This is not really always that true. Far too many times I experience the girls jumping on the guys, they're not particularly attractive but they all manage to get girls in bed with very little effort, whilst the girls have a much harder time. Plus to be honest dudes with that reputation don't get looked upon very nicely in my social circles, the word "stud" is hardly ever used, "slut" or "manslut" is a pretty common term.
I remember you from another post... hey, my words aren't written in stone. Its just what usually happens. according to your comment, either them guys are desperate as hell, or the women are ugly as fuck.
Yes, i just said some ignorant shit. but really? look closer...
nah, I think it's just the new generation, it's starting to even out a little more, but in my early adolescence this was definitely the case. I to be honest do not really want to be around people that have this mindset anyway, guys or girls, because they are clearly more interested in their own self-gratification than actually having sex.
ok... im lost... before i address why... let me ask a couple questions... you do know you are part of the generation you are dissing right? Also... who are you talking about? who don't you want to be around?
I'm not dissing, I'm saying it's more egalitarian than it use to be, but I don't really like the shaming aspect of society in general, regardless of the generation. I don't want to be around people that judge one another for their sexual exploits, it's born out of either insecurity or selfishness.
Funny how you think it’s women’s fault that the concept of sluts exist, and yet, the majority of the time, it’s men that call women sluts in the first place.
I bet you also think it’s our fault if a man doesn’t respect us after we have sex with him. Because, you know, we gave it up too easily.
A lot of guys have gotten laid without that much trouble. In fact it's even easier in these times, and women's standards aren't that high cuz many will sleep with a guy if he's a badass, and he doesn't have to work hard to get her into bed.
I personally don't care how many guys a woman has been fucked by - sometimes it's even sexy. And I definitely don't care how many girls a guy has fucked.
Your 90-10 theory is unfortunately incorrect regarding women. Women love sex, they can't do without it. Hell, in my experience as an asexual man who has sex with his partners, women aren't even ok with getting sex if i'm not super into it. The vast majority of women can't do without sex in a relationship.
"Everyone has that one thing that they look for in a relationship that they can’t do without (90), and the one (or ones) that they can do without (10) the backburner." - You
"Women (and I’m talking generally or stereotypically here…whichever floats your boat) want the romantic surface stuff (90)…dates, flowers, movies, attention, etc, but they want sex too (10)…some can go without that" - Also you
This mytake is BS, couldn't read it all, and it's sad it's so popular... Those "studs" are nothing more than male sluts, only idiots "praise" them... I personally have less respect for male than female sluts, cause males are by default the ones who initiate the intimacy, and who can more easily reject it... And what do you have supporting that "90-10 theory"? It doesn't even make sense logically.
Why do you hate people who keep their virginity for marriage? They want to keep sex to only one person and be committed in that relationship. Why would that bother you? It's their choice. Maybe it makes you and others like you feel insecure about yourselves because maybe people like you have trouble with commitments?
Im really holding back from drilling into you because you do have a point... or at least had it at first... but then you attacked me in the second half... but i will be civil and explain.
Im not against them, im just saying its a bad idea, but if you are like me.. and have met a ton of these people... you start to see a trend. You think being a virgin means they are the only ones that can be committed? then you are as moronic as they are.
You are damn right it is their choice... just like its their choice to wait for the "right" person to give the virginity to right? then they fuck up and the person (or them) leaves... then what?
My point is... they make stupid assumptions... restricting themselves to some shit that they can't tell...(the future).. sure there are some people that have gotten lucky and their first was their last... but thats what? 2% of the fucking dating population?
99 percent of the population of people who are no longer virgins all wish they had sex for the first time with the person they will marry. All of us will always remember our first time having sex and we don't enjoy having memories of a ex or someone who we don't really respect.
I don't rationalize or excuse my behavior. That is what you are doing, you want to excuse your behavior of trying to have sex with countless women as it's a respectable trait because it's hard work compared to sluts.
And from my experience most people aren't having sex with multiple partners as much as the gossip claims they are. A lot of people like to assume and make things up, guy's enjoy the title of having multiple women cuz it increases their respect among other men. Girl's will bash other girl's with slut shaming because it's a method to increase their own respect among women by looking more pure.
Stop believing the hype, there's a whole lotta bullshit with these social norms that are created by betas.
Well as a woman who is a virgin I think there are a variety of reasons a woman might choose to be abstinent or celibate. It’s not just one reason. For me, virginity is something I wanted to lose but in a loving relationship. It doesn’t have to be THE one but it needs to be a good guy? And i haven’t really come across very many men that were willing to commit, ergo my virgin status. Virginity is not real and it’s not used to lord over men and women like. I think women generally want to be virgins because they understand sex and sexuality mean a lot to men. Women are judged and eliminated by it, they are criticized by other women regardless of what they do. So ultimately, you choose to wait it out; some people wait until marriage others wait (like me) until someone decent come along. But even then, even when I explicitly say “sex could happen but I need to know if you’re serious about seeing me” it turns men off. As if to say, “why haven’t YOU had sex yet?” There’s no way to win
@JustAnotherGirlie That last paragraph of yours... and tons of women do this and its fucking irritating. you want a solid guarantee... in exchange for a possibility? thats bullshit. And thats why its a turn off. Hell, i hate the "not ready" excuse... but i think yours is even worse. FYI, virginity US used to lord over men.. you just said they generally want to be virgins because sex is important to men. NO... SPREADING our seed is important to men... lol.. just as nature made us. But to do that we need women, and its not just one. in this day and age, virginity ain't shit anymore. Back then it showed that she wasn't whoring around... but back then... women weren't initiating divorce every 5 seconds. The marriage lasted. It was written in stone. Now virginity is just a hassle. Why? why marry someone who knows nothing.
Lastly.. you said it doesn't have to be The One, but he has to be willing to commit... im guessing forever? isn't that the same thing as the one?
I’m so confused about what you’re talking about. Dating is a negotiation concerning the terms sex will happen. And since sex (especially for first timers) is quite an intimate act, it makes perfect sense to require some sort of investment before vaginal intercourse. The first time does matter, and it matters who you do it with. You need to be at least comfortable and I’m not sure id feel entirely comfortable using my sex life so frivolously when I know I want someone who cares about me. Commitment doesn’t equal marriage. Stop acting like dating exclusively puts you out - it’s not a marriage proposal. If you don’t like me enough to see ONLY me then why should I have sex with you? What do I gain from losing my innocence to someone who doesn’t give a rats ass about my pleasure or comfort? Like I said, women are damned if they do, damned if they don’t. Men judge you harshly either way so I’m going to continue to have these standards. They’re not even that high, they’re quite reasonable.
@JustAnotherGirlie And how many women have you dated... and had to fulfill those requirements for again? you think this happens with just ONE woman requiring this? that shit doesn't end with one. ALL of them want those requirement... the shit fucking adds up. I got basically dissed one time when i took some chick out... and I said my budget was $100. she called me cheap... now, im 28... these figures are fictional by the way. Lets say since HS i started dating and hit on 600 girls... about 130 who say yes... and get reject by 25. and lets assume I've kept the budget as 100 per date. (not true, assuming). thats 105 x 100... that $10,500 I've spent and where are those cunts now? and this is just the FIRST DATES ONLY. Women always think its just them... no... there were/are/will be others. and we have to consider all that. ugh... im going to start my series.
Why are you bringing money into this? I don’t get why commitment = money to you? You have a weird almost pathetic way of looking at relationships. All I said was that commitment is necessary before I can take you seriously and invest emotionally into someone - and that’s expressed via sex. Not a hard concept to follow. None of that had anything to do with money. And for the record, you can date without spending exorbitant amounts of money. Most of my dates are quality time and are virtually FREE. We can grab a coffee, go to a festival and I particularly enjoy hikes. The point is to go to a location, get to know each other and see if we are a good fit. Money doesn’t factor in - we aren’t getting married or apartment hunting. Sorry if you’ve been taken advantage of but most women want effort and that doesn’t always equate to money spent. But hey, why listen to me. I only have a vagina and hundreds of female friends to verify
@JustAnotherGirlie loving that last line.. nice word play. but don't forget, you DID say financial security right? so from the get go, a man is pressured to kinda show he can provide that. I mean, now... i don't pay for shit. i don't care anymore. Im actually agreeing with you, but where are those females that don't care about money? where? My view is realistic for a guy. You won't get it because you are a girl.
(still didn't answer my question as to how many women YOU have approached/dated.) step into our shoes darling. you assume, just the way i do.
@Tdieseler You clearly hang out with a different social clique than @JustAnotherGirlie I can tell from your mindset and hers that you consider dating just a means for a sexual experience.
Her opinion reveals that she believes in things like love and a long lasting relationship. She gave you clues with the words commitment.
Both of you summarize the differences in genders and how the majority perceive relationships. Girls want men who are committed to them if they do have sex with them, and Guy's want girls to recognize their hard work of trying to seduce them.
I think both of you can help yourselves in analyzing what each other's wants and needs. Because if you truly love another person, you should give them what they want and they should give you want you want. That's what love is, meeting the other half way.
@GracefulCharm , if you have read about my 90-10 theory, you will find out that everyone goes for their 90. they work hard to get their 90 because is most likely their partner won't give it to them. and in generalizing, i said that for guys, that 90 is sex. so maybe it seems like thats what i want... but there is a 10, which is the shit i can do without. and that 10? is HER 90. that future looking, commitment, lovey dovey shit... and guess who is working to get her 90... HER. its a tug of war. To be honest, I've never had a problem with my dating experience. i know how to make a woman happy in every way but i also know they can be insane. So what i do is break em down first... show them hell... then raise em back up.. and then they have a choice. hell, or where you are at. suffice to say, many don't choose hell. Its gonna be referenced in one of Diesel's Rantisodes... its on my profile if you wanna take a look. or here.
@GracefulCharm I think you’re not giving me enough credit here. Women like me are pragmatic and that’s why we piss off men like @Tdieseler. We aren’t dumb, and we generally know about manipulative tactics men use to “break us down.” Funny that he admitted to that. The true power in being a woman is knowing when and WHO to invest in - men like @Tdieseler are easy to walk away from. They’re risky and I don’t believe in lost causes. My preference for a certain dynamic doesn’t mean I’m a romantic. I don’t believe in love at all - I believe in security. Oh and real women never have to work to get their 90. To get his 90, he has to lie/scheme/and spend money. And then he MIGHT get some quality women to hand it over. Meanwhile my 90 is offered regularly, all i have to do is show up. The sex isn’t a requirement it’s a bonus, and it happens on my terms not his.
@JustAnotherGirlie hahahahaha... im loving it. Maybe on paper im easy to walk away from. And omg, did she just use that sentence that pisses me off? "... all i have to do is just show up." that shit pisses me off to no end. Thats what all women think they have to do... just be there and everything is alright... thats why i fucking put em through hell FIRST. Understand my world does not revolve around you... i don't work to get you... you work to get ME. and if you don't like it... go fuck yourself. (theoretical "you's" by the way not you specifically darling, told you im a fan) Maybe im easy to walk away from... matter of fact... i hope i am. Thats how i weed out the morons. If its easy to walk away just because shit ain't going your way, then fuck off. I miss absolutely nothing and she is absolutely replaceable. Its the cunt that regardless of how much shit i throw her way... she toughs it out or even better, gives it back... THAT is the kinda woman I want by me. Strong... loyal.
Lol you sound crazy, talking about “putting them through hell.” No self respecting woman is going to let you emotionally bruise her ego and self esteem just to prove her loyalty. You want a pet not a woman. I’m sure plenty of women will turn tricks for your attention though, so I understand the appeal
Both of you @Tdieseler and @JustAnotherGirlie need to realize that love isn't a confirmation of your seduction or manipulation. It's a genuine feeling of respect and trust.
I think both of you have developed personalities off the assumption the other side is not to be trusted and to not compromise in getting what you want. I can tell both of you will never be satisfied as long as you are not willing to trust another person and put your own feelings at risk. It doesn't matter how successful you become with whoever partner you are with, you will always seek more. Love requires someone of equal, not a servant.
Don’t put me in the same category as @Tdieseler. I don’t seek to manipulate or seduce anyone. It’s hilarious that people think women HAVE to do these things in order to win a man over. Men actually want commitment, but that’s only reserved for a certain woman. No manipulation tactics required - if you’re a quality woman, that’s it. Men will do these things for you, they will make time for you and take you on dates. I don’t have to use men for money because I have my own. They respect me even more because of that. Do I trust a lot of men? Nope. A lot of them talk like @Tdieseler so its easy to see how they really feel about women. And no, I will not compromise on what is true. Too many people asking women to settle for whatever, and I refuse to do it. A good man with intentions of dating me seriously and committing. That’s a basic requirement that any man could achieve (several have come close) if they wanted to
Gotta give it to the dude (GracefulCharm)... he cuts through the bullshit too... but his delivery is spic n span. I'd like to be like that. But you know what, i Was like that. Kept myself open and took enough arrows... if im gonna take another one... they have to EARN that shit. Them arrows don't hurt me... what hurts is that it was actually fired. @JustAnotherGirlie doesn't get it from a male perspective. She is a chick... and they always get what they want right? Now i sound crazy because im digging my heels in the sand and not budging. Crazy ain't the worst I've been called. Either way... im not budging. No self respecting woman would... whatever the fuck you said... then i don't want a "self respecting woman"... the way i see it... she's a shallow cunt. she's only around when the going is good... i want to see someone who will wade through mud, brave the bad, and come out with me. THAT is who i want. The self respecter can go fuck herself.
You do realize there’s a difference between loyalty and dependency right? Life is hard enough, why would you intentionally put someone through hell to test them? Can’t imagine being so scared of the possibility of a woman not being loyal that I’d go to such measures. That’s ridiculous and it says a lot about you. And for the record, my virginity isn’t hurting me at all? If the situation was that dire I could’ve just jumped any guy on a college campus before now. I’m patient because why not. I have the rest of my life to have intercourse, it’s not that big of a deal. If anything, I’m disease and stress free right now.
@JustAnotherGirlie So am I. And who said anything about me being scared? I don't want to make another bad investment. You wouldn't get that as a chick. You just said it right now..."... I could’ve just jumped any guy on a college campus..." because thats what chicks do... they have a buffet of men... and can pick and choose. Guys have to narrow down. and even after that... have to invest. What does she bring to the table? her emotions? nags? insecurities? After investing in how many... yea.. it gets tiring. You can say a ton of guys hit on you.. i believe you. but how many did you hope or try to get things going with? 2? 3? When we approach a girl... have intentions of staying. but then the cunt acts like she is... a cunt. Has to be broken off. bad investing. You try that at least 20 times and see if that doesn't wear you down. So, i have my game plan. You wanna talk that female bs to me... how about you Ask and Take out 20 guys and pay for it all. so they can give you hell later.
Oh, that wasn't even it... not just ask and take out 20 guys... but then let those 20 guys say that you have to do it for a specific amount of time before they think about committing. Just 20 guys alone is bad... but multiple times? its a bitch.
Well the thing is, I kinda have done this before. A lot of men just assume I sit on my ass and wait for men to approach, I don’t pay for meals and I don’t put in effort. Not true in my case. I’ve dated around and I’ve generally hit on at least 7 men in junior year of college alone. Only 1 was interested. We went out and I actually did pay for his food. Not intentionally, but since we shared a huge NY style pizza, I just paid for it. Wasted time? Possibly, since i didn’t get what I wanted. I had fun though, I guess. Don’t get me wrong - duplicating that experience multiple times probably gets tiring. None of my friends would even dream of approaching a man, let alone pay for the food on the first date. So I hear you on that BUT. I don’t think the answer is to “put people through hell.” That’s overkill - plenty of men are discriminatory with who they take out and I get why. Not sure why you take the extra step to emotionally manipulate someone
@JustAnotherGirlie I take that extra step because i understand women... they are opinionated. she'd leave me in a blink. but im a nice guy... and those aren't popular. so i show her the dark side first... then she has to choose... period. isn't that what women want? the option to choose.
@JustAnotherGirlie I think what he means is that he wants to test a girl's character before committing. I don't think he means he want's to destroy a girl's self-confidence and make her dependant on him.
And I do agree with him, a lot of girl's are very selfish and will never negotiate on anything. This is very problematic especially as you get married to that girl and have children with her. In order to run a successful family, both leaders of the family, being the man and the woman have to work together for what is best for their children. If you have one leader thinking it's only their way and no compromise, it's very problematic because it's impossible for one person to be perfect. This is the reason children want to look up to two adult figures. They don't feel comfortable with just one parent.
Nobody is perfect, and as we get older we cannot adopt the mindset thinking we are perfect. It's nice to have a loving partner point out your flaws and help you improve on them.
Jesus fucking Christ...@GracefulCharm will i sound like you when im 30? you cut through all my bullshit and got the message... Let me use your words to talk to girlie... Yes, i will test her character... and stretch it... She can also test me... but I've been through the worst of the worst. My only fear if tested is that i will fall back into my player mode. I don't know. But im a guaranteed nice guy... but women don't come with guarantees. I've gotta test drive first.
@GracefulCharm and @Tdieseler what kind of women do you run across exactly? Men always have these horror stories about selfish women who take advantage of them, only want them for their money, etc. I truly don’t understand this concept because i know not a single woman like this in my circle? Perhaps there’s something to be said for certain types attracting similar minds to them. Don’t know selfish or unintelligent women so to me, they’re a rarity. That might not be true as a whole. Enlighten me if you will.
Also. I’m genuinely curious about the types of women you look for. Time reveals all things so you can determine someone’s character over an extended period. But to have more negative experiences than positive? Are you vetting these women properly?
@JustAnotherGirlie Are you vetting this women properly? umm... what do you think the test is for? Men have these horror stories... and apparently... no terrible woman in your circle... HOW THE FUCK do you know? have you tried dating any of them? This is exactly what i preach about... women come out and act like they are perfect... personalize everything, but you don't know what your fellow females are doing out there. Then one of them comes up and says "im pregnant" and you bite down on that part of your brain that says "... and not married, you are a slut"... and instead you say "congratulations".
When i talk about shitty women, i don't waste my fucking time talking to girls... they NEVER get it because they are part of the problem. (Do you want me to bring up the virgin thing again?) But the Boys get it. They know what im talking about... but this cunt GracefulCharm is so fucking awesome... i don't get why. i want his attitude.
I still don’t get how my lack of sex equals being a problem. But whatever. I don’t think anyone I associate with is perfect, but there’s a difference between being flawed and being problematic. Certain attributes you know people have and you don’t have to date them to figure that out. I have a select few good friends and the majority of them are in long term relationships - they seem relatively happy. Men in general are much less picky when it comes to friendships, so evaluating the quality of people I hang around by your standards will never work. I view my friends in a positive light because they have PROVEN their character time and time again. I don’t demand perfection, but I do demand integrity from people I associate myself with. And for the record, if I made a sweeping statement like “men are trash” I would sound stupid right? Not because there aren’t shitty men out there but it’s an indicator that I attract that type of dysfunction and project it onto others. Not attractive
@JustAnotherGirlie Always on point as always darling. and if you wanna make a sweeping statement... say "men are dumb". thats only half of the sentence anyway. I say women are crazy and stupid... but in other posts i say i have the utmost respect because they are intelligent. Maybe i need to start adding the other half "... when it comes to men"...
Never said your lack of sex was a problem hon... You made it clear it was your decision, i tried to define how stupid it was... you wouldn't budge, and im perfectly fine watching you tumble down the rabbit hole. We are past that. I do know one thing though, i feel sorry for the moron that wants to get in an argument with you lol... you are one smart cookie. Is it me or do i sense a little sociopath in there? Like im pushing ur buttons and you just come off calm and stick to the topic. I like that.
Women are dumb... when it comes to men. I will agree with you on that x 1000. Otherwise smart women will get with some lame with mediocre stroke game and lose all common sense.
@JustAnotherGirlie Well I'm a ex-convict and ex-drug dealer, so most of the women I've met have been addicts, escorts, strippers and so on. And if a women wasn't any of those things, she would have to be okay with dating a drug dealer, which means she lacks a moral compass to begin with. I was a different person back then and excused my behavior of selling poison in return for vast amounts of gross income.
So yes, perhaps the women I used to hang with all the time were selfish and the same type of women that @Tieseler would claim are gold diggers. But then again, was I no different? Choosing money over integrity?
@GracefulCharm you illustrated my point perfectly. Attraction is this weird thing where you can’t turn it off - your lifestyle and attitudes often subconsciously direct you to people who mean you no good. That’s why I don’t get why toxic people are so defensive when 9/10 something within them is leading them to bad or untrustworthy people. I’ve seen it in my own life. I improved my self esteem, immediately found better men. When I was at my lowest point, I attracted playboys and entertained them longer than i should have. This isn’t a male or female issue, this is a human problem. That said, I don’t look down on you for your past at all. You seem relatively nice and a great conversationalist. It’s been a pleasure :)
@JustAnotherGirlie I believe in the laws of attraction too. Thanks for your kind words. I've been feeling sad for a long time, it gives me some hope I may have something positive left in myself.
Yep your take hit the nail on the head, absolutely correct, but i would only call sluts the girls who are hard to average looking and not so financially abundant men that are almost always ready to go out and give it very easily to rich men or men who got the fucking abs and muscles, but if she is hard for everyone equally then i wouldn´t call her a slut, the same if she is hard for everyone.
can't believe you got a down vote. You were very on point and i realized i do the same thing. Except i call them whores... sluts fuck for their own pleasure... whores fuck in exchange for something regardless of if they like it or not.
Well, it seems that females can´t handle the harsh truth behind their behavior and so attack people who go out and speak the truth openly, but that is the fact, they liking it or not.
yep pretty much, they just can´t handle the harsh truth , and even worse when you point out specifically the kind of men they go slut for and the kind of men they don´t, if everyone equally got a piece i would never call then sluts, but since only rich or muscular get the sun to hit them , i will openly criticize it till things change, and if they don´t i couldn´t give a fuck because mo pai training, which im undergoing roght now demand that men cannot cum or he will lose all that hard cultivated ki and sluts will never make me lose my progress towards dynamo jack level ever.
most* guys do... you're saying that everything that isn't true about your mytake is just an 'exception' but it isn't. What you think is true is probably more false than true.
It is funny that women think men can actually hook up easier than women. I had a girl legit surprised when I told her that most guys can't actually do that.
Disagree partially with your take. A woman who is promiscuous is more likely to cheat or cuckold a man, biologically speaking. Hence she's less valuable as a partner if she's more promiscuous.
If a man is promiscuous, it shows he is approved by multiple women as being worthy of sex.
hahahaha... i remember you. love how you came in guns blazing... love it.. keep it up. oh, and its not "some of it might be true"... its "majority of it is true"...
oh, I'm sorry. I got bored after the first paragraph. I skimmed the rest and found a lot of nonsense in between. No doubt this type of toxicity will attract some pretty dull men.
Ummmm... good luck to you. You're going to need it. Lol
seems like it did... a dull one posted lol. How is your success with women? this so called "toxicity" is what our forefathers used to do... its the reason why you breathe.. and is the reason why you can come here and corrupt my post because im sure if ur dad wanted to be just a stud, or ur mom was a slut... u won't be here. read my other posts... i only put this out to DETER.. people that think like me.
It's not a smart idea to have casual sex. Unwanted pregnancies, STDs, etc. But more than that, it feels morally wrong to me. Sex shouldn't be something you do with just anyone. It should be done with someone you know and love, and it sucks that society is becoming more open on this idea. Humanity had it right earlier on, and now we're moving away from it.
hahahahaha... you think i don't know that. when i talk to women about how they, as a collective, are all a bunch of annoying selfish cunts.. and she goes "well im different"... i usually respond... "well thats one woman out of how many billion?"... you just spun that right around at me... im fucking loving it... im only one guy... just because i don't let vagina blind me... doesn't mean the other how many billion won't lol.
and you are being biased. how would you like it when your virgin woman who you love so much (yes, I've seen your posts) .. refuses to do anything you suggest. and she says "missionary" is all she would do and that is IF she decides to have sex with you... how much of that can you take.
Think carefully before you respond... cuz I've held back before after seeing your thoughts on my posts. I'd recommend you answer the question i just asked first... how would you like it.
Thanks for the compliment. I however think you are pushing things to far to think a woman will only do missionary sex position.
I can understand if you said bondage or anal sex but different positions and oral sex are pretty much standard sexual activities that are expected from both men and women during sex.
I see the same. I don't get why one should be shamed and the other praised. I get the concept... but the act is the same. Guys have to work to get pussy... women can get dick any time... i get it. but does it matter?
so... meaning that you are not very sexually active...
or even better 😒 nobody wants to be sexually active with you? lol...
I dont shame either... fuck whomever... if i see someone i want to fuck... i'd tell em. If they reject me... on to the next one. ever since the word whore came out for women that like sex... I've been pissed. a whore is some cunt.. male or female that trades sexual services for something else.
but if you want to fuck... a lot... be free.. fucking do it.
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This is not really always that true. Far too many times I experience the girls jumping on the guys, they're not particularly attractive but they all manage to get girls in bed with very little effort, whilst the girls have a much harder time. Plus to be honest dudes with that reputation don't get looked upon very nicely in my social circles, the word "stud" is hardly ever used, "slut" or "manslut" is a pretty common term.
I remember you from another post... hey, my words aren't written in stone. Its just what usually happens. according to your comment, either them guys are desperate as hell, or the women are ugly as fuck.
Yes, i just said some ignorant shit. but really? look closer...
nah, I think it's just the new generation, it's starting to even out a little more, but in my early adolescence this was definitely the case. I to be honest do not really want to be around people that have this mindset anyway, guys or girls, because they are clearly more interested in their own self-gratification than actually having sex.
ok... im lost... before i address why... let me ask a couple questions... you do know you are part of the generation you are dissing right?
Also... who are you talking about? who don't you want to be around?
I'm not dissing, I'm saying it's more egalitarian than it use to be, but I don't really like the shaming aspect of society in general, regardless of the generation. I don't want to be around people that judge one another for their sexual exploits, it's born out of either insecurity or selfishness.
i'd say greed, but you have the right idea.
Funny how you think it’s women’s fault that the concept of sluts exist, and yet, the majority of the time, it’s men that call women sluts in the first place.
I bet you also think it’s our fault if a man doesn’t respect us after we have sex with him. Because, you know, we gave it up too easily.
Pathetic. 🙄
A lot of guys have gotten laid without that much trouble. In fact it's even easier in these times, and women's standards aren't that high cuz many will sleep with a guy if he's a badass, and he doesn't have to work hard to get her into bed.
I personally don't care how many guys a woman has been fucked by - sometimes it's even sexy. And I definitely don't care how many girls a guy has fucked.
we are discussing the concept of "Why" here.
Your 90-10 theory is unfortunately incorrect regarding women. Women love sex, they can't do without it. Hell, in my experience as an asexual man who has sex with his partners, women aren't even ok with getting sex if i'm not super into it. The vast majority of women can't do without sex in a relationship.
then you don't get the 90-10 theory... period.
If you can't communicate it more effectively, then it probably means I DO get it, you just realize it sounds silly.
"Everyone has that one thing that they look for in a relationship that they can’t do without (90), and the one (or ones) that they can do without (10) the backburner." - You
"Women (and I’m talking generally or stereotypically here…whichever floats your boat) want the romantic surface stuff (90)…dates, flowers, movies, attention, etc, but they want sex too (10)…some can go without that" - Also you
ok... so i generalized... sue me
It's not that you generalized, it's that you generalized wrongly.
im not getting out of this am i?
I mean, I'm done with it, but you could always admit you were wrong. It's a decent practice to get into.
The 90-10 theory isn't wrong. I could be though... but the theory isn't.
This mytake is BS, couldn't read it all, and it's sad it's so popular...
Those "studs" are nothing more than male sluts, only idiots "praise" them...
I personally have less respect for male than female sluts, cause males are by default the ones who initiate the intimacy, and who can more easily reject it...
And what do you have supporting that "90-10 theory"? It doesn't even make sense logically.
if you took time to think about it... maybe it may. both of them are labels. i don't care for both. i mean... who the FUCK judges?
Why do you hate people who keep their virginity for marriage? They want to keep sex to only one person and be committed in that relationship. Why would that bother you? It's their choice. Maybe it makes you and others like you feel insecure about yourselves because maybe people like you have trouble with commitments?
Im really holding back from drilling into you because you do have a point... or at least had it at first... but then you attacked me in the second half... but i will be civil and explain.
Im not against them, im just saying its a bad idea, but if you are like me.. and have met a ton of these people... you start to see a trend. You think being a virgin means they are the only ones that can be committed? then you are as moronic as they are.
You are damn right it is their choice... just like its their choice to wait for the "right" person to give the virginity to right? then they fuck up and the person (or them) leaves... then what?
My point is... they make stupid assumptions... restricting themselves to some shit that they can't tell...(the future).. sure there are some people that have gotten lucky and their first was their last... but thats what? 2% of the fucking dating population?
99 percent of the population of people who are no longer virgins all wish they had sex for the first time with the person they will marry. All of us will always remember our first time having sex and we don't enjoy having memories of a ex or someone who we don't really respect.
I don't rationalize or excuse my behavior. That is what you are doing, you want to excuse your behavior of trying to have sex with countless women as it's a respectable trait because it's hard work compared to sluts.
And from my experience most people aren't having sex with multiple partners as much as the gossip claims they are. A lot of people like to assume and make things up, guy's enjoy the title of having multiple women cuz it increases their respect among other men. Girl's will bash other girl's with slut shaming because it's a method to increase their own respect among women by looking more pure.
Stop believing the hype, there's a whole lotta bullshit with these social norms that are created by betas.
there we go... betas. So you get it.
Well as a woman who is a virgin I think there are a variety of reasons a woman might choose to be abstinent or celibate. It’s not just one reason. For me, virginity is something I wanted to lose but in a loving relationship. It doesn’t have to be THE one but it needs to be a good guy? And i haven’t really come across very many men that were willing to commit, ergo my virgin status.
Virginity is not real and it’s not used to lord over men and women like. I think women generally want to be virgins because they understand sex and sexuality mean a lot to men. Women are judged and eliminated by it, they are criticized by other women regardless of what they do. So ultimately, you choose to wait it out; some people wait until marriage others wait (like me) until someone decent come along.
But even then, even when I explicitly say “sex could happen but I need to know if you’re serious about seeing me” it turns men off. As if to say, “why haven’t YOU had sex yet?” There’s no way to win
@JustAnotherGirlie That last paragraph of yours... and tons of women do this and its fucking irritating. you want a solid guarantee... in exchange for a possibility? thats bullshit. And thats why its a turn off. Hell, i hate the "not ready" excuse... but i think yours is even worse.
FYI, virginity US used to lord over men.. you just said they generally want to be virgins because sex is important to men. NO... SPREADING our seed is important to men... lol.. just as nature made us. But to do that we need women, and its not just one.
in this day and age, virginity ain't shit anymore. Back then it showed that she wasn't whoring around... but back then... women weren't initiating divorce every 5 seconds. The marriage lasted. It was written in stone. Now virginity is just a hassle. Why? why marry someone who knows nothing.
Lastly.. you said it doesn't have to be The One, but he has to be willing to commit... im guessing forever? isn't that the same thing as the one?
I’m so confused about what you’re talking about. Dating is a negotiation concerning the terms sex will happen. And since sex (especially for first timers) is quite an intimate act, it makes perfect sense to require some sort of investment before vaginal intercourse. The first time does matter, and it matters who you do it with. You need to be at least comfortable and I’m not sure id feel entirely comfortable using my sex life so frivolously when I know I want someone who cares about me.
Commitment doesn’t equal marriage. Stop acting like dating exclusively puts you out - it’s not a marriage proposal. If you don’t like me enough to see ONLY me then why should I have sex with you? What do I gain from losing my innocence to someone who doesn’t give a rats ass about my pleasure or comfort?
Like I said, women are damned if they do, damned if they don’t. Men judge you harshly either way so I’m going to continue to have these standards. They’re not even that high, they’re quite reasonable.
@JustAnotherGirlie And how many women have you dated... and had to fulfill those requirements for again? you think this happens with just ONE woman requiring this? that shit doesn't end with one. ALL of them want those requirement... the shit fucking adds up.
I got basically dissed one time when i took some chick out... and I said my budget was $100. she called me cheap... now, im 28... these figures are fictional by the way.
Lets say since HS i started dating and hit on 600 girls... about 130 who say yes... and get reject by 25. and lets assume I've kept the budget as 100 per date. (not true, assuming). thats 105 x 100... that $10,500 I've spent and where are those cunts now?
and this is just the FIRST DATES ONLY.
Women always think its just them... no... there were/are/will be others. and we have to consider all that. ugh... im going to start my series.
Why are you bringing money into this? I don’t get why commitment = money to you? You have a weird almost pathetic way of looking at relationships.
All I said was that commitment is necessary before I can take you seriously and invest emotionally into someone - and that’s expressed via sex. Not a hard concept to follow. None of that had anything to do with money.
And for the record, you can date without spending exorbitant amounts of money. Most of my dates are quality time and are virtually FREE. We can grab a coffee, go to a festival and I particularly enjoy hikes. The point is to go to a location, get to know each other and see if we are a good fit. Money doesn’t factor in - we aren’t getting married or apartment hunting.
Sorry if you’ve been taken advantage of but most women want effort and that doesn’t always equate to money spent. But hey, why listen to me. I only have a vagina and hundreds of female friends to verify
@JustAnotherGirlie loving that last line.. nice word play. but don't forget, you DID say financial security right? so from the get go, a man is pressured to kinda show he can provide that.
I mean, now... i don't pay for shit. i don't care anymore. Im actually agreeing with you, but where are those females that don't care about money? where?
My view is realistic for a guy. You won't get it because you are a girl.
(still didn't answer my question as to how many women YOU have approached/dated.)
step into our shoes darling. you assume, just the way i do.
@Tdieseler
You clearly hang out with a different social clique than @JustAnotherGirlie
I can tell from your mindset and hers that you consider dating just a means for a sexual experience.
Her opinion reveals that she believes in things like love and a long lasting relationship. She gave you clues with the words commitment.
Both of you summarize the differences in genders and how the majority perceive relationships. Girls want men who are committed to them if they do have sex with them, and Guy's want girls to recognize their hard work of trying to seduce them.
I think both of you can help yourselves in analyzing what each other's wants and needs. Because if you truly love another person, you should give them what they want and they should give you want you want. That's what love is, meeting the other half way.
@GracefulCharm , if you have read about my 90-10 theory, you will find out that everyone goes for their 90. they work hard to get their 90 because is most likely their partner won't give it to them. and in generalizing, i said that for guys, that 90 is sex. so maybe it seems like thats what i want... but there is a 10, which is the shit i can do without. and that 10? is HER 90. that future looking, commitment, lovey dovey shit... and guess who is working to get her 90... HER.
its a tug of war.
To be honest, I've never had a problem with my dating experience. i know how to make a woman happy in every way but i also know they can be insane. So what i do is break em down first... show them hell... then raise em back up.. and then they have a choice. hell, or where you are at. suffice to say, many don't choose hell.
Its gonna be referenced in one of Diesel's Rantisodes... its on my profile if you wanna take a look. or here.
Tired of the Bullshit (Diesel's Rant-isode) Ep 1 ↗
@GracefulCharm I think you’re not giving me enough credit here. Women like me are pragmatic and that’s why we piss off men like @Tdieseler. We aren’t dumb, and we generally know about manipulative tactics men use to “break us down.” Funny that he admitted to that. The true power in being a woman is knowing when and WHO to invest in - men like @Tdieseler are easy to walk away from. They’re risky and I don’t believe in lost causes.
My preference for a certain dynamic doesn’t mean I’m a romantic. I don’t believe in love at all - I believe in security.
Oh and real women never have to work to get their 90. To get his 90, he has to lie/scheme/and spend money. And then he MIGHT get some quality women to hand it over. Meanwhile my 90 is offered regularly, all i have to do is show up. The sex isn’t a requirement it’s a bonus, and it happens on my terms not his.
@JustAnotherGirlie hahahahaha... im loving it. Maybe on paper im easy to walk away from. And omg, did she just use that sentence that pisses me off? "... all i have to do is just show up." that shit pisses me off to no end. Thats what all women think they have to do... just be there and everything is alright... thats why i fucking put em through hell FIRST. Understand my world does not revolve around you... i don't work to get you... you work to get ME. and if you don't like it... go fuck yourself. (theoretical "you's" by the way not you specifically darling, told you im a fan)
Maybe im easy to walk away from... matter of fact... i hope i am. Thats how i weed out the morons. If its easy to walk away just because shit ain't going your way, then fuck off. I miss absolutely nothing and she is absolutely replaceable. Its the cunt that regardless of how much shit i throw her way... she toughs it out or even better, gives it back... THAT is the kinda woman I want by me. Strong... loyal.
Lol you sound crazy, talking about “putting them through hell.” No self respecting woman is going to let you emotionally bruise her ego and self esteem just to prove her loyalty. You want a pet not a woman. I’m sure plenty of women will turn tricks for your attention though, so I understand the appeal
Both of you @Tdieseler and @JustAnotherGirlie need to realize that love isn't a confirmation of your seduction or manipulation. It's a genuine feeling of respect and trust.
I think both of you have developed personalities off the assumption the other side is not to be trusted and to not compromise in getting what you want. I can tell both of you will never be satisfied as long as you are not willing to trust another person and put your own feelings at risk. It doesn't matter how successful you become with whoever partner you are with, you will always seek more. Love requires someone of equal, not a servant.
Don’t put me in the same category as @Tdieseler. I don’t seek to manipulate or seduce anyone. It’s hilarious that people think women HAVE to do these things in order to win a man over. Men actually want commitment, but that’s only reserved for a certain woman. No manipulation tactics required - if you’re a quality woman, that’s it. Men will do these things for you, they will make time for you and take you on dates. I don’t have to use men for money because I have my own. They respect me even more because of that.
Do I trust a lot of men? Nope. A lot of them talk like @Tdieseler so its easy to see how they really feel about women.
And no, I will not compromise on what is true. Too many people asking women to settle for whatever, and I refuse to do it. A good man with intentions of dating me seriously and committing. That’s a basic requirement that any man could achieve (several have come close) if they wanted to
Gotta give it to the dude (GracefulCharm)... he cuts through the bullshit too... but his delivery is spic n span. I'd like to be like that. But you know what, i Was like that. Kept myself open and took enough arrows... if im gonna take another one... they have to EARN that shit. Them arrows don't hurt me... what hurts is that it was actually fired.
@JustAnotherGirlie doesn't get it from a male perspective. She is a chick... and they always get what they want right? Now i sound crazy because im digging my heels in the sand and not budging. Crazy ain't the worst I've been called. Either way... im not budging.
No self respecting woman would... whatever the fuck you said... then i don't want a "self respecting woman"... the way i see it... she's a shallow cunt. she's only around when the going is good... i want to see someone who will wade through mud, brave the bad, and come out with me. THAT is who i want. The self respecter can go fuck herself.
@JustAnotherGirlie I bet that virginity is another perk huh... :)
You do realize there’s a difference between loyalty and dependency right? Life is hard enough, why would you intentionally put someone through hell to test them? Can’t imagine being so scared of the possibility of a woman not being loyal that I’d go to such measures. That’s ridiculous and it says a lot about you.
And for the record, my virginity isn’t hurting me at all? If the situation was that dire I could’ve just jumped any guy on a college campus before now. I’m patient because why not. I have the rest of my life to have intercourse, it’s not that big of a deal. If anything, I’m disease and stress free right now.
@JustAnotherGirlie So am I. And who said anything about me being scared? I don't want to make another bad investment. You wouldn't get that as a chick. You just said it right now..."... I could’ve just jumped any guy on a college campus..."
because thats what chicks do... they have a buffet of men... and can pick and choose. Guys have to narrow down. and even after that... have to invest. What does she bring to the table? her emotions? nags? insecurities?
After investing in how many... yea.. it gets tiring. You can say a ton of guys hit on you.. i believe you. but how many did you hope or try to get things going with? 2? 3?
When we approach a girl... have intentions of staying. but then the cunt acts like she is... a cunt. Has to be broken off. bad investing.
You try that at least 20 times and see if that doesn't wear you down.
So, i have my game plan. You wanna talk that female bs to me... how about you Ask and Take out 20 guys and pay for it all. so they can give you hell later.
Oh, that wasn't even it... not just ask and take out 20 guys... but then let those 20 guys say that you have to do it for a specific amount of time before they think about committing. Just 20 guys alone is bad... but multiple times? its a bitch.
Well the thing is, I kinda have done this before.
A lot of men just assume I sit on my ass and wait for men to approach, I don’t pay for meals and I don’t put in effort. Not true in my case.
I’ve dated around and I’ve generally hit on at least 7 men in junior year of college alone. Only 1 was interested. We went out and I actually did pay for his food. Not intentionally, but since we shared a huge NY style pizza, I just paid for it. Wasted time? Possibly, since i didn’t get what I wanted. I had fun though, I guess.
Don’t get me wrong - duplicating that experience multiple times probably gets tiring. None of my friends would even dream of approaching a man, let alone pay for the food on the first date. So I hear you on that BUT. I don’t think the answer is to “put people through hell.” That’s overkill - plenty of men are discriminatory with who they take out and I get why. Not sure why you take the extra step to emotionally manipulate someone
@JustAnotherGirlie I take that extra step because i understand women... they are opinionated. she'd leave me in a blink. but im a nice guy... and those aren't popular. so i show her the dark side first... then she has to choose... period.
isn't that what women want? the option to choose.
@JustAnotherGirlie
I think what he means is that he wants to test a girl's character before committing. I don't think he means he want's to destroy a girl's self-confidence and make her dependant on him.
And I do agree with him, a lot of girl's are very selfish and will never negotiate on anything. This is very problematic especially as you get married to that girl and have children with her. In order to run a successful family, both leaders of the family, being the man and the woman have to work together for what is best for their children. If you have one leader thinking it's only their way and no compromise, it's very problematic because it's impossible for one person to be perfect. This is the reason children want to look up to two adult figures. They don't feel comfortable with just one parent.
Nobody is perfect, and as we get older we cannot adopt the mindset thinking we are perfect. It's nice to have a loving partner point out your flaws and help you improve on them.
Jesus fucking Christ...@GracefulCharm will i sound like you when im 30? you cut through all my bullshit and got the message...
Let me use your words to talk to girlie...
Yes, i will test her character... and stretch it...
She can also test me... but I've been through the worst of the worst. My only fear if tested is that i will fall back into my player mode. I don't know.
But im a guaranteed nice guy... but women don't come with guarantees. I've gotta test drive first.
@GracefulCharm and @Tdieseler what kind of women do you run across exactly? Men always have these horror stories about selfish women who take advantage of them, only want them for their money, etc. I truly don’t understand this concept because i know not a single woman like this in my circle? Perhaps there’s something to be said for certain types attracting similar minds to them. Don’t know selfish or unintelligent women so to me, they’re a rarity. That might not be true as a whole. Enlighten me if you will.
Also. I’m genuinely curious about the types of women you look for. Time reveals all things so you can determine someone’s character over an extended period. But to have more negative experiences than positive? Are you vetting these women properly?
@JustAnotherGirlie Are you vetting this women properly? umm... what do you think the test is for?
Men have these horror stories... and apparently... no terrible woman in your circle... HOW THE FUCK do you know? have you tried dating any of them?
This is exactly what i preach about... women come out and act like they are perfect... personalize everything, but you don't know what your fellow females are doing out there. Then one of them comes up and says "im pregnant" and you bite down on that part of your brain that says "... and not married, you are a slut"... and instead you say "congratulations".
When i talk about shitty women, i don't waste my fucking time talking to girls... they NEVER get it because they are part of the problem. (Do you want me to bring up the virgin thing again?)
But the Boys get it. They know what im talking about... but this cunt GracefulCharm is so fucking awesome... i don't get why. i want his attitude.
I still don’t get how my lack of sex equals being a problem. But whatever.
I don’t think anyone I associate with is perfect, but there’s a difference between being flawed and being problematic. Certain attributes you know people have and you don’t have to date them to figure that out. I have a select few good friends and the majority of them are in long term relationships - they seem relatively happy.
Men in general are much less picky when it comes to friendships, so evaluating the quality of people I hang around by your standards will never work. I view my friends in a positive light because they have PROVEN their character time and time again. I don’t demand perfection, but I do demand integrity from people I associate myself with.
And for the record, if I made a sweeping statement like “men are trash” I would sound stupid right? Not because there aren’t shitty men out there but it’s an indicator that I attract that type of dysfunction and project it onto others. Not attractive
@JustAnotherGirlie Always on point as always darling. and if you wanna make a sweeping statement... say "men are dumb". thats only half of the sentence anyway. I say women are crazy and stupid... but in other posts i say i have the utmost respect because they are intelligent. Maybe i need to start adding the other half "... when it comes to men"...
Never said your lack of sex was a problem hon... You made it clear it was your decision, i tried to define how stupid it was... you wouldn't budge, and im perfectly fine watching you tumble down the rabbit hole. We are past that.
I do know one thing though, i feel sorry for the moron that wants to get in an argument with you lol... you are one smart cookie. Is it me or do i sense a little sociopath in there? Like im pushing ur buttons and you just come off calm and stick to the topic. I like that.
Women are dumb... when it comes to men. I will agree with you on that x 1000. Otherwise smart women will get with some lame with mediocre stroke game and lose all common sense.
@JustAnotherGirlie
Well I'm a ex-convict and ex-drug dealer, so most of the women I've met have been addicts, escorts, strippers and so on. And if a women wasn't any of those things, she would have to be okay with dating a drug dealer, which means she lacks a moral compass to begin with. I was a different person back then and excused my behavior of selling poison in return for vast amounts of gross income.
So yes, perhaps the women I used to hang with all the time were selfish and the same type of women that @Tieseler would claim are gold diggers. But then again, was I no different? Choosing money over integrity?
@GracefulCharm you illustrated my point perfectly. Attraction is this weird thing where you can’t turn it off - your lifestyle and attitudes often subconsciously direct you to people who mean you no good.
That’s why I don’t get why toxic people are so defensive when 9/10 something within them is leading them to bad or untrustworthy people.
I’ve seen it in my own life. I improved my self esteem, immediately found better men. When I was at my lowest point, I attracted playboys and entertained them longer than i should have. This isn’t a male or female issue, this is a human problem.
That said, I don’t look down on you for your past at all. You seem relatively nice and a great conversationalist. It’s been a pleasure :)
@JustAnotherGirlie
I believe in the laws of attraction too. Thanks for your kind words. I've been feeling sad for a long time, it gives me some hope I may have something positive left in myself.
Yep your take hit the nail on the head, absolutely correct, but i would only call sluts the girls who are hard to average looking and not so financially abundant men that are almost always ready to go out and give it very easily to rich men or men who got the fucking abs and muscles, but if she is hard for everyone equally then i wouldn´t call her a slut, the same if she is hard for everyone.
can't believe you got a down vote. You were very on point and i realized i do the same thing. Except i call them whores... sluts fuck for their own pleasure... whores fuck in exchange for something regardless of if they like it or not.
Well, it seems that females can´t handle the harsh truth behind their behavior and so attack people who go out and speak the truth openly, but that is the fact, they liking it or not.
you mean like im getting attacked now? lol
yep pretty much, they just can´t handle the harsh truth , and even worse when you point out specifically the kind of men they go slut for and the kind of men they don´t, if everyone equally got a piece i would never call then sluts, but since only rich or muscular get the sun to hit them , i will openly criticize it till things change, and if they don´t i couldn´t give a fuck because mo pai training, which im undergoing roght now demand that men cannot cum or he will lose all that hard cultivated ki and sluts will never make me lose my progress towards dynamo jack level ever.
Dude... when "Diesel's Rant-isodes" come out... i want you to know, so i followed.
I've heard plenty of men shame women for being easy.
Some guys do... won't lie... we all have pinheads in our gender that ruin it for the general population.
most* guys do... you're saying that everything that isn't true about your mytake is just an 'exception' but it isn't. What you think is true is probably more false than true.
I don't care about either sluts or studs. You managed to gave sex with a 1000 people, good for you. You're a 60 year old vurgin, good for you too.
That is probably the most offhand-ish comment on here... probably the most ignorant... but for some strange reason... i get the meaning behind it.
You name no names... people can do what they want.
Loving it. Thanks for the input.
She's a troll
@Wwwyzzerdd straight from under the bridge you idiot sandwich.
You're welcome. :)
"I don't care, here's my opinion, you are an idiot." That's how you started off your response.
@Wwwyzzerdd oi... ease off. she's just saying she doesn't give a fuck about other peoples sex life. I get it.
Thank you. :).
@Tdieseler I don't understand what is so ignorant about this comment. It's probably the most straightforward and equal one I've seen here.
@latinabutterfly96 than
Thank you :)
It is funny that women think men can actually hook up easier than women. I had a girl legit surprised when I told her that most guys can't actually do that.
Disagree partially with your take. A woman who is promiscuous is more likely to cheat or cuckold a man, biologically speaking. Hence she's less valuable as a partner if she's more promiscuous.
If a man is promiscuous, it shows he is approved by multiple women as being worthy of sex.
i like the way you put it... damn... wish i could make an edit. so its the world (society) view that fucks shit up
i usually don't take this things for granted. Never generalize concepts these complex.
You think this is bad... wait till the next one. Its planned to shake all of GaG.
sure
Alrighty... you will see it.
Haha you asshole, funny but some of it might be true.
hahahaha... i remember you. love how you came in guns blazing... love it.. keep it up.
oh, and its not "some of it might be true"... its "majority of it is true"...
lolololol
Hmmm...
oh, I'm sorry. I got bored after the first paragraph. I skimmed the rest and found a lot of nonsense in between. No doubt this type of toxicity will attract some pretty dull men.
Ummmm... good luck to you. You're going to need it. Lol
seems like it did... a dull one posted lol. How is your success with women? this so called "toxicity" is what our forefathers used to do... its the reason why you breathe.. and is the reason why you can come here and corrupt my post because im sure if ur dad wanted to be just a stud, or ur mom was a slut... u won't be here. read my other posts... i only put this out to DETER.. people that think like me.
I don't care whether it's a man or a woman. If you're having casual sex with tons of random people, you've lost my respect.
You know... that is a pure opinion. and i respect that. Now before i chew into you for that... i just want to ask why you think that...
It's not a smart idea to have casual sex. Unwanted pregnancies, STDs, etc. But more than that, it feels morally wrong to me. Sex shouldn't be something you do with just anyone. It should be done with someone you know and love, and it sucks that society is becoming more open on this idea. Humanity had it right earlier on, and now we're moving away from it.
yea... right into the brainwashing. Do your research on those earlier times... history is only repeating itself.
Well, whatever man. I didn't learn about sex until I was 14, so not much time for brainwashing. It just instinctively feels wrong to me.
hey, i had the same as well.. then when i went into that world i realized a few things... you will too.
So much effort into something that cannot be changed because it is ingrained in our society
hahahahaha... you think i don't know that. when i talk to women about how they, as a collective, are all a bunch of annoying selfish cunts.. and she goes "well im different"... i usually respond...
"well thats one woman out of how many billion?"...
you just spun that right around at me... im fucking loving it... im only one guy...
just because i don't let vagina blind me... doesn't mean the other how many billion won't lol.
i fucking love your opinion.
You make some good points but make terrible points and give terrible advice.
A virgin woman is ranked lower than a woman who is sucking and screwing random dudes?
NO WAY!
and you are being biased.
how would you like it when your virgin woman who you love so much (yes, I've seen your posts) .. refuses to do anything you suggest. and she says "missionary" is all she would do and that is IF she decides to have sex with you...
how much of that can you take.
Think carefully before you respond... cuz I've held back before after seeing your thoughts on my posts.
I'd recommend you answer the question i just asked first... how would you like it.
Lol you following around on GAG? Trust me bro that will not happen to me...
I will make I at least talk about sexual stuff with her to get an idea about her before I decide to marry her.
I don't know.. but i see you. the name "cool guy" is catchy.
and you really believe that?
can't wait for the day she makes you her Bitch.
Thanks for the compliment. I however think you are pushing things to far to think a woman will only do missionary sex position.
I can understand if you said bondage or anal sex but different positions and oral sex are pretty much standard sexual activities that are expected from both men and women during sex.
Regardless of being religious or not.
well... I've been in that position (no pun intended) before. A corpse moved more.
😂😂
I think they're both seen as equal. Or at least I do. Lol.
I see the same. I don't get why one should be shamed and the other praised. I get the concept... but the act is the same.
Guys have to work to get pussy... women can get dick any time... i get it.
but does it matter?
Not neccesarily
see... and we are in
did, n't read it but hey I POSTED something
hahahaha... congrats...
Interesting. Insight on my 41st birthday tomorrow.
i hope so lol.
I hate both studs and sluts
so... meaning that you are not very sexually active...
or even better 😒 nobody wants to be sexually active with you? lol...
I dont shame either... fuck whomever... if i see someone i want to fuck... i'd tell em. If they reject me... on to the next one.
ever since the word whore came out for women that like sex... I've been pissed. a whore is some cunt.. male or female that trades sexual services for something else.
but if you want to fuck... a lot... be free.. fucking do it.