How do you feel about being ghosted by someone who ghosted not just you but everyone they know because they're depressed? Would you want to still be friends later when they're better?
My recently ex boyfriend of three years ghosted me about three weeks ago. He has depression and has done this before, but for no more than five days. He will never get better. He is on medication, but often stops taking it. He refuses to see a therapist. He was also emotionally abusive towards me on a regular basis. I ended up taking his things and bringing them to his house and placing them on his back deck since he wouldn't talk to me. Hopefully he found them and will take the hint. I want nothing to do with him. It could be different for other people though.
Ghosting is the act of an asshole. People ghost because they don't want to be seen like the jerks that they are. It takes courage to text someone, and politely tell someone that it is no longer working. When you could maintain a friendship. But many today take the easy way out for themselves, and treat people like shit. Ghosting is for cowards!
@Astoriana I had this happen to me! Lol 😂 I told the boy that I didn't see us having a relationship or being close friends, as I felt we didn't have anything at all in common. I told him that he was a interesting, kind young man, and wished him well in the future.
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Or just act like a grown up and keep living your life.
give up on the male gender? feeemmmmennnnnnist!
Or... or... orrrr... Lesbian?
How do you feel about being ghosted by someone who ghosted not just you but everyone they know because they're depressed? Would you want to still be friends later when they're better?
My recently ex boyfriend of three years ghosted me about three weeks ago. He has depression and has done this before, but for no more than five days. He will never get better. He is on medication, but often stops taking it. He refuses to see a therapist. He was also emotionally abusive towards me on a regular basis. I ended up taking his things and bringing them to his house and placing them on his back deck since he wouldn't talk to me. Hopefully he found them and will take the hint. I want nothing to do with him. It could be different for other people though.
Ok, I've read all this... But where's the protocol how not to get ghosted? :D
No one should be basing their self-esteem on other people's stupid behavior...
Ghosted and been ghosted a few times. It's not nice but sometimes it seems like the lesser of two evils
Ghosting is the act of an asshole. People ghost because they don't want to be seen like the jerks that they are. It takes courage to text someone, and politely tell someone that it is no longer working. When you could maintain a friendship. But many today take the easy way out for themselves, and treat people like shit. Ghosting is for cowards!
@Poppykate do inform me of the polite way to tell someone “I never want to see you again because you creep me the hell out.”
@Astoriana I had this happen to me! Lol 😂 I told the boy that I didn't see us having a relationship or being close friends, as I felt we didn't have anything at all in common. I told him that he was a interesting, kind young man, and wished him well in the future.
@Poppykate but you lied to him, no?
@Poppykate Very well said Poppykate!! :-)
Good analysis
just send idiot away
lmao xx
Excellent lol
Will probably never stop
Happens so often
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Excellent myTake
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Interesting