Do you think it's a green light you guys?

So I'm Hispanic and this guy (lets call him J) is white and we were just talking about you know just random things. I told him this girl said he was cute,and he said "I don't mean to be rude but I don't do black girls" I said "its all good I don't really do black guys but I usually go for white guys and sometimes Hispanics.what about you do you just go for white girls?" he kind of sat back and thought about it he said "well mainly."no I'm not racist I have actually dated black guys before I just seem to go for white guys usually.but my question is does that mean I can get in there like is that an OK to go for it?

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  • Sounds to me that this may have been the first time he even considered you. Sounds like he's never dated anyone but white girls and when you asked he had to think about it. It's no sign at all to me. He thought about it but probably hasn't made a decision. Give him time. If it is possible, he may start to show you signs of interest. You can respond but I wouldn't ask him out or initiate anything.

    I'm black and I am not offended by what he said. I've almost never dated a guy of another race who has dated a black girl. It can change over time but he has not had the experience to change it yet. He probably needs a lot of time and you have to also consider that if he's thinking that what his family may be about. He may think, I would but my parents would hate it so I won't.

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  • "Mainly" in this case I think meant a polite "only". I think you deserve a guy for whom your ethnicity is not a handicap. There are plenty of guys who adore Hispanic girls - or girls of any race who satisfy their other requirements - you can see my long laundry list in my prior answer via my profile. Race isn't even a factor there thank God.

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  • Sound like he didn't want to say I don't like Spanish girls to your face... Why would you go for someone like that? =S

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  • Lol @ all of this.

    From the looks of it, it seems like a yellow light to me.

    He didn't say he would go for Hispanic chicks but he didn't say no either.

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    • But seriously though, people care WAAAY too much about race. Jeez, if you attracted, you're attracted, don't deny one aspect just because of race, silly kids lol.

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