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Yes, he will be hurt.
If it were me, I'd tell you to go cry to the guy that you're f*cking.
Bad as it sounds, but this is the truth:
a guy that is going to listen to a woman's emotional rants, without having sex with her, is seen as a waste of time on his part.
Think about it...what IS he getting out of this situation? He just realized that you're either untrustworthy, too emotionally broken to be dating, or both.
There is a lot of "social capital" that goes into who you f*ck. Guys do look at a girl and get word of who she was "involved with" sexually in the past/present, and make a judgement of her.
Frankly, if a girl f*cked a bunch of (known in the male community) douchebags, then she's seen as undatable.
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