20 Struggles of Being in an Interracial Relationship 💔 (Page 2)
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Yeah, uh... almost none of these are true. I'm in an interracial relationship, whatever that's supposed to mean, and no one around me has been anything other than supportive and whatever. It's a normal relationship; why wouldn't it be? The only one that's even *kind of* true is 15.
Hahahaha these are so true. To make things worse for me, my boyfriend isn’t only a different race, he’s also from a different country. His family is super nice though so I can’t complain.
Ohhhh. That's cool, a nice family
I've only been in interracial relationships a few times so I didn't really experience any of those struggles except my dad is a biggot and he never met any of them.
biggot?
Yeah, almost the same thing as racist.
I can agree on some of these, but not in my area. It's very common to see interracial relationships. I come from a small town that is very diversed.
Oh that's cool. I wanna visit the town now
Lol. You're welcome to. :3
This seems entirely true 35 years ago when I was in high school. Not so much now. Went through 10 kinds of hell dating a black woman in 1982.
what happened?
She was a Navy brat who grew up in Japan. Spoke fluent Japanese. A year older than me. She wasn't "black enough" for the afrocentric crown. "You think you white". We began dating and EVERYONE had a problem with it. My parents: "What will the neighbors think". . Her parents. "What about the children if you 2 get married". White men: "Nigger lover". Black men. "Sellout". Got in a fight about once a month. If the world had left us alone we would have dated 2 months. Since the world fucked with us we ended up dating for 2 years. Aside from musical tastes we didn't have a whole lot in common except for the fact that we both believed that who we dated was no one else's business.
I agree, but the "Sellout" they really called him sellout? I usually get the "Self hate" bullshit when I even remotely say I'm attracted to a girl that's not my race/ethnicity
@lacorine197 Black men called her a sellout. White and black women didn't have a problem with it.
It's still true.
Good my take. Although I was lucky enough that where I live it's not abnormal. So I didn't really run into those problems. It was my ex when I was interracial, but it wasn't that that made us breakup, but the distance.
He for sure did give me a special place in my heart for Indian guys. Although That's not a fetish. Because I am currently dating a white guy and have dated almost all the different types
14 is pretty accurate:
14. Some people will assume that you only like people of that race
Most people especially black people tend to date white people, because they think white people treat them better and look better.
well agree with the look better... but not necessarily treat them better
i think another reason is just some people want to get rid of their African roots.
You think that white people look better? How so?
i don't necessarily say they look better... there is just variety with them.
So... what's your reason for dating white men? It's not bad or anything... lol. I'm just curious.
I don't know... there is no reason... love is love
But there has to be a reason, because you like white men more than any race... correct?
um not necessarily true
Explain.
I like white guys because the variety in hair colour, eye colour and looks
you can get brown eyes with blonde hair or blue eyes and black hair or green eyes and red hair.
but with black people you can get
black hair and dark brown eyes. and that's pretty much it
but i also like black guys, they seem to be raised better and don't do as much drugs as white people and black guys understand your culture more and its better that way. the parents would be happy
but white guys there is an adventure, find out a new culture... but the fam won't be pleased
this isn't facts... i'm basically stating from wut i've experienced. i'm not saying all white people or all black people are like that
I understand :). I was just curious. Thanks for your answer.
np :)
You aren't even a thing yet but ur here on g@g talkin like ur in a relationship
lmaooooo
Oiiii it's a sequel to my first bit... calm yourself
coz if u didn't read all the ppl's replies they got annoyed coz i didn't say any struggles
so i decided to make one of struggles
Jesus calm your tits
@Richareens loool who should calm
ahahaha i got 2 thumbs down but they dont know im ur best friend
YEAH we've been best friends for YEARS
little do they know IM UR NUMBER ONE SUPPORTER AND ILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR U UNLIKE THOSE 2 PEOPLE WHO DISLIKED
she was kidding guys
Bruh that last one had me weeaakkk cuz the lighting issue
yooo ikr
Thankfully I haven't had these problems in any of my interracial relationships.
You are very lucky and i hope you continue to not face these problems
I feel this happens in smaller cities and rural towns, when i lived in NY I had A black girlfriend, then a Chinese girlfriend and never had any problems
Lol I was looking at 20 and thought, man that picture is to washed out on that guy then I saw the other ones.
LOL, #20 reminded me of when I was at a club and three girls asked me to take a picture of them together. One was white, one was Asian and one was black. It took me three tries to get the black girl to show up as more than eyes and teeth.
I've had 12 and 14 happen to me but that's it. Most of the guys I dated have been white but I don't think I've gotten most of what's on this Take.
I agree. It is worth being in a interracial relationship or marriage. Great Intake.
I think you need similar values and goals. And yes the kids may have ID problems depending on where they live. This can happen due to ethnicity or religion. They need identity.
I am mixed and I don't have problem to identify myself o. o''
you mistake the invention of races of white and black as a real thing and that's why you've already failed
There are some that be about same race couples and they are: 1, 2, 3, 10, 11, 13, 15, 17, 19 and maybe 20.
Damn, with that many problems I'd rather stick with my own. Nah just joking lol. Dating different races doesn't really matter much to me. I'm not wanting anything serious. Just fun. Even when it comes to dating my own race.