How to Deal With Rejection?

[Anonymous]

You finally have the courage to tell your crush about your feelings yet you are being rejected. That really sucks! But you can deal with it, can't you?

It might be because of wrong timing

When we like someone, we think that they like us back. We misread their behaviors. We analyze everything they do and say. If you are being rejected, you might not have an attraction. I mean, they don't know enough to feel attraction and that may be the main reason they reject you.

You are not undateable

Sometimes being rejected can make you feel that you are undateable. But that's not true. You are just not compatible with that person.

Cut that person off completely

Once you are being rejected, cut all your ties with that person. Delete on social media and don't text. So that you will let the time heal your wound. You will eventually forget about them even if you feel like you will never forget.

[Just_a_human]

I've never told anyone that I liked them because I knew I would be rejected. I just avoid looking at them/thinking about them and the attraction

[Blondie80]

Move on, he is not the one for you. This is a clear fact.

[es20490446e]

Either two people want the same or they don't, it's that simple.

If they don't want the same as you, simply move to someone that does.

[SirMeme]

Results may vary

[F1r3byte]

The best way to deal with it is not to deal with it. Sometimes, the lazy way is the best way. Just do other things you find important and don't bother dealing with rejection. Dealing with it won't get you anywhere and just waste your time.

[BrittBratt2416]

I would just cry it out, it usually helped me a lot when I was younger a little bit. It will still hurt a bit but not as much once you just let it all out.

[Kkaos]

I've been rejected plenty of times. If I cried about every one of them I'd be a complete mess. Best to toughen up and laugh it off.

[BrittBratt2416]

@Kkaos Rejection hurts, its normal to feel down about it. Some people brush it off, some people have to release it emotionally. I release it emotionally in order to get over it.

[Kkaos]

The only reason people brush it off is because they've been through it a lot. If something happens to you all the time, it won't effect you to the same degree.. It's call desensitization.

[Super2nd]

This !!!

[Happyme2017]

Time to move on. Just like Black and white televisions gave way to color. Although they made them upto the 1990s.

[Anonymous]

“You are not undateable” well let’s set this straight. White women love black men and don’t really date white men, now, in America. So if your a white guy that prefers white women your screwed and you gonna die alone.

[Kkaos]

Lol, this crap again. Cool, buddy. Don't know what you're trying to achieve by going on about this make believe bullshit.

[Eyes_On_Me]

@Kkaos Ikr? Try being East Asian and hearing jokes about how we're unattractive sooo frequently.

[Anonymous]

You will eventually forget about them even if you feel like you will never forget.

8 years and I still haven't forgotten...

[coolbreeze]

Great points and nice tips.

[Anonymous]

I move on every time. I am honestly forever alone

[NoOne_Special]

Rejection hurts

[Marinepilot]

Ghost them.

[Kkaos]

Very stupid and immature thing to do. It won't help you and it will make you look pathetic.

[Marinepilot]

@Kkaos Like you would really know little boy. She doesn't owe you a relationship.
And me don't own women friendships.

[Kkaos]

Don't call me little boy when your advice is to ignore someone and pretend they don't exist because they rejected you. Ever heard of being polite and civil? What are you going to say if they try to talk to you? Cover your ears with your hands and start parroting 'I can't hear you! nanananana!". Pathetic.

[Marinepilot]

@Kkaos Eat your vegetable mangina !

[Kkaos]

Yep - Another pathetic and immature response. Surprise surprise.

[Marinepilot]

@Kkaos Fine, you're the kind of mangina who will marry a single mothers. Settle foe damaged and used women, because that's all beta faggot momma's boys like you can attract.

[Kkaos]

No, now you're just describing yourself.

[Anonymous]

Move on...