There are a lot of questions posted by ladies here about things a man says and what he means and I will try my best to answer them and guys, help me out. Correct me if I am wrong or expand more on what I am saying...
1."I am not looking for a relationship right now..."
He may be enjoying the moments you guys have together, talking sweet and flirting but for a guy to tell you he is not looking for a relationship right now it is because he just cannot find himself to commit to one woman just yet. His feelings are not strong enough to be loyal and faithful to you and doesn't want to be tied down to the responsibilities of being in a relationship with a label. He just doesn't see you in his future.
2. "You're too pretty to be single..."
He thinks you're all that and wonders why are you single for awhile. It can either scare him away or draw him in. He might think you are too good for his standards and intimidate him. Or you had bad relationships and you are too walled up to let a man show you how it is to be loved. He wants to get to know you more but is on the fence to go for it.
3. "I want to be with you but can't be with you..."
He likes you but not enough to be with you. He has priorities but you are not one of them.
4. "You're too good for me..."
Sometimes he will say things you want to hear to cushion the blow of hurting your feelings that he is just not into you. Maybe he saw something that turned him off or he has other options besides you...
5. "Let's enjoy what we got going on and see where it leads us..."
Same as #1 but he is telling you to not put pressure on him on labels and that he enjoys his freedom but still reap the benefits of having you in his life.
6. When he says nothing at all...
Him saying nothing is a message itself. He just doesn't care about you at all or else he would not ignore you, neglect you or worse keep you guessing, tossing and turning in bed up all night if he is into you or not. A guy who is sure of his feelings for you will flat out tell you and show you.
Guys will not play mind games with you if they really are into you. Nothing can stop them from pursuing you and telling you that you are the girl of their dreams and they want to have a relationship with you and love you. If he is on and off/hot and cold with you, he doesn't deserve your time and affection. No matter how good it looks picturing yourself with him and your future kids, daydreaming the shoulda, could've and woulda, but if the guy is just not that into you, it is better to move along... He might realize you were a catch later on, but it will be too late. You will already be too busy gazing at the eyes of the man who is now the love of your life... <3
Thank you for the time reading. Xo