What I want in a man

[cjgsu]

I don't think I'm someone better than anyone else and deserve perfection. That would be stupid.

My perfect man is imperfect AF!!

I want someone who knows he has flaws and wants to do better, not for me but for himself.

I want a caring man who has compassion for others, not just me. Someone who sees a person suffering and wants to help them.

Someone who makes me laugh. This one is important because when I am having a bad day i need someone who can cheer me.💞

I love a deep man. Someone he doesn't need society to tell him how to see the world, someone who looks at a problem and thinks about how he can help make it better and make sure he isn't adding to the problem.

Ex: if my day is rough and sometimes i just need to vent to get it off my chest be there for me so i can just feel better. Let me know if i need him he is there. Don't try to force your opinion on me. If i need advice i am direct and will ask you for it.

I want a man who is loyal to me no matter what, he will always be there for me till the end.

This one is important because when i have chose to be with you and love you. I am the most loyal bish you will find. I will defend you till the end and fight for you if need be.

I will treat him like a king and expect him to treat me like his queen. Outside the house we ain't shit to 99% of the population, in our house, we need to make sure we get the attention and love we all need to feel alive and loved.

As for looks yeah i have preferences but they don't matter as much as what I just talked about. Looks fade sex begins to not matter after a while.

Okay that's just another boring ass mytake by someone who just felt like getting shit off her chest💞💞💞

[User626]

I am always looking for the same type of relationship. However I am on the other side. Most women do not really want what you are looking for. 90% of them will say they want a good guy but then change their mind about a year into the relationship. I have had women actually propose to me after a few months of dating. Before a year is over they walk out and have some silly excuse. The fact is that when they have exactly what they want they get bored. There is no more challenge there. From what I have learned women do not like to live in peace they like drama and fighting. Just my observation.

[LEADFOOTboi]

seems to be a common theme here... and any integritious man should fit this bill of requirements... it's not very tall... but it requires devotion and pedistalization...
a little pedistalization is natural... but too much make a SIMP OUTTA U

[cjgsu]

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ this is how u interrupt asking 4 mutual love and respect.

This explains a lot snakeboi. *pats*

[JoyGirl]

I have arrived. 👀

[cjgsu]

@JoyGirl yay!!!

[cjgsu]

Y does auto correct keep changing interpretation into interrupt 🤔

[JoyGirl]

Good question. 🤔

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl Q - Q welcome dearest... how are you?

[LEADFOOTboi]

and @cjgsu what i'm tryna say is... there's hope for you yet... dont ever feel distraught

[JoyGirl]

I am ok.
Wbu?

[cjgsu]

Who says I'm distraught 🤔

[LEADFOOTboi]

no one said you were distraught, @cjgsu... just keep on keepin on, gurl...

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl why just ok? i'm doin GREAT

[JoyGirl]

@LEADFOOTboi I feel bleh. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl awwwwww... what could make it better? pizza?

[JoyGirl]

Yes, pwes. 🥺

[LEADFOOTboi]

mkaaaaay -orders pizza for @joygirl- q w q but i want the middle slice

[JoyGirl]

Why the middle slice? 🤔

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl Q - Q the middle is the best slice of ANYTHING...

[JoyGirl]

Ahhhh... I see... lol

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl those people that like the corners and edge cuts of stuff... i salute you... y'all can have the corners and sides

[JoyGirl]

LMAO

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl but I don't know where to grab a slice of middle pizza

[JoyGirl]

Wdym? lol

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl the handle of pizza is the crust... but a middle slice would have no handle

[JoyGirl]

Hmmmmm 🤔

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl but pizza crust is still good...

[JoyGirl]

I don’t eat the crust... lol

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl Q O Q... what... i understand it's not the best part... but... it won't hurt you

[JoyGirl]

🤣🤣🤣

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl you could dip the crust in ranch or somthing... to make it taste thing... you know...

[JoyGirl]

Nah, I am good... lol

[LEADFOOTboi]

@JoyGirl i know you good... infac... you FIIIIIIINE

[JoyGirl]

Wha... lol

[cjgsu]

Bruh🤦🏾‍♀️

[LEADFOOTboi]

@cjgsu XD ma'am?

[LEADFOOTboi]

@cjgsu thanks for the mho, fam... q w q you're tooo kind

[certifiedalphafemale]

Same sis! My boyfriend is exactly what you wrote on your Take. You go get him girl, the world especially here in America needs real women like you! Hugs! 🤗

[NatalieKeller95]

America is a lost cause when it comes to dating, it's all my generation thinking they're owed something and they deserve the best partner,

[User626]

@NatalieKeller95 I agree nobody understands accepting a person for who they are. There is no longer give and take. There is now this person is perfect except for this one thing so because of this one thing I am going to break up with them and find Mr perfect. Smh. My last relationship we never fought once and a whole year. We always had a conversation and talk through things. She got up and left and her excuses were miniscule things. Only thing I can think of is said she met another guy somewhere. But why would you give up a relationship that you've never even argue?

[anon1903]

Cliche but I applaud you if these really are your standards

[MCheetah]

All of this actually sounds like me, except the "loyal no matter what" part. I wouldn't be loyal to a cheater, domestic abuser, or violent partner. And I honestly don't think you would want a simp for a partner, either.

[MrOracle]

The pic of a guy in a private jet kind of goes against everything you wrote...

[cjgsu]

That's not an example of what i want.😂
That was an example of y'all fallin asleep reading this🤪

[MrOracle]

That may be, but it does send the wrong message...

[cjgsu]

Can't say I really care ain't tryin 2 find a man on here. So y'all can think wut u want.

[lanadelrey25]

How does a man sleeping in a meme go against everything she wrote and send a wrong message?

[cjgsu]

@lanadelrey25 gurrl i didn't understand nor really care😂

[MrOracle]

@lanadelrey25 It's not that the guy is sleeping, it's that the guy is clearly flying in a private jet. That's something that typically only very wealthy people ever do, as private jets are incredibly expensive. Even a single flight from, say, LA to NY, will typically cost $50,000-$100,000 one-way, depending on the aircraft, which is a lot of money when a round-trip first-class commercial flight would be $5,000 or less.

If I wrote a post about how an average girl was more than enough for me, and then posted a pic of a smoking hot supermodel eating a burger, and said "eating a burger is a normal thing", every girl would roll her eyes because the girl was obviously a supermodel and not an "average girl." Likewise, every guy sees this pic and rolls their eyes at the idea that an average guy is jetting around on a private plane.

[lanadelrey25]

Still doesn't really apply, the joke was that he sleeps al the time. It doesn't matter who it is, celebrities make up like over 50% of memes, it's not like she has much to choose from.

[thecuriousone2020]

Interesting. Looks do fade. Are you not too into sex if you don’t mind me asking?

[cjgsu]

Nah. I love sex but sex still is a tiny part of any relationship. These are far more important to me.

[ohshee]

Any man would love to have you as there best friend and lover your beautiful and real on the inside and I'm sure the same on the outside

[AdithyaR]

This is probably one of the sweetest things I've read today.
I wish you luck and hope you find this guy you're looking for.

(P. S - I envy people who can sleep while in vehicles)

[bamesjond0069]

"Looks fade sex begins to not matter after a while." This is a common lie. Attractive people who take care of themselves make attractive old people. And many couples have sex well into old age. Think again if its not important.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Dude, you're the same one who demands wifey to basically be a cleaning sex toy. How can you be 33 and not realize 9/10 times looks and sex fade rather quick? If ya want a wife, she's a human and will more than likely raise hell if you try to force that sex slave stuff on her, even if she pretends she likes it. Have you actually met any women besides your mother?

[bamesjond0069]

@errorgoodnameunfound well i just broke up with my girlfriend but im still hooking up with her and 4 other girls. And they all come over and clean cook massage me and have sex. Women naturally want a strong man to serve. 5 girls on rotation works pretty well as a single man.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Hey, if you can make it work, cool, but I am curious how? Are you wealthy or know for looks? Maybe in East Asia or something?

[bamesjond0069]

@errorgoodnameunfound no in the US. I am better than average with looks and income but i attribute it primarily to being an asshole. Just tell girls what you want and watch them work. Its confidence.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

I mean yah, ofc confidence helps, but the looks/wealth is part of the sort of "transaction." From what it seems, they at the very least benefit a bit being with you. You have wealth meaning they have a chance of getting spoiled more and looks meaning the perception of being more entertaining in bed. I'd just enjoy it but be wary of the ones who will try to take as much free food or whatever possible. I even have a feeling money was part of the breakup situation.

[bamesjond0069]

@errorgoodnameunfound well i dont pay for things. Im not a sugar daddy or anything like that. If anything i spoil girls less than normal guys. Just being with me is their reward in my opinion... and there is that confidence im talking about.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Wait, "being with you" is the reward in itself? Then likely, it's charms, confidence and looks. You definitely seem confident and also, 20s and 30s are often the peak of those things for men. I'm just curious to see if you'd end up one of those attractive old people. I mean yes, I can see what you mean, but then the options are still gonna decrease in quality without decent personality to back it. Also problems like the breakup you mentioned are much more likely.

[alance99]

Nice Mytake and you are a geniune person, i hope you get the best guy around you

[cjgsu]

Thank you. U r very sweet💞💞

[AlexDeLarge]

What an amazing post. We need more people who see things like you do in this world 😊

[cjgsu]

Aww thank you💞💞

[killerboots]

The better question is: what can you bring to a guy?

[mrgspoter]

That's basic though would you mind if he was so pale maybe glowing?

[cjgsu]

I wouldn't care if he fit the rest

[mrgspoter]

Okay 👌

[Givemore]

I can't believe you described me perfectly. Are you hiding under my bed x

[Unit1]

Yay :D :D :D
Sounds reasonable. Sounds like a deal to me.

[Anonymous]

Is it just me or are black women having more wholesome and realistic standards for men? And white women’s standards are so fuckin high even after theyv fkd the whole town dry

[Romie27]

Great thoughts! Loved the way you have put this publically :)

[jimmy2]

That's right on dear. Wow i wish i was younger i am your man

[Dweezil]

Where did you find that picture of me?

[cjgsu]

Lmao

[DiversityHire]

Yeah, I kind of love you. 🤣

[cjgsu]

Lmao💞💞 >_<

[DiversityHire]

This is me replying because I want to say something, but my hamster is off the wheel at the moment. 🤣

[cjgsu]

... umm... get him before he runs away 😭

[DiversityHire]

He's back, and it's no worry, he's gotten too fat to escape out my ear. 🤣

[cjgsu]

Oh good. Or do u have baby ears🤔

[DiversityHire]

Oh no, if the rest of me wasn't to the same large scale I would have Dumbo ears. Lol.

Hamster just got fat. 🤣

[cjgsu]

Lmao

[DiversityHire]

Are you hitchhiking in the new photo?

[cjgsu]

Lmao nah. I was attempting 2 get a pic as I was dancing.

[DiversityHire]

Well, not only are you looking good, but I would also give you a ride as close as I can to where you need to to. Good luck in your travels! 💜🤣

No, but seriously, I like the new picture.

[cjgsu]

Lmao.
Thanks 💞💞💞

[Anonymous]

What men want in a woman... sex and she goes away for a few days to a wk.

[Anonymous]

You go girl. The world needs more women like you.

[cjgsu]

💞💞💞

[JoyGirl]

Yes ma’ammmmm 😌

[cjgsu]

>_<hehe glad u liked it