Well long-term commitment can only be great if both of the partner make it so. This is my eyes means doing lots of exciting activities together, rather than having the same everyday life every single day, being able to connect on a deeper level. And a MAJOR thing is that you shouldn't make your partner feel "on a leash". What's better than keeping your life and relations with friends while having someone supporting you and understanding you? Plus the sex gets way better with the time. If I feel loved and supported without setting boundies on my life I would love to stay with one partner.
I think an unfortunate truth about long-term commitment, even if you sync well with your partner, is that constrictions on your life (boundaries) get set no matter what. There is no boundless commitment. Even when best intentions are present.
If he searches for commitment and you both meet the same standards you can. Of course if he's not the right for you it will never happen. I've also had bad experience with guys , but looking at it now it was just their vision of life and standards that were different than mine.
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You can't "get" anyone to commit that doesn't already want to. Guys (and girls) will commit if they want to commit.
Of course. But if you want to commit you search for some particular qualities in the person. Am I not right?
Nah. Some guys just don't want to commit. Like me.
@sally421 your right about the qualities to be searched for, I agree there.. but some just don't want to commit = scared and other reasons
@xButterflyKisses87x and there's nothing wrong with that as well.. as I said it's all personal choice.
Yep, that I know! @sally421
If you need to "get" him to commit then he's not worth it.
i agree with you to not care about the guy too much, let him come to you, to see you diff. from other women. will type more later...
You can lead a horse to water but can’t make him drink
Give him what he wants and more. Make him know that you are the only woman he needs.
This might work with some guys, but not with others.
Just out of curiosity, what countries did you go to and from?
I live in Germany now.
What's so great about the long-term commitment? I'm curious what you think.
Well long-term commitment can only be great if both of the partner make it so. This is my eyes means doing lots of exciting activities together, rather than having the same everyday life every single day, being able to connect on a deeper level. And a MAJOR thing is that you shouldn't make your partner feel "on a leash". What's better than keeping your life and relations with friends while having someone supporting you and understanding you? Plus the sex gets way better with the time. If I feel loved and supported without setting boundies on my life I would love to stay with one partner.
In my experience, the opposite is true-- the sex does not get better with time. It apexes after about a year.
This also depends on your half. I love experimenting and trying out new things my partner as well so we put a lot of color in our sex life ;)
I think an unfortunate truth about long-term commitment, even if you sync well with your partner, is that constrictions on your life (boundaries) get set no matter what. There is no boundless commitment. Even when best intentions are present.
Very nice! Happy for you too!
Thank you :)
A guy doesn't love you until he updates his social media status!
I know guys who do that just to get the girl to put on. Once he's had her, his facebook says "single" again...
Try to give him the deep desire to settle and... baby fever
women don't usually need help getting their guy to commit suicide
There's no way you can directly make a man invest in you.
You can't "make" a man commit.
If he searches for commitment and you both meet the same standards you can. Of course if he's not the right for you it will never happen. I've also had bad experience with guys , but looking at it now it was just their vision of life and standards that were different than mine.
Yeah. I dated a guy for 8 years, and finally had to give up on moving forward and building a life. He had somw maturing to do.
8 years without taking a further step sounds like a loss of time. Good that you've moved on!
Very good advice. Keep it up
Seems like feel-good bullshit to me.
i agree they like girls who seem busy
Not only seem but who actually are busy.. in other words having many hobbies and job which you not only do to "seem" busy, but you also enjoy
That should be considered great points for anyone.
Now a guy needs to do "How to get her to commit?".
Become a chain and he'll soon long for freedom.
This is exactly what I said it was wrong.
Agree - if you already have a guys heart, forcing it to beat will only make it forget how to do so naturally.