too, we are humans after all and we like to know that we are correct but controversial things wouldn't have been so aggressive and stupid. People are literally having a huge controversy in beauty standards now when there's so much out there in the world to fix! There won't be any stupid controversy if people were willing to listen. Got my point?
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online i'm a talket, irl i'm a listener
I usually just speak when Iām spoken to
Only answer them? Or talk nicely?
@insteadfew just the way I was trained as a child
As if giving interview?
@insteadfew I was never interviewed
This explains so much
@Msputiton what do you mean?
It's about your upbringing, and how it shaped you
@Msputiton yes, I am very submissive
better listener than speaker
Good listener. I am an introvert male.
LoL š to the update. You are a funny girl
Well, really, if so many people were willing to listen to each other then we would have been living in a world without controversy.
Listening doesn't mean we wouldn't have different opinions and would never give our views... and hence there won't be controversies?
Yes we do have different opinions but people don't realise that they first need to understand than being understood. It's not like your opinion is incorrect but mine is not incorrect either, you just need to see it from the other's perspective and that would have happened if people were willing to listen each other rather than blabber their own opinions infront of world while the world blabbers its own opinion to the person, and in the end no one would understand anyone's perspective because they never tried looking at the other point of view which is possible when the person is a better listener. Sure controversies won't end after this too, we are humans after all and we like to know that we are correct but controversial things wouldn't have been so aggressive and stupid. People are literally having a huge controversy in beauty standards now when there's so much out there in the world to fix! There won't be any stupid controversy if people were willing to listen. Got my point?
Ya madam got it š
Both, I communicate well
both defos both
Good listener
Neither.
Neither apparently
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