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As a black male, I understand where you're coming from.
Hip-hop culture has been embraced by many blacks under the age of 35 because of the "cultural suicide" of blacks during slavery.
Therefore, I understand how you see these non-black guys liking hip-hop, but not into dating black females, as "they dislike black ppl, but are embracing black culture".
To be frank, they don't see them endorsing hip-hop culture as "wanting to be black".
These people most likely see hip-hop culture simply as an enjoyable genre of music and an interesting and intriguing style to go along with it.
You: culture of a race of people while rejecting the same people
Them: cool music and cool style