I Really Desire a Relationship With a WOMAN 👩💞

[Unit1]

There is nothing wrong with being single at all. Being single has it's perks and downs and after all we have all been single at birth. For example I enjoy having to keep a little extra money for myself, not having to worry about being cheated on, not being used for my money, having more free time, not having to *discreetly* watch porn, not being obliged to buy gifts on valentines day, not enduring any nagging and so on.

But I've never had a relationship in my life and from what I can tell from such a position is, that relationships are often over-romanticized like in the movies and the media portrays it (thanks to the actors, directors and scripts), which skews our views about relationships. And others (guys mostly) say, that dating is a 'game'. How ridiculous! Games are those programs I game on my computer like call of duty. There aren't really rules to dating if any at all. JUST DATE!!! Or don't.

But I also see how in particular some women here say what they would do to their boyfriend if they had one, which seems also pretty sweet such as supporting him, cheering him, mend his wounds, hugs and massages, cooking together, morning sex and so on. Not really expecting restaurant meals or gifts. And as such I am asking myself… is this another movie or are these ladies for real?

Because women have potential and women can use that potential to charm me and many of them already do with only so little effort. The way I see it a woman *can be* a man's greatest and most priceless gift and even then the word gift would be a weak word. I am not sure about the other way around, so I'd like a feedback regarding this.

Basically I really, really crave a woman - not to eat her, goodness no; I would love to give her my love as much as she does to me. That sweet love is most likely like a drug.

In fact women became so important to our society, that if every one of them halted their labor for just a working day or two, then we would experience a big ass deficiency in production and lack of services and would basically take an impact. I need not to mention what happens when all men halt their labor just as long just to balance this sentence because we are equally as important. Which is what I ADORE in women. They became strong and independent! How awesome is that? Nah, don't tell.

I am okay being single but I can imagine being with the right woman will make the life of both of us blossom. But at times it gets lonely, I want to cuddle, have nowhere to put my love to other than my hands, want to be loved and remembered, doing fun things together, having sweet talks, massages, tickles and surprises for each other.

And a good woman would be just the right candidate for it. Unfortunately as long as I haven't been in a relationship with a lovely woman, I can only believe that love is a fairytale, unreal or just an illusion.

Nevertheless...

I really love women!
I want a woman 👩❤

(I know you will tell me to go outside and meet some women but I still wanted to leave this message here)

[MarkRet]

It's tough to find somebody who's a perfect match, and if you find somebody who's mostly a match, you both have to work around your differences. My wife and I get along good, but we have our differences too, and sometimes we annoy each other. To have ANY luck with a relationship, DON'T put women on a pedestal, or you'll never reach any of them. Just respect them, and be friendly. I'm sure there are women out there who have their own issues and insecurities, too.

[Unit1]

Worry not, my friend. I am not going to put women on a pedestal. Hell, there isn't even a pedestal, we are just on the same grounds.
Anyway those hormones are out of control for sure.

[DiegoO]

Wise advice: "DON'T put women on a pedestal", if you do you will end up loosing respect for yourself and and they surely will loose respect for you.

[SteppingOnRoses]

I hope you find a good woman who will love you with all she has.

And I think most guys that are taken or married, at some point felt the same as you.

I have heard it from at least 2 sources.

So keep the hope, because if they found someone good for them, you can also.

[Unit1]

Thank you, kind lady :) ♥♥♥☺😍

[JudgmentDay]

If it happens then it will happen eventually. If it doesn't happen, then it just doesn't happen. Over time, it no longer got to me since I see it and realized that it is just as empty like everything and and anything else. I keep in mind that physical appearances don't last forever, and even feelings and desires can change thus over time people change how they feel about each other, though the longer they been together from the beginning the deeper the emotional attachment and/or connection such as a scenario or situation where a guy and a girl are friends that are close throughout their childhood early years and in their teen years, etc.. Coping mechanisms, if you weren't feeling lonely or capable of feeling lonely then there wouldn't be the desire of wanting a companion a friend or somebody that you can be with. Cause and effect from desires what what you are able and capable of sensing and feeling. I just learn to cope with it by learning to take deep breaths, try and keep a clear head and just relax and drink something cold like ice water. And also to go somewhere to see something outside, anywhere that might be interesting, whether a museum, a zoo, a park, an aquarium, a shopping center or anywhere where I can take my mind off from feeling down and unhappy dealing with the emptiness cold void. Maybe have a chat or two with a stranger here and there when I'm out checking out any possible interesting places, since I don't have the means to really travel and take a nice long vacation somewhere from from home.

Just have to learn how to control the pain and emptiness, learn and figure out how you can disconnect from it as much as possible and not have to dwell on it and concentrate on it so much. And besides we both know our time is limited here and life is really shorter than we all think or expect it to be, so let's just go out there do something, find something fun, new and interested to watch, do, explore, etc. Because that clock is ticking, every second passed, we ain't gonna get it back, and we won't get another chance to go back, rewind, do over, and change the past.

[Unit1]

Time is very short in fact. I have wasted my teen years in vain because i had no control over my life then thanks to the stupid laws, that exist.
Since then i make every minute count, even if that means lying completely lazy on the bed for hours. It's still something invested in yourself.
I have so many plans and so little time and resources. A woman might be near impossible to find for me. As you noticed, i feel having a relationship with a woman has quite an importance to me since at times mother nature tortures me for failing to do so. It's what you call a coping mechanism. I just would never bring any more taxpaying soldiers and soldier-incubators to this world because that would be only cruel for me to do. Besides i can help a woman through hard times also, so i see no harm in it at all.

[levantine99]

all women telling you "there is someone for you!" and "i hope you find your match" are 1) giving you false hopes, 2) are themselves quite ignorant about the human animal's attraction as most processes happen subconsciously, multitaskingly and instantaneously.

what you need is to get more alpha, have a life of your own, embrace hardships and progress and getting your ego facade crushed. you need to develop a social circle, start having female friends, and one day you'll land a lady as well. and practice. practice makes perfect. learn the basics from someone that knows and approach women every day. no magic crane will land a woman on your crotch why you scratch you beerbelly in front of your tv... .

[levantine99]

while you scratch*

[Unit1]

I was upvoting you until you used the word alpha. Disappointing.

[levantine99]

it exists. call it "successful", "with core confidence", "socially savvy", "the prime leader of the wolf pack", whatever term helps you sleep better at nights.

[Unit1]

Nein 😑

[levantine99]

denial will yield no results. get your ego facade crushed we said. your ego facade now says to stay in denial. instead you should go on the table of a bar and sing half naked and flirt with all girls in there. dat ego wall needs to fall somehow. you should tap your inner power and presense a bit or you'll stay creepy for a life.

[tesm69]

I like scratching my beer belly
In front of the TV. And other parts of my Anotomy:0=)

[Browneye57]

Real men love real women.
You would likely benefit from better game. I recommend you go here and read at least the first two years' blogs by Rollo: www.therationalmale.com

A better understanding of how they think and how they operate you help you navigate the mine field of relationships. It's a cruel world out there. :)

But the right woman is just waiting for you to come along. Hit the gym, hard, and make LOTS of money - you'll have best pick of what's available.

[Unit1]

Gold diggers, who think they have worth comparable to my salary... No thanks. I rather stay single then.

[Browneye57]

You're missing the point. ALL women (AWALT) do what we call 'provisioning'. They want to know that you can support them in their lifestyle along with the 84 children they want to have with you. It's a feature, not a bug. The more money you have the more power - they also are drawn to that like moths to flame.

[Unit1]

So if some guy makes more money than i do then by your logic she will cheat on me and abandon me and jump to him. Are you a MGTOW?

[Browneye57]

She might, but not likely if you've upheld your end of the bargain, your burden of performance. She's more likely to leave if you get fat and lazy and ignore her.

I've been married for 25 years to my second wife, almost 30 years with her. The first divorce cost me right about a half-a-mil.

And no, if something happened to her I'd likely have a revolving door, or just lots of plates. I simply LOVE women. I love how they look, how they smell, how they walk, their quirky little bullshit they do, and the SEX! When they become a bore or a burden then they would get the boot.

[Unit1]

Huh. Okay.
Well i love women too in every aspect there is. I think you make sense now regarding doing those things and having the best pick. But that seems somewhat stereotypical to me.

Half a million dollars for a divorce? No thanks, no marriage for me. I can save that money and build some home improvements with that amount of cash.

[Browneye57]

You might get something out of this mens site as well: www.illimitablemen.com

There's a pretty good blog on game there as well. Rollo really hits it though. The better you understand how the female brain works the better off you'll be. As we like to say, their quirky bullshit is a feature, not a bug. Understanding it and why let's you shrug it off. And you need to be an expert and dealing with shit-tests cuz THEY ALL DO IT. They'll even admit to it if you recognize it and point it out. It's just how they operate.

I don't think I'd marry again either. I didn't want to marry my second, but she insisted so I caved. She did follow me across the country though, and wanted to buy a house with me, so she was committed. I told her I would make her an honest woman. First she wanted a ring, then marriage, then a kid. I already had two, but how can you deny a woman a child if that's what she wants? So I agreed but it had to be a boy since I had two daughter. She managed to do that too. -->cont

[Browneye57]

So now he's grown and is the most successful of the three, a brilliant young man with a master's degree and a six-figure job out of college. And he's engaged to a girl we don't think is good enough for him. The writing is on the wall... as they say. :)

The other two are also very well adjusted adults, happy and successful. It wasn't always so easy. Their mother was a cunt. I dumped her thirty years ago after several affairs.

I moved out of a million-dollar mansion into a 800 square foot apartment with two girls. Happy as a pig in shit. :) Ex was more heartbroken from losing her house than her man. Oh well as they say.

[Browneye57]

*... isn't good enough...

[Unit1]

Yup. I am going to stay single for sure. Because there is no game. I am a sausage peta wuss 😋

[DooMguy]

I. . . I think you might of lost your way

pbs.twimg.com/.../Gz_Mi-mO.jpg

Have you been on nexus mods recently?

media.giphy.com/media/QDK1pCI43lGhO/giphy.gif

[Unit1]

Nope. Are there girlfriend mods available?

[DooMguy]

well kind of. . . I've seen mods for fallout 4 + NV that will give you a female companion if you're into that. . .

Plus you can get the female super mutants mod and make strong your G. F if you want

[Unit1]

Nope. I need a real woman and a real girlfriend

i1.kym-cdn.com/.../eaZrosc.png

[DooMguy]

W-what about a QT trap GF?

i.warosu.org/data/g/img/0458/49/1419926782962.jpg

[Unit1]

What's that supposed to mean? Also is this woman experiencing that feel when no bf?

[DooMguy]

QT = cute

cute trap G. F.

Do you want one? That's right, traps get those kind of feels when they don't have a B. F

[Unit1]

Like i said, i want a real relationship with a real mythical creature we call... Women 👩😍

[DooMguy]

But. . . they are called women though, I'll set you up with this QT trap I found @ElizaPam

[Unit1]

I don't understand what that is...

[ElizaPam]

Lol I'm already with someone :p

[Unit1]

Meet me up with a woman 👩. :))))

[DooMguy]

don't worry about it bro, all you need to know is that I've got your back

@ElizaPam that's nothing to worry about. . . so this 'someone' are they any good or are you just with them 'for now' ?

[Unit1]

Thanks bro

[Charlotte0204]

You'll know when u find the right one. Just don't make the assumption, assuming they're right when in reality they're sneaky buggers😂Cause unfortunately there are some real nasties out there.

[Unit1]

Yeah. Unfortunately the nasties can be really deceptive. I hope I will land one, who is not deceiving but loves me with her entire heart.

[Charlotte0204]

There are plenty around still :) glad there aren't still decent males around like u who want to cherish just one female and not the whole entire population 🙄

[Unit1]

"glad there aren't still decent males around like u who want to cherish just one female and not the whole entire population"

Wait, what?
Did you mean there ARE?

I would love to make one girl very happy and I would like to be made happy in return also :)
Hugs, cuddles, massages AND ESPECIALLY tickles 😍😍😍 all of that I would love to have with a special girl, that has me as her special boyfriend 😢

I cannot resist tickles! If a girl tickles me, then that's it! I'm down and fallen and charged with endorphine and serotonin. It makes me fall for her very hard and deep 😍

[Robertinho]

Hmmm... you kind of remind me of myself back when i was your age my friend. The problem is im not 22... im now 32 and yes i myself have never had a girlfriend... not by choice but by destiny. All the girls that i wanted, needed, liked and or loved, were always taken. I always wanted to have a chance to meet that special one and tell them and show them how much i really cared, and love them all the way. Unfortunately, destiny had and has other plans for me. What i can tell you is that in real life, there aren't real happy endings all the time... and thats the unfortunate true. I wish you the best, and perhaps there is still time for you because you are still very young... but remember this is real life, and sometimes reality really hurts.

[Unit1]

@Robertinho thanks for those words of inspirations! I am afraid, that i can only relate to your situation as well as expecting to be there where you are now. Life is just what it is.
Maybe love is what i said earlier a fairy tale, unreal and delusions. At least in it's highest probability.

But i have a journey being single to enjoy rather than to suffer from. Those wounds of being single will harden me and mold me while never having a girlfriend until i am a man of your age.

[ThisDudeHere]

Really dude, I do not intend to diss, but how many times will you be leaving exactly this message here, as you did just now and many times before?

I mean, what's the objective reason to focus on this particular subject matter, repeatedly so?

[Unit1]

Get used to it. There will be more 👩♥👩💕👩💖👩💞👩

[Unit1]

OH LOOK! A WOMAN!!!
68.media.tumblr.com/.../...a8yp0m1v10q19o1_500.jpg

[Jager66]

"The way I see it a woman *can be* a man's greatest and most priceless gift and even then the word gift would be a weak word. I am not sure about the other way around, so I'd like a feedback regarding this."

Ohhh boy.. Someone is going to get their world turned upside down, right after their heart gets ripped out their asshole when reality comes knocking.

[Unit1]

MGTOW?

[Jager66]

No not MGTOW, just a regular guy.

[jacquesvol]

I'm pretty sure there are women who feel the same. Don't ask me where you can find them: usually they hide it, to be safe from players.

[Unit1]

What's funny is that if you are trying to get them open up to you or you are just being friendly to them, hoping it would turn out good then some of them jump quickly into the conclusion, that you are just trying to get into their pants and jet. I see it as their loss, not mine. Because i got no time for games 😛😎

[jacquesvol]

You see it as their loss, not mine. Because you "got no time for games." But you complain about not getting game.

[Unit1]

What? How does that even make sense?

[jacquesvol]

If there someone has problems, he's usually part of the problem.

[Asad1ONE1]

Ofcourse they're for real wtf? You're not a women so you wouldn't know. Opposites attract. Women probably wonder the same thing – whether men feel the same way about them or not lol.

[Unit1]

That's relieving. I'd be happy if i find a quality woman desiring a quality boyfriend.

[Asad1ONE1]

They're everywhere.

[Unit1]

Not here 😭😥😟 nobody wants to split the bill or to not drain my finances.
But to be honest its why i rarely even tried.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes here! They are not revealing!

[Unit1]

That's sad. I want to find her... 💔 and making sure, that she doesn't care about my money.

[Asad1ONE1]

IC and we'll written man. Wasn't it you I spoke with the other day about kiss-less virgins? Lol

[Unit1]

Yeah, that was me. A kissless virgin, who never had a girlfriend in his life.

[Asad1ONE1]

Still very young act NOW!! But look around thoroughly. Not desperately – the reason for relationship troubles in our 🌎.

[Asad1ONE1]

... or don't do anything at all that's that's another problem entirely. And you must know what I mean lol.

[Unit1]

Easier said than done. I can't connect with the women from this culture. My future is inevitable, immutable and out of my control. Whatever comes will come and i will survive.

[Asad1ONE1]

You must try, especially if you never even did so.

[Unit1]

That's all i can do. Really.

I really would.
But i am occupied with a full time job and full time studies at the same time. I don't live with my parents anymore so the household chores and cooking is falling on me also. Then i also require to sleep a minimum of 8 hours per day.
Weekends are an option as long as i have no tasks from the university since i am doing these on weekends.

[Asad1ONE1]

Ofcourse all priorities aside, try to find a gal pal. But you can't talk about faliure if you've never tried lol.

[Unit1]

That's too right mate. I would love to associate myself with women just in general.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes do it when you feel comfortable! Thanks to online technology as well! But never forget the importance of what you're currently doing lol.

[Unit1]

My studies and career, indeed. It's the only thing providing me with a living fundamentally.
I do feel comfortable being around women but if anything, i am actually missing women.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes try to find a compatible friend you can connect and chat with at times.

[Asad1ONE1]

... online or person. Although I prefer online because options and personalities are more readily available to choose from.

[Unit1]

I kind of prefer online too because outside in one place or city you will mostly deal with people from just one and the same culture, often times they are plain or the same, which is boring and predictable, making those people not really worth your time. No disrespect!

I will just bring one example: If everyone is a homophobe because of it's trend and then suddenly you find someone, who is not a homophobe for once (and finds homophobia ridiculous), who will you find more interesting interacting with? This one is just an example where an entire culture was associated with a negative trait. I think you understand my point.

[Asad1ONE1]

Lol!

[Asad1ONE1]

But I believe ones DNA is more involved in deciding personality than ones culture. Everyone is different. Good luck!

[Unit1]

Cheers mate! 😀

[BobbyC65]

I'm in the same boat.
(HQ) Rod Stewart - Some Guys Have All The Luck (official music video)

https://youtu.be/sY2WIFGQttE

[John_Doesnt]

I think you want a relationship with a girl, not a woman. Women are old and things sag.

[Anonymous]

Yeah there are many things that just can't be changed and are beyond our control

[CT_CD]

"Basically I really, really crave a woman - not to eat her, goodness no"

You're supposed to eat her

[John_McStarrison]

Hey man, good luck, you'll find her someday ✌️❤️

[Unit1]

Cheers pal ✊😎

[nbbn5]

i feel the same but i think it comes for everyone

[DiegoO]

Just get a girlfriend, easy as that.

[Midget_Hug]

Romanticism. The ultimate delusion.