I made a list of everything I want in a partner, and you should too! (Page 2)
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Thats a lot of criteria. When it comes to a partner i dont require too much, just be:
Considerate to people around her.
Loyal.
Committed.
Healthy, not overweight.
Age gap maximum 2 years.
No tattoos, not a heavy drinker nor a smoker.
Willing to contribute to the relationship.
doesn't expect me to do all the work (its a team effort)
And lastly, looks decent. I mean, who wants a partner who doesn't look nice at the very least?
So, here's the BIG problem with this... you have given ZERO consideration of what YOU bring to a relationship that is of high value.
And I don't care WHAT you have on your list - no guy EVER is going to be some magic brain-fart that poofs out of YOUR head.
The truth is... people make these crazy long lists believing those are the partners they’re looking for and then end up falling in love with someone completely the opposite or different. You really don’t know until you meet someone and you like them for reasons you can’t even put your finger on. Making a list is just the worst thing you could ever do.
I'm almost your perfect match. I'd say 92%.
The second thing I'm thinking is good luck trying to find a guy will all of those qualities. I think having expectations of what your partner should be is a relationship killer.
For me, my basic criteria is a girl that is
Nice, decently good looking with an attractive body, not jealous, not lazy, with a good personality and health. That's pretty much it.
Please save this list and revise it every year. I'd love to see the progression within 10 year frame.
I sincerly hope you find this guy. He has to live up to a lot. Just wondering what you have to offer here.
I'm out i don't tick many of the boxes. Anyway, i'm happily taken and my S/O thinks i'm a gold bar encrusted in diamonds.
What I have to offer? I'm intelligent, funny and endlessly compassionate. I'm also a stubborn mother tucker, but to some people that's adorable because I'm so short so, that could also be a good trait? I'll be perfectly fine staying single, but I'll admit guys do have to do a lot to impress me. I'm not looking for a boyfriend so much as I'm looking for a best friend and life partner to fall deeply in love with. I've done the whole boyfriend thing, a lot. While fun, it's also deeply exhausting, and I'm done with it.
Sounds good. To fall in friendship and turns out he's a reliable partner, is to me, the most important.
I talked to a woman on a dating site that had a list like that. I asked her how longs she's been on the site. She said, 10 years, but she's not going to settle. lol
Yep! That's my strategy. It worked for my mom. That might be why I have such high standards, because my stepdad is probably one of the sweetest people on the face of the planet. He's the only person I've ever met who can deal with me and my mom's neurotic tendencies so well.
So you're smart, funny, and nice. Sooo... 3 of the most basic traits any half-decent woman has?
So you want a hot, argreable, genius with a fat wallet who will do anything for you? get to the back of the line.
It should be possible to give two upvotes instead of one, so I'm commenting as well.
Lol did you even watch the video you've put up?
they found a 95% match yet she thought he didn't even meet 50% of her list.
the point of the video was, lists are useless and a waste of time.
I've heard these kind of requirements from women's mags all the time and at the end of the day, these women end up with a man with a dick and a job.
That’s a long list but wish you fortune on finding a guy similar to what you’d prefer. I just want this for a guy:
1. Faithfulness
2. Good sex drive
3. Educated
4. Kind
5. Attractive to my eyes
6. Level headed temper
No. First of all, there's not such a thing as a perfect partner. Having a ''perfect'' partner would be very boring because he would never do anything you even might disagree with. Constantly agreeing on everything has to be boring. No question.
Also, what are the chances of meeting this ''perfect'' partner? And how big are the chances such a guy is into you?
"I'm going to make up a long list of attributes and then compare actual men I meet with the imaginary one in my head!"
You deserve everything that comes to you.
Just think how women would be flipping out if a man made a post like this.
Fortunately the criteria for women is much simpler:
BE THIN
By the way the man you describe is 100% gay, no straight man ever would want to meet this criteria, rather have our weenies lopped off. One more thing: a 50 yr old bald, smelly, fat, rude, short pervert with double the income you mention will get more girls than this guy
I've never heard of a man exfoliating by the way. I'm just curious, on what body parts?
Now make a list of 50 things you have you have to offer.
Exactly, oh my God.
I especially liked all the contradictions.
Body type muscular.
Diet does not eat much meat or worry about protein.
Should take charge.
Takes orders and does what i tell him.
Proof women have no freaking clue what they want.
Complety agree on the meat part, it just doesn't go together. LET HIM EAT MEAT! But it specifically said that he must be fine with both taking charge and taking orders, which is normal.
@morimeme1 no man should ever take orders. Thats what soldiers do. Take a generals orders. Is the woman supposed to be a commanding officer or something? Thats bullshit.
Here's the best one: 15
15. Drinking habits: Alcohol only with fine dining or occasionally with socializing. Limits himself to 1-2 drinks, 3 MAX. DOES NOT DO SHOTS!! Rarely drinks pop. No more than 1 cup of coffee a day. No protein shakes.
What straight man only drinks with fine dining? LMFAO
She wants a muscular man but no protein drinks and she limits her man to one cup of coffee.
I wanna meet this fellow
@bamesjond0069 Maybe "take orders" is the wrong way to put it, what I really mean is be able to sometimes shut up and do what they are asked to, like wash the dishes. Only self centered biggots always take charge and refuse to ever listen to others.
@morimeme1 if im taking charge the last thing id do is respond to someone telling me to shut up and wash the dishes, other than maybe laugh at you. Wow are you trying to scare men away? Maybe that works in a lesbian relationship but definitely not in a heterosexual one.
That is called harmony in a relationship, when both sides sre willing to step down from time to time. Plus men are more task oriented, women hate being told what to do and men just don't get hints so they just need to be told what we want them to do straight up <- and this is an opinion I keep hearing from men, so I take none of your accusations.
she's 17
@malegender i read about a boy in 1800s who at 13 fought off 5 armed intruders with a rifle after they killed his father and afterwards he ran the farm. What have we done to these poor kids that at 17 they are fucking retards? And at 26 they still want to be on parents health insurance? Ughhh
liberalism
It is always fascinating to watch how people left with no valid arguments resolve to insults rather than accept that their opinion might not be 100% right.
Ladies as and gentlemen, behold a perfect specimen of a future single and bitter middle aged cat-women.
Good luck with that list.
I watched this too. They’re stupid. On one video they set up a polyamorous guy with a monogamous girl, like what?
And If you have all expectations, prepare to be disappointed.
Now that I’m reading ur list it’s ot that bad
I did that sort of thing back in high school. I guess I was just bored one day and decided to see who the ideal Mrs. Winterfox10 would be. I was shocked at how specific and rare a woman that she actually was.
Shaved pussy, woman on top, higher sexual drive than me, wears skirts instead of jeans, is intelligent, well-educated, and can speak on a variety of topics. If she has raped a few guys in the past, that's a big plus, though not necessary.
Chris evans is my type look wise. Chris Pratt is my type personality wise. Chris hemsworth is hot and outta my league. Chris Pine is old news