They have a grudge against me. See I don't know how they can even do this if they were only infatuated and not in love.
How long do you hold this grudge and why?
IS there anything I can say to make them feel better?
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It all depends on the manner.
If you get turned down properly, you usually hold no grudge, and some regrets flash from time to time when you mind is wandering.
If you get turned down in a dirty way, disrespectfully, or if you think you have been led on, then the regrets conflict with your ego, and that's how you get to detest someone.
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