Because it is generally thought in life, society, culture, that money gives you power, but a lot of guys who are successful with girls, women, or they just have a hot, attractive girlfriend, and many times it is that they have power, in what ways can power be interpreted? what are the types of power out there and specifically what is it? As I said before, many guys out there who have or have had an attractive girlfriend, or just very successful with girls, women, whether they are a player, or just a one-woman's man who is easily able to get a new, hot, attractive girlfriend if his relationship ends. So, what is power to girls? women? a lot of these guys are not even rich guys. Why is Confidence seen as a Powerful, Masculine trait to girls, women? why are girls, women, hard-wired, instinctively programmed to want the Alpha Male, or a guy that is of high-status, social-status, very good social-skills and conversation-skills, etc.
it is frustrating because it is much easier for a girl, woman, to be an alpha female than it is for a guy, man, to be an alpha male, eventhough some people argue, will say when hearing "Alpha Female?" I didn't think there was such thing, but what they mean is that an Alpha Female is the Mate, girlfriend of an Alpha Male. It's like, basically almost any girl is qualified, capable of being desirable to guys, men, but only a select few guys, men, are able to be desirable to women, girls.