I ended up having to block his number because he would not leave me alone. At all. kept talking about my eyes and how much he would love to be my boyfriend.. yep nope creeping me out buddy
In the end the person won't have anything against you thats been said and it makes it easier to accept cause talk8ng to them gives them a little hope and thats cruel
I'm old fashioned and wondering what is considered as "ghosting"? like when someone is annoying the shit out of you and you just disappear on them without a word?
@bekalen I think so too lol. If so, then I've done that plenty of times because if I stuck around, I'd probably end up saying things that I really don't want to.
One guy kept talking to me about sexual things and asking me personal questions, so I ghosted him without feeling bad about it. He deserved it.
If y li have tried explaining to them that you want space or to be left alone, then when you do just cut contact it's not considered ghosting. The other situations I can agree with.
You are fully responsible for your "evil twins" behavior this mytake should be titled "Im incapable of taking responsibility for my ations like a grown-up and I justify anything I do".
These are all great reasons to stay away from someone. I don't see what's evil about it. If they show such little respect, why should you validate them by sticking around?
I guess I agree. then again, why would you start talking to people like that in first place? try connecting with a better crowd and maybe you dont need to have bad behaviors again.
I recently had to ghost some people out of my life like this. I hated it, it didn't bring me joy, but everything else going on rendered my other options impossible.
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I've done this once. *tried* to do this once
I ended up having to block his number because he would not leave me alone. At all. kept talking about my eyes and how much he would love to be my boyfriend.. yep nope creeping me out buddy
In the end the person won't have anything against you thats been said and it makes it easier to accept cause talk8ng to them gives them a little hope and thats cruel
I'm old fashioned and wondering what is considered as "ghosting"? like when someone is annoying the shit out of you and you just disappear on them without a word?
I think that's right.
@bekalen I think so too lol. If so, then I've done that plenty of times because if I stuck around, I'd probably end up saying things that I really don't want to.
One guy kept talking to me about sexual things and asking me personal questions, so I ghosted him without feeling bad about it. He deserved it.
If y li have tried explaining to them that you want space or to be left alone, then when you do just cut contact it's not considered ghosting. The other situations I can agree with.
You are fully responsible for your "evil twins" behavior this mytake should be titled "Im incapable of taking responsibility for my ations like a grown-up and I justify anything I do".
I agree, but I rather just block them. If they don't get it after you've told them several times. Then just fk them
These are all great reasons to stay away from someone. I don't see what's evil about it. If they show such little respect, why should you validate them by sticking around?
Ghosting absolutely drives me insane. I just want to know what I did wrong, and if it is something I could improve.
If you use the fact that the planets were in a certain position as you were born to justify certain shitty actions then you are a shitty person.
I also honk you’ve gotten the defintion of ghosting wrong.
Poor mytake. 👎
My last girlfriend of 9 months ghosted me completely after a minor argument. And no I didn't call her any names or threaten her. Just annoyed her.
So I guess its "okay" to ghost guys huh? That's evil twin is your "feelings" so that justifies everything.
Sure, blame it on your star sign.
I personally seldom ghost, even as a Gemini, but maybe that's the BPD, that sort of thing makes me feel terrible about myself when it's done to me.
I guess I agree. then again, why would you start talking to people like that in first place? try connecting with a better crowd and maybe you dont need to have bad behaviors again.
I don't know how the kids work these days but if you tell them no before you block them is it still ghosting?
Next challenge: Why it's ok to cheat on your boyfriend sometimes.
Then another challenge: why is it ok to date 2 or 3 people all at once
@Casus_Angelus Haha!
You can't negotiate attraction or desire, and you sure as hell can't get through to bat-shit crazy.
If I ever did it, it would be the same as blocking someone. “Stop bugging me!”
I recently had to ghost some people out of my life like this. I hated it, it didn't bring me joy, but everything else going on rendered my other options impossible.
I've never ghosted anyone, but there were times where I was seriously considering it.
Ghosting is never okay. And you are ONE person, NOT two