Most Helpful Girl
wow. this is like, exactly the situation I am in. my boyfriend constantly flakes on plans, often times he cancels on me to hang out with his guy friends. I don't mind him hanging out with them instead of me but it bothers me that he has concrete plans with me first, then cancels for them.
i think the responses here are right, and it's a lot easier to agree with them now that I'm reading it from an outside view. I'm going to take their advice as well and let my boyfriend know that if I am not that important to him, then I don't need to waste my time.
i don't think guys need to always make their girlfriend their priority, but they do need to SOMETIMES. remember that if you are putting in way more than you are getting, as much as it hurts, you deserve better!
best of luck.