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It is neither. Consider: Withdrawing in disgust is not the same as apathy.
Everyone has a set, and you're sort of locked into that set, as much as you need a set. My set is mostly composed of addicts and deviants. Touching your friends breasts isn't uncommon here, in my set. In your set, it is - it's a big deal. And, you don't see why, and you don't agree. And you don't MIND if your friend touches your breasts, he's your friend and it's fine and you're comfortable. And your set puts upon you that there is no class to you, and you've got this dissonance. Everyone thinks I am this, but I think I am this. What you must do is withdraw from the ideas of the set and develop your own position. This is not a regression, this isn't falling into apathy, and this isn't losing all self-respect. Quite the reserve - taking your own unique position is the height of self-respect. Do this in all things, not just your Boob-Territory arrangements.
Withdrawing in disgust is not the same as apathy. [smile]