I feel like yea you date and have relationships to see what works for you but it's kind of a waste of time if marriage is all the reward you get. I don't mean to offended those who are married or really want to get married but I don't see it as a big prize. Kids either.
Sometimes I feel like there's something wrong with me for feeling like having a boyfriend is almost like ending all the fun and things getting complicated with jealousies, suspicions and insecurities.
Like I said a part of me does want a relationship but at the same time it's like 'naaah I'm good'. ha ha so does anyone else ever feel this way or am I just weird?
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Sometimes I really want a boyfriend until I think about what you wrote in the third paragraph. There is so much more to starting a relationship than you anticipate, and often it's such a burden it's almost not worth the effort. Plus, a relationship requires that you take into account what another person wants to do. What if I don't want to watch a Phillies game or play golf? That's why being single is so sweet.