Relationship Goals -
A couple who are the best couple out there. They are power couple. Everyone wants to be like them
Source: Urban Dictionary
The definition you read may sound Unrealistic. You may say that Relationship goals are impossible to achieve. They may be impossible, may be a perfect couple doesn't exist but that doesn't mean we should not give it a try.
Many relationship goals are simple, possible to have in our daily life. This isn't about doing something big by spending large amount of money. We can achieve happiness from small things we do every day.
1. Do Something New Once a Month
It doesn't matter what it is, but make it new. A new restaurant, a new city, a new activity even a new sex position just commit to mixing it up. When you try new things together you are creating shared experiences that are new and exciting. That shared excitement is a way to have both closeness and stimulation.
2. Create a Couple Bubble
A couple bubble reinforces the goal of prioritizing your relationship by thinking in terms of "WE" rather than "me". This is hard to achieve as it requires viewing yourself as part of a team first, above your independent needs and habits. But rather than inter depending you, it strengthens you because each person feels safe. You know you have each othe's backs, and you create a space of reassurance and protection that keeps relationship healthy and strong.
3. Keep remembering what you love about one another
NO matter how annoyed or angry you can be with you SO, you need to able to focus on positive. Keep reminding yourself why your partner, it will make you love him/her better.
4. Communication with kindness
When we feel hurt, angry or frustrated, it's so easy to lash out and say hurtful things. Sometimes we employ passive- aggressive words and behavior, using subtle digs, manipulation to express how we feel. Both overt and covert words and behaviors like these are deeply wounding. and over time they accumulate enough to cause serious problems in a relationship. You lose trust, mutual respect and eventually love.
5 Find away to give back
It's too easy to get introspective as a couple. You're so focused on each other and each yourselves that you can forget the world outside. Make sure you're doing something to give back together. Find a cause to donate too or volunteer opportunities to take a part in and make it a goal to help others.
6. Support one another's goals
As important as it is to create a couple bubble in your relationship, you are two individuals who have goals and dreams of your own. Having your own goal and dreams doesn't undermine your connection as a couple. On the contrary, it should enhance your relationship as each partner has something interesting to bring to the relationship.
That's all from my side :)
Let me know what are your goals also what do you think about this take
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