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I definitely like independence. Codependency sucks, to be blunt. It's nice to be able to do your own thing without always being dragged in to her issues.
That being said of course I would help my woman if she needed it. Unlike some guys who want independent women to the point they would not even save them from drowning, I believe part of being a good partner is looking out for yours and supporting when needed.
Then you have some guys who are so desperate and low self esteem, they need a clingy woman because they fear otherwise if she got self esteem she'd dump them for the loser they are lol.