Do you guys think guys should also take care of themselves for their girls?
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I think so. Both partners should take care of themselves, in a way it's dishonest when you let yourself go after getting settled in a relationship, it implies you presented a false front to the other person, and now that you have them, you stop caring and your true self shows up. Of course it's a lot of work to keep yourself up, and people tend to be lazy.
I do get annoyed by the double standard that some women seem to hold. They insist the man should love the woman for who she is (which I agree) so he's bad if he complains she let herself go, but then when the man lets himself go, they lose interest in him.
Yes I agree with your first statement.
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I mean is it that hard to keep yourself up? I understand that over time looks fade, medical problems surface, and love occasionally fades. But I think that physical and sexual attraction is a major component of any relationship and both parties should work to keep those up for one another. Cheating and divorce is rampant (for other reasons than these too), but there are avoidable measures for it. Plus men are much more visual than women and care far more about their girls getting fat than vice-versa.
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