Has anyone felt this way before? and does anyone know why?

As much as I've tried not to, I ended up liking this guy. And he's nice to me now.

Well, I've been in denial about liking him for months. I couldn't help it anymore. I like him, but of course, no one knows.

Anyway, whenever I see him, my heart starts beating fast, I get nervous, my face gets hot, and I feel like crying.

Has anyone felt like that? Anyone know why?

I mean I understand the nervousness. I'm really shy. But what I don't understand is why I feel like crying when I see him. He hasn't done anything wrong. And I feel happy to see him.

Im confused.


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  • You cry because you want him. You may pity yourself for not being able to talk to him like you want to.

    • Yes! I think you're right!

      I always feel like an idiot for not saying anything.

      Will this go away if I talk to him? I don't want to cry. I will be embarrassed if I cry at work, which is where I see him.

    • You may want to try it. Either that, or try other ways to work on your self esteem. You seem like a sweet girl, but it's just sad to see you be so shy that it's making you suffer. You might make me cry here. lol

    • Yeah I don't think my self esteem is too bad. I just get really self concious around him. I feel kind of lame compared to him.

      Haha I know. Thinking about this makes me get all teary eyed. :D

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  • Its a crush. We've all had em :).

    Its just an overwhelming sense of attraction, totally normal.

    • Oh OK. I though there was something wrong with me. I've never had a crush that made.me want to cry like that but OK.

      Is there something I can do to make myself not want to cry? I see him at work and I'd be embarrassed if I started to cry there.

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