So last week I ended up making out with a guy after going back to his room with him from the bars. We were both drunk but because I was drunk, I have this "must leave" mindset that I conditioned myself to have while I am intoxicated (so I don't do anything that I might regret, like have sex or do something stupid with people I don't know that well). So we were making out and he was getting aggressive (which also made me like WHOA slow down... I was also on my period at the time so I didn't want that out in the open) and I got up and I was like, "I probably should go." He asked me not to leave but I did anyway because I was drunk and I had my "go home" mindset going...
The thing is, I kind of like this guy. He's in one of my classes and nothing has been awkward which is nice, and we've been able to have some small chit chat, but how do I move forward from that so that I can get to know him and hang out and even hook up again (this time with me not running away...)? I feel like I might of damaged his confidence with me or I don't know what since he actually texted me the next day going "sorry for being so aggressive." He also invited me to a movie while drunk ha ha I don't know if that counts for anything, but how to bring that up again since I do want to go.
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why can't you just tell him something like "I enjoyed getting to know you a little bit. I know I left abruptly, but when I am drinking I just want to be super careful. Perhaps we can go out some time when there isn't any drinking."
(of course I am not eloquent so hopefully you can come up with something better to say...but you get the gist.)