Most Helpful Girl
There is nothing needy or desperate about you wanting to talk to someone you had a relationship with, who suddenly pulled away.
You should really re-examine what it is that you think you deserve from a man. Don't you deserve better than this for yourself? You should not even be judging yourself badly for this, so the fact that you feel concern that you may be needy tells me that you are not expecting enough for yourself. His reasons for pulling away are his, and none of those possible reasons is your fault, they are his choice. Good luck!