Do women know when they're pressing their breasts against you?

The other night this girl was basically looking over my shoulder as I was doing something but I could keep feeling her boobs on my back/side. Do women know their doing this? Does it mean anything?

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  • WELL, if she happens to be wearing lots of layers (or a padded bra), there is SOME chance that she didn't realize how close she was -- however this is a stretch. I'm relatively small chested (healthy B), so if my boobs are anywhere near a guy I have to be pretty aware of what I'm doing. For women of larger sizes (D <), I can imagine that accidental contact might be possible.

    What does it mean? If she's doing it on purpose, she's stimulating a major female erogenous zone and trying to turn you on as well. You know how purposeful it is if she's reaching around for things and brushing her arm/hand against you as well, if she's wearing perfume or breathing on your neck... Anything along those lines to back up the action of having her boobs on you tells you that (1) it wasn't an accident; (2) she knows what she's doing; (3) dude, she wants you... what's taking you so long?

  • Oh yes my dear - there is no way that a prolonged contact or repetition of the type of contact you are describing is accidental.

    It could only mean that she felt lusty or it could mean that she wanted to make you sexually aware of her.

    If she is in love with you I would be careful though, because a lady that does that with you, could also do it with any other person that she feels attracted to.

    An accidental contact would be followed by either an apology or a joke or some uncomfortable response and it would not be repeated.

    Unless of course the lady in question was drunk, but even then I would find it hard to believe it was accidental.

    The breasts are quite sensitive items on a woman and any foreign contact that emits heat would be noticeable.

  • Usually you can tell, but it's hard to read anything into it as they are just out there and sometimes touching them on something is hard to avoid. I wouldn't use that as the primary factor into figuring out if she's into you.

    If she flirts with you a lot, makes a lot of time for you, makes a lot of eye contact, drops compliments, etc AND touches her boobs on you incidentally, then it may be more obvious that it's on purpose.

    • My chest is fairly sizable and I know what you mean well.

  • No. I mean, I'm aware that my breasts are pressing against a guy, but I don't really give it a second thought. I don't really think of it as a sexual thing. Sometimes breasts are just in the way and I need to press them against something to reach something else or get a better view.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think sometimes girls just taunt guys u know. They know when u pay attention to them, so maybe she didn't want anything that would get out of hand but still have a little fun.

    • Ahh, nothing like some reverse workplace Sexual harassment (sarcasm). I've been sexually harassed at work by several women. I think I'm an attractive guy but more normal in appearance (to me I'm unattractive). I've been groped, hugged from behind, leaned on, argued over, touched, grabbed by two women and pulled in two directions. I've been asked if I was straight, gay, bisexual. I've been told imagine what I can do with that male extremity (if you catch my drift). I've been used as protection (meaning someone claimed I was their boyfriend so some random would leave them alone, I'm also 6'3"). I've had women attempt to kiss me. I feel asleep in the break room on break and woke up to a woman on her knees in front of me trying to undo my pants. Yes, I know it sounds unbelievable but these happened to me. It's not funny to try to intimidate because that comes back to bite you in the ass.

    • yea i agree its kinda funny to see there faces

  • What kind of question is this lol? Unless she's got no nerve endings from the neck down I'd think she would feel it. Last I checked, breast are pretty sensitive.

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  • I can tell when it happens, but that doesn't mean I do it on purpose. Like if I'm leaning over a guy's shoulder like that, I'm not really paying attention to the boob contact.

  • I do know, so if/when I do that it's completely intentional.

  • Most women get aroused if you come anywhere close to their boobs, so I'm guessing there are lots of nerve endings in those puppies.

    If you were slow dancing with a girl and your boner was pressed against her crotch, would you know it?

  • Sometimes you just have to ask, "I'm worry, did I just elbow your boob or did you "boob" my elbow?"

  • Shhhh... they know.

  • Yes, they know, and they don't care because it's not a romantic thing most of the time.

  • it's noticeable that we are doing it cause we feel the pressure but we usually think nothing of it cause it really is just another part of the body.

  • They're aware of it. Whether they care or think it's a big deal or not is up in the air.

  • Do you think sometimes we just forget we have breasts? 😂

  • Well, it is impossible for me to avoid.

  • I call them real hugs, when a girl hugs you without bending over like your 4ft tall, I hug every girl the same, friends, family, dates etc. I like to feel the entire body hug me not just the shoulders.

  • Yes, they know.

  • It can definitely mean that she wanted your attention

  • Girls would reach around you or wait until you are finished and leave then get what they need, because they use their brains. Us men (or me at least) usually don't feel a personal space violation when we suspect someone less intimidating is approaching us. That's how she got close to you. But I'm suspecting as someone else said. She may be playing with you to see how you'd react. Especially if she could've got what she needed or do what she could've done somewhere else. She may be in to you but you need more evidence.

  • I'm a woman. getting my ticket for a ferry boat ride.. i accidentally elbow her boobs and say sorry... on my way to the boat. this same stranger woman press her boobs on my arm... we ride on same bus... on my way to get down she again press her boobs on my arm a lot of times secretly

  • no
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  • Can I press anyone boobs

  • its not an accident their touching you