How do I see him again?!

Met a lovely guy in a bar but didn't exchange contact details for lack of a better word that we were both gutless.

How or what can I do to see him again? I know chances are slim


Most Helpful Guy

  • You can go to the same bar at the same time and the same day to see if he shows up. If I was interested that's what I would do in hopes you would show up. You can even go to the bar and ask the bartender if he knows him. Leave your first name and number with the bartender in case he shows up if he returns some other time.

    If he shows up, the first thing is exchange didgets. Lol

    Good luck

    • Thank you :)

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    • Hey - stranger things have happened. if it is meant to be you will find each other...

    • Aw that's sweet thanks :-)

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What Guys Said 4

  • i would revisit that bar the same day of the week at the same time of day/nite hoping he's a regular at that bar...that imo is your best shot to reunite with him.

    Best of luck, and I hope you learned your lesson about always getting contact info.

  • Try going back to the bar and asking the bartender about him. Maybe he is a regular. Bartenders know everything.

  • Just go back to the bar a couple times. Chances are that he'll be back.

    • Couple of times close together? Or apart?

    • Close together. If you don't run into him in the next few weeks, chances will be bleak.

    • Ok thanks :)

  • Do you know his last name or have mutual friends? Maybe you can find him on Facebook. Also, Craigslist has a "missed connections" section.

    • Nope no nothing haha! Don't know whether to laugh or cry!

What Girls Said 1

  • I know how you must feel. Don't give up, no matter how slim your chances are!

    3 Months ago I talked to a guy on Chatroulette till our connection got disconnected, sadly. All I was left with was his first name and the city he lived in. 5 weeks and a LOT of effort later I found him :-)

    I hope this gives you a better feeling! You got it easy in comparison to me! Don't just go to the bar on the same day and time as when you met, hang out there more often :)

    • Are you two still together?

      I don't even know his name :(

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    • Ah OK sorry to hear that, hope it can work out somehow.

      Yes very big city, will try the bar again hoping he's there :-)

      Thank you

    • We're going through a rough patch but we're working on it :)

      Oh okay, still I don't think your chances are that slim! If you happen to see him again, let me know :)

      Good luck girl :)

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