My boyfriends best friend saw me naked yesterday and I'm not sure if I should tell my boyfriend or not because he might get pissed?

My boyfriend and I have both been so busy the last few weeks our love-life kind of went by the wayside. I got off work early yesterday and wanted to surprise him. I knew my boyfriend would be home soon so I took a shower and laid in our bed naked waiting for him. I did not know my boyfriend had plans to go somewhere with his friend and my boyfriend did not know that I would be home. Evidently my boyfriend told his friend where the spare key was and to come on in the house and wait for him. From our room I heard the front door open and thought it was my boyfriend, I started touching myself waiting for him to come in the room. I guess his friend saw that my car was there and he came to my room and knocked on the door to let me know he was there. I heard a knock on my bedroom door which I thought was strange because my boyfriend doesn't usually knock, not thinking twice about it I said come in and when the door opened my boyfriend's best friend was standing there and saw me completely naked, I had my boobs squeezed together with my arms and rubbing myself between my legs. I was extremely embarrassed and tried to cover myself up with my hands because I was laying on top of the covers. He kind of awkwardly stared for a minute and said sorry and shut the door. I was really embarrassed I got dressed and went out to apologize to him and tell him it was an accident. I did not exactly explain to him what I was trying to do so for all he knows I was just laying there masturbating which kind of made me feel awkward. I asked him not to say anything to my boyfriend because he might get mad and he said he would keep quiet. I thought about it all last night and can't decide if I want to tell my boyfriend what happened. He's not the jealous type but something that big he may get upset over. Do you think it's worth the argument of telling my boyfriend or is it something I should just let go and not say anything about?
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  • I don't think he's going to think you were trying to cheat on him if you tell your boyfriend what happened. Telling him right away might help dispel his suspicion that there was some plan behind his back, since someone who was trying to fool around covertly would not bring up anything that would lead him to believe that. On the other hand, if his friend does mention it passingly he's more likely to suspect that you're hiding something that you don't want him to know. His friend has less to lose by mentioning it; if that friend does mention it, your boyfriend may think you were trying to come on to him.

  • Definitely tell your boyfriend. He'll get mad but he'll be even more mad if he finds out you kept it from him. Say him and his friend get pissed and end up arguing. His friend will have that ammo and might use it just to piss your bf off. Plus honestly his friend may have acted like he was sorry for seeing but he was probably really turned on. And having that experience between y'all it probably wouldn't be smart to be around each other. Shit happens. So I think your bf should definitely know. If I was him I would want to

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you should tell him so you know when guests come in the future. If he gets mad he's a douche

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  • You have to tell him because there is a huge chance at some point his friend will.

  • It's better to be honest. You did nothing wrong.

  • That's weird. To be honest do whichever eases your conscience; he will get over it if it's an accident.

  • I would tell him

  • Don't tell him otherwise will be complicated

  • Do whatever you feel is right. I don't think his friends will say anything to him. It was embarrassing for him as well.

  • Yeah its best too tell him, because if you dont and the friend does it makes you look bad

  • No don't tell him that's kinda hot

  • I'd tell him before the friend does.