damn good answer, very detailed you're getting most helpful
the main problem is my family, what if i got serious about her? it would just be weird
Is she adopted, therefore not making you related? If you love her, it wouldn't matter what the rest of the world thinks. A relationship is affected by bits and pieces of your environment. You can't always change what they think, but you can change what you think. If you're not ready to be in a relationship with her, then you're not ready to love her.
Oh your step dad's side of the family? I read the comment below. It's still not an issue I suppose.
she's from my step dad's side of the family, I do love her but it would be so weird to date her and if we got married or something I don't wanna tell people she's my cousin lol
She's basically your step cousin. She's not real family. I'm repeating this again: You can't always change what they think, but you can change what you think. If you're not ready to be in a relationship with her, then you're not ready to love he
what do you think about it? do you think it's weird?
As long as she's not related to you, I think it's fine. But then again, I am an odd person. Dude, learn to have your own opinion :)
even if he wasn't related to you and he looked attractive?
lol ill take that as a no then
Lol. No. It would be too weird for me
And she came on to me knowing she was my second cousin so she was really in the wrong.
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lol, I mean she's cute and we aren't related but it would still be super weird
Yes its just too weird. there's so many people out there, just pick one of them.
but I don't want to hurt her, I love her a great deal...
good point, still tho she's pretty but I don't think I could ever date her
good answer, trust me im not trying to pursue her or anything like that I just wanted to know if it was ok, since I might consider it
we're not related, she's on my step dad's side of the family and basically a distant cousin but she's really cool and pretty but I never thought about dating her im just considering it since she want's to date me
I'd still go with a vehement "no" on this one. There's tons of great women out there that aren't related to you whatsoever... I'd stick with those. Just my opinion. :-)
but... she's really cool :(
But she's family lol
lol what if she cries and hates me because I don't date her? :(
good answer, still im debating whether or not to do it, I feel like it would be weird
I was friends with benefits for a while with a hot distant cousin, very taboo which is hot
Yeah, I've thought some of mine were cute lol
Thats just crazy
what if her dad kicks my ass?
lol why not? what's wrong with wincest? xD
Ah... not related, but if you are going to refer to her as your cousin, you treat her as such
lol i was just kidding but yeah I feel like she's my real cousin
what if he was not related to you?
No. It would still put me off.
what if he looked like Channing Tatum? lol
but you still think it's weird?
It depends on of you grew up together. Awkward, for sure.
yeah we use to play together as kids and we see each other sometimes, I think that's why she has those types of feelings