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What does it mean if a female friend puts her feet on your crotch area/lap deliberately? What if she sucks her finger and flirts with you? PLS HELP!?

1. One of my female friends (let's call her L) is a feisty attractive Spanish girl. I get on well with her, because I listen to her. Some of the others in my hall (including her friends) find her a little too talkative. I do think she is hot, but I didn't think of her in that way, not as a potential gf. She's been getting touchy and I'm not sure what it means. She has texted me saying she wants to see me, but when I get there nothing happens except talking. L once asked me to carry her when a couple of us were hanging out, although I didn't because I get a bit nervous round her for some reason. Two days later, L puts her bare feet on my crotch during a game of cards in public. It felt soooo good. I got a phone call though and had to get up. I was literally finding it hard to keep calm. She sucked her finger suggestively at breakfast the next day from across the room! 2. I fancy a few girls in halls and she knows this. She seems to walk into a conversation I am having with my crushes and blanks the other girl, essentially interrupting proceedings! She only does this with hot girls. 3. She seems adamant to block me meeting a crush I have on her course. I was told by three friends that this girl has similar interests to me. I saw a picture and she is beautiful! All 3 said that L should introduce met to her. L who up until this point was happy to discuss me meeting other girls, quickly changes the subject "No she's not his type". I was hoping crush girl would be invited to a party at halls (as she invited L and the others to her own birthday party), but nope. 4. At a bar night out, she asked if she could put her legs on me to rest and wanted me to sit next to her so she could be close to me at dinner. 5. As well as fantasizing about meeting my crush, I now keep thinking about female friend L. But... get this, I just found out from someone else that she has a long distance boyfriend! For some reason, I keep imagining her giving me head.
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Imagine if I was sitting down. My legs go out in a V shape with my torso at the base of the V. L put her bare feet on the base of the V, one foot right there, another touching the left leg slightly. She kept them there for a good 40 minutes. It was so hot, but so hard (literally) to keep calm for so long!! Does she want me? She has done this twice, but I am still waiting/hoping for round 3.
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I don't like her. Although the thought of her sucking is hot.. I don't want to do anything/have anything to do with her. She is flaky and a blocker and a poor friend. I just want her out of my head and to be able to think about and talk to other girls!
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  • This girl is obviously interested in you. Possibly even for more than just sex, since she's trying to keep you away from other girls. She's probably keeping her long distance boyfriend strung along until she has confirmation from you that you're interested, then she'll dump him. Or, she may just keep him on the side. I've seen it go both ways. Either way - she's clearly insecure and doesn't know how to attract a guy's interest in a non-sexual way.

    You on the other hand are only interested in sex. You might make that clear to her, but if she likes you, she'll take what she can get. You move on. She feels used. She ends up hurt. You feel guilty. Long distance boyfriend gets dumped or cheated on.

    Nobody wins. Stick with a girl you actually want a relationship with.

    • Thing is, I wasn't interested in her at all before this. I think she wonders why as she is fairly hot and a lot of other guys seem to try it on with her. But we're just friends. I have a few other girls who I am interested in and who flirt back. They enter my thoughts and I text often (if I'm not nervous!) With this girl L, she blocked me from meeting a girl who I had a crush on who was on her course. In addition, I feel like she is trying to tease/control me. I mean I'm someone who values looks and personality. I don't like her as a person and don't think I will want to be friends after this year ends. Why is it I find her hot after she did this stuff?

    • I don't want to have her as my girlfriend nor have her being my first time having sex. I want that to be with someone I click with. Why though ever since she put her feet on me and sucked her finger do I keep thinking about her giving me a footjob and then a blowjob? The thought of HER specifically, sucking me off, is very hot to masturbate to. I even found a p*rnstar who looked similar and was pretending it was her. I find the thought or her picture pleasurable. But when it comes to releasing/cumming, I don't want to do it to her. I normally change the picture or video otherwise I feel regret afterwards as if she is winning. What does that mean? Does it mean I don't actually like her then?

    • Also was she trying it on with me?

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  • Hmmm... I think she wants you but not entirely. Maybe because her boyfriend is far away she wants to have a little fun. Maybe you should confront her about this. But from the looks of it she is probably trying to flirt a bit or arouse you. But if you don't like her then let her know that no means no.

    • She aroused me in the sense that I got hard. I don't know if she felt that with her feet. Also when she sucked her finger, she was looking at me. The thought of her rubbing her feet on me or sucking her finger, or giving me a blowjob is very arousing. Is she trying something? What was she suggesting? I have fantasized about her doing those things. I ended up masturbating to a p*rnstar who looks like her pretending it was her. I also was looking at her picture. It felt really hot to pretend it was her giving me head. But when it came to releasing/cumming, I regret it if I do it about her. I changed to a picture of a different hot friend and felt happier. Does this mean I don't like her then? I don't really want to date her, and didn't think about her at all before this. I fancy someone else. But for some reason I find masturbating about her hot?

    • Also why does she block me meeting the other girl on her course? Is it because she is jealous?

    • Most likely

  • She wants you, you want her.
    What the fuck is the problem?

    • Do you really think so? Does she want my D? When you say I want her, look I'd rather ask out the hot girl on her course, but L seems to change the subject. I have started to think about her in fantasies after she rested her feet on my crotch and the sucking finger, leg rest stuff. I mean I have masturbated about her giving me head. I don't see her as a gf, but if L would like to give me head or get naughty with me, then I am happy for her to do that! How do I hint at it? She seems to only be discreetly flirty in public. In one on one moments - e. g. she texts me saying she wants to see me, I go to her room, and she just talks - it seems normal. Only time was in a restaurant where when I sat on the opposite end, she asked whether I could sit next to her to be closer. It was just her and I. ADVICE?

    • Does she want me and how do I let her know she can give me head if she likes?

    • No she wants your boob obviously she want your dick geez! Just tell her get wanna have some fun? If she doesn't get the hint than... Is this your first time? Are you really 25-34?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you can't figure out what's going on, you're a total idiot.
    Nothing happens because you have no clue, and don't act on it.

    When I read this, I kind of chuckle. It's like having a beautiful naked girl on the bed covered in rose petals when you come home... except you walk right past her and start playing your XBOX.

    • Are you saying she is attracted to me? Thing is: 1. I thought she was hot, but it was only after she put her feet on my crotch that I started to dream about her giving me a blowjob and fapping to her. 2. I like a girl on her course. 3. I do not want to date this girl. She is not my type of girlfriend. 4. She is at my halls if things get awkward. 5. How can I be sure she is offering to give me head? Why does she not initiate in private? She has only been flirty in public. Is she just trying to keep me as a backup? 6. She has not told me she has a boyfriend. What does this mean? 7. What am I meant to do? If she was lying on my bed and offered herself, it would be clear. Or even when we are sitting alone, why does she not rub me up then? 8. Why does she not tell me she wants me if she does? 9. Is she trying to just distract me from other girls because she likes attention?

    • P. S. Also I do find her hot, but not girlfriend material. I just can't stop thinking about her giving me head. Your advice for my 9 points? I am a complete novice bro. What's your take on this expert? Is she playing games? Teasing me for attention?

    • Your advice pls?

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  • Stop wasting your damn time thinking about some girl who happens to look slightly prettier and focus on the cute and hot girl who wants to be all over your cock that you get along with.

    Even if you 'get' your crush, she won't make you happy if she's not that into you.

    • Okay, so say I am happy to let this hot Spanish girl have my D in her mouth, how do I hint that I am fine with what she does? I mean she has only done it in public so far. Literally, if my legs were a V, she was resting her bare feet on the base of the V for ages.

    • Yeah, I understand what she's done. I have to ask you, not argue, but what makes you say you wouldn't want to date her (I get the implication you would date your "crush" yet you've never met her. Similar interests is nice, but doesn't mean she'd be grabbing at your D, which is a lot more important than similar interests tbh) Your shift in fantasy is pretty normal by the way, though most people don't talk about it. It's normal for virgins to focus only on random, super hot people. What you learn pretty fast in life though is that a somewhat hot girl who WANTS you and is enthusiastic fooling around with you or teasing you is a LOT hotter then some pretty girl who doesn't want you at all. I'm barely interested in women now unless they're interested in me. That's a normal progression. As for how to move forward, you just need an excuse to go to her room, or she to yours, sit near each other, and begin touching her somewhere, then keep escalating.

    • Going into a hookup hoping she'll give you a bj and you'll do nothing back... she might be down for that, but you're not exactly being much of a partner :p

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  • Dude if you can't figure it out, you must be pretty obtuse. She wants you to make a move, so do it. If not be content to live in your fantasy world!

    • I'll be honest. I am a novice with women. Please advise, would really appreciate a girl's opinion! Thing is: 1. I thought she was hot, but it was only after she put her feet on my crotch that I started to dream about her giving me a blowjob and fapping to her. 2. I like a girl on her course. 3. I do not want to date L. 4. How can I be sure she is offering to give me head? Why does she not initiate in private? She has only been flirty in public. Is she just trying to keep me as a backup? 5. She has not told me she has a boyfriend. What does this mean? 6. When we are sitting alone, why does she not rub me up then? 7. Why does she not tell me she wants me if she does? 8. Is she trying to just distract me from other girls because she likes attention? 9. Is she jealous of my crush on her course? Is that why she tries to prevent me from meeting her? I heard she might be jealous of this other pretty girl from someone else.

    • What makes you think she wants me? And is she offering to give me head?

    • She is interested in you yes. Probably majorly soon to ask her for oral, allow things to develope before that happens.

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  • "Hey guys, what does it mean when a girl puts your dick in her mouth? Do you think she's attracted?"

    • Thing is, she hasn't literally done that though.. but is that what she is suggesting? What about the foot thing? Look if she wanted to put my D in her mouth... that's what I can't stop thinking about! What to do, advice? You sure she wants it? Based on?

    • How to ask her for oral/blowjob?

    • Is she offering to put my D in her mouth?

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  • The p*ssy could be laying there with a neon "All you can eat buffet" sign and you STILL wouldn't have a clue.. Tsk, Tsk...

    • But is she wanting me or not here? Is it just innocent? What should I do? Also I'm not sure if I want her to be my first..

    • Airplane flaggers guiding you in

    • How can you be so sure? And what to do to erm.. land? Or let her land on me?

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  • She wants you. you should kiss her.

    • You think so? What makes you think she wants me?

    • Girls do not initiate physical touch with men that they do not want to touch them. She wants you to touch her, she is inviting you to touch her.

    • Thanks, okay that's cool! But in this case, when she put her feet on me, I mean she was sitting on the other side of the sofa arm, and I did move my hand to brush her thighs. How would I touch her back though? I haven't had her put her feet directly on my crotch again... god that felt so good and I wish she did. When she rested her legs on mine in the bar, it felt hot. She wanted to sit next to me in the restaurant, but didn't initiate any touching though. For some reason, I keep imagining her giving me head! Feel so confused.. she doesn't want me to meet this pretty girl on her course? She only seems to do these things (discreetly) in public. Not in private when she has the chance. Your advice?

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  • It seems like she wants to hook up with you.

    • Forgive me as I have never had sex. What makes you say that? What should I do? Thing is, I can imagine receiving oral from her (it's all I can think about sometimes), but in terms of us having sex, I would only be up for that if I had already had my 1st time with someone special.

    • Just from what you say she's being flirty like. Do whatever you want? Hook up wit her if you want or don't. Is she the kind of person you could date?

    • She's the kind of person I could date yes. She's also someone I would like to get physically intimate with. But she is not the one nor is she the one I would want to have sex with for my first time. This is what puts me off. I don't think I would want to bang her unless I had already had sex with someone I had a connection with. Only thing is I wouldn't mind letting this girl give me oral or any kinky footjob she is into. Advice?

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  • Foot on crotch - I want your cock but I can't just reach with my hands and grab it

  • L wants your D.

    • How can you be sure? What should I do considering I wanted to meet hot girl on her course? Is she single? How to hint that I wouldn't mind her sucking me off if she would like to?

    • All I can say that give her good positive reactions, it is your golden chance man. Don't do anything stupid otherwise you could loose her. I'm sure because it's human nature.

    • Thanks! How do I show her positive reactions? Trouble is others were present. Inside I was moaning in pleasure and wanted to let her do whatever she wanted with her feet. I mean I can't sort of go "ohhh" can I? How should I hug her? Should I put my hands lower down? Advice to let her know I am happy to let her have the D? by the way is she single, or just after attention because I happen to like a hot girl on her course? Is she interested in me? I wouldn't want to date her though..

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  • I think you need to srsly stop engaging her.. its ok to fantasizes but don't get carried away, she has a boyfriend so she's off limits.

    • Thing is she engaged me in the first place. I did not... repeat did NOT.. find her sexually attractive before she did the feet on crotch thing. Literally if you were looking at it top down view, my legs are a V, and her feet are at the base of the V. I don't know.. I think about her giving me head, I masturbated about her doing it and felt horny, but when completing did not want to think about her and so put a picture of someone else up. Is this a hidden sign? Why is this girl blocking me from meeting a girl on her own course?

    • She sounds like a flirty type of girl that likes attention, I'd disengage.. especially since she has a boyfriend. Next time she sits near you close your legs, dont sit close to her and you probably shouldn't show her any attn if you aren't interested in pursuing a relationship with her. Go for the other girl.

    • Thanks. Yes I think she is an attention seeker. I have avoided sitting next to her and close my legs now. Definitely not interested in a relationship with such a person. For some reason though, I have some yearning for her to do the foot thing again.. Also occasionally she crops up when I am thinking of masturbating. I find the thought of her sucking me off arouses me? But yeah I want to pursue the other and other girls. Unfortunately she has well and truly scuppered my chances with hot girl on her course. I feel annoyed that such a manipulative person can block it.

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  • Either troll
    or blind o_o

    • Well sexually inexperienced, so don't know whether she was genuinely being suggestive or seeking attention/being innocent?

    • Ain't biting dude you have a foot fetish and know full well about what ya talking about. so I'm just jotting it down as a troll effort.

    • Nah, thing is she also sucked her finger and has been displaying other signs. I don't know whether she is trying to seduce me or not? Have you read the full posting?

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  • d00d she wants the D. she is probably turned on by you because you are different from other guys she encounters, ergo, you listen to her and your initial response to her isn't to simply hit it and quit it.

    @Hajar_Whitestone

    • You sure she wants the D? So she likes the fact that I haven't gone for her, so shall I just act normal then? Tbh, I would like to date the hot girl on her course. But if this girl wants to give me head, then I would be very happy with that. What is your advice? How to hint to her that I would love it if she would take my D between her feet or in her mouth?

    • pretty sure she is horny and wouldn't mind doing things with you. whenever she does something sexual to you, reciprocate like only 30% though. meaning, if she grabs your dick, don't touch her boobies. just like put your arm around her and let her continue and show her you're somewhat enjoying it. but the feeling I get is that she got off to the guy who is nice and listened to her so don't take that appeal away either. take it slow man.

    • Okay I see your point. - When she put her feet on my crotch (god it felt so good), I brushed my hand on her thigh whilst she was doing it. - When she sucked her finger at breakfast one day, I simply froze though. Now I cannot stop thinking about her giving me head. Thing is I am acting normally, but unsure how to hint I would like her to do this stuff in private. I mean she does these things discreetly, but in public or when there are others around. Not being experienced myself, that's what makes me nervous. Once she asked me in a group of friends whether I could carry her, I didn't do that, as I may have got hard in front of people. She put her legs on me in the bar the other day. But I was unsure what to do. I don't know whether to put my hand on her leg or my finger to her mouth. Should I be telling her I like what she does, or simply hope she continues? You sure she wants the D? Is she single? And will it just be friends with benefits , I don't fancy more..

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  • If that wasn't any more obvious, let me draw you a picture
    img3.wikia.nocookie.net/.../Signals.png
    Now go man, GO! xD

    • This is hilarious. OMG, love this. But are you sure she wants me? Thing is: 1. I would be more than happy to receive oral from her. 2. I would be happy to bang her if I had had sex with someone before. 3. I want my 1st time though to be with someone I actually connect with. Ideas? Is there a way to do 1?

    • So you find her physically attractive but don't connect emotionally?

    • If you just want her as a friends with benefits then tell her you like her but are not looking for anything serious and ask her if she's interested in that

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  • == She want's you so badly --' Envy her :'(

    • Really! How can you be sure?

    • Also: 1. I thought she was hot, but it was only after she put her feet on my crotch that I started to dream about her giving me a blowjob and fapping to her. 2. I like a girl on her course. 3. I do not want to date L. 4. How can I be sure she is offering to give me head? Why does she not initiate in private? She has only been flirty in public. Is she just trying to keep me as a backup? 5. She has not told me she has a boyfriend. What does this mean? 6. When we are sitting alone, why does she not rub me up then? 7. Why does she not tell me she wants me if she does? 8. Is she trying to just distract me from other girls because she likes attention? 9. Is she jealous of my crush on her course? Is that why she tries to prevent me from meeting her? I heard she might be jealous of this other pretty girl from someone else.

    • There is games girls always play, she want you and in the same time she is trying to get you I can't understand her actions but advice don't go for it, let her chase you and after couple days see what will happen if she is continue doing that, in that case go for it and give her what she want, I think in my opinion she is looking for some fun with you, no girl would act like that if she isn't wanna something from the guy, just be careful with her, also no girl would say to a guy that she wanna him literally she will make some moves like this girl doing right now. @Asker

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  • She probably just wants sex

    • How can you be sure? Does she want it at all? I wouldn't mind just a fling with her, not a relationship. Does she want to give me head? Because she has got me thinking about it a lot.

    • I don't know, I mean I don't think any girl who was trying to attract a guy as a boyfriend would do those things lol. Its probably just sexual but who knows what kind of sex she wants.

    • So how would I hint to her I am happy to engage in such activity? She does this stuff when in public. Wish she did it one on one!! I mean she put her feet on the base of the V if you were looking at me sitting down birds eye view.

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  • I think she just had cold feet and wanted to warm them. The crotch area is one of the warmest temperatured spot of the body. She probably sucked her fingers, because she was trying to remove the dirt from under her finger nails. Yeah, that's what I think.

    • Haaa. so all of this was just to warm her feet? Interesting.. or maybe as the crotch gets harder it gently massages the underside of the feet? Seriously though, what was she trying and why do I keep imagining her giving me head?

  • Im surprised you haven't gotten blue balls yet.

    • Struggling here! She is a teaser. And she arouses me, doesn't go all the way, and continues to block me meeting other girls. Why is it that: 1. I find it incredibly hot thinking about HER going down on me. So much so that I masturbate about it. Is it because I like dominating her? 2. I like to fap to a p*rnstar who resembles her. 3. But I don't feel happy if I cum about her. I prefer cumming about someone else, either another hot friend or a p*rnstar. 4. I get aroused thinking about HER rubbing my dick with her feet. Am I just feeling hot about dominating her for wronging me as someone else here suggested? I feel annoyed she blocks me with other girls. And the fact that I prefer completing to someone else, does it mean I am not attracted to her? Only thing is I still find it hot to masturbate about her giving me a blowjob.

    • Thoughts on above?

  • Think of her as a she male if u wanna get over her
    Or doe thing else that disgust you
    Then make sure u never look at her the same

    • Thing is she is not the one, but she is also a hot Spanish girl. Difficult to get her out of your thoughts!

    • Why does it feel so good to think about her and I get hard and imagine HER sucking me off? But I don't want to release to her? I'm worried because I seem to get horny when I see pornstars who look like her as well. I was erm.. moaning "Oh yess L" when watching one. But I always change the video to something else or a picture of a hot celebrity to release. Is there a way to get her out of my head? She did her job well. So stressed with these thoughts. Is the fact that I don't complete or want to release to the thought of her because I am in fact NOT attracted to her and feel dirty doing that? I much prefer to complete to the thought of another girl.

    • Thoughts on above pls?

  • Y U NO just do this panochita and get it over with? You can waste your time chasing your crush or you can go after a girl who's giving you all sorts of 'come get some' signals. You're even having fantasies about her.

    She's not your 'type' for a girlfriend? So what, it sounds like she's your type for a quick fling.

    Long distance boyfriend? You're at uni. Sooooooo many previous relationships collapse at uni due to the distance.

    • Agreed on your points. Would like to get with long distance one later. How to do L? What signals has she given? How do I act on them? 1. I thought she was hot, but it was only after she put her feet on my crotch that I started to dream about her giving me a blowjob and fapping to her. 2. I like a girl on her course. 3. I do not want to date L. 4. How can I be sure she is offering to give me head? Why does she not initiate in private? She has only been flirty in public. Is she just trying to keep me as a backup? 5. She has not told me she has a boyfriend. What does this mean? 6. When we are sitting alone, why does she not rub me up then? 7. Why does she not tell me she wants me if she does? 8. Is she trying to just distract me from other girls because she likes attention? 9. Is she jealous of my crush on her course? Is that why she tries to prevent me from meeting her? I heard she might be jealous of this other pretty girl from someone else.

    • How do I hint that I am fine with her giving me head or a footjob if she wants to?

    • What signals has she given? Did you even read your own question when you wrote it? She likes the attention - from a guy she likes. That she hasn't mentioned a boyfriend (you don't even know for 100% that's true) is down to her. If you want to do stuff with her, you need to be flirtatious back. Do you lot ever go out clubbing? That is a perfect time to kiss her on the dance floor. Grab your coat, you've pulled, and once you've got her back to your room (or hers) you can do whatever you like :)

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  • Damn bro you text is so long I just got a college flashback. Anyway, when she puts her feet on your crotch just say " damn girl, do you alway put you feet on top of thing that are going into your mouth later " like a boss bro but do this in a friendly funny way.

  • She wants you! and you can tell by her way of flirting and how she jumps into your conversations with other girls; she maybe gets jealous?

    • Why does she also block me from meeting a girl I like on her course? We're just friends. I mean I don't think I will even be friends with her after this year because of this. She seems a jealous and flaky girl. Trouble is ever since she did this stuff, I keep imagining her giving me head. The thought of HER sucking me off is very hot. I masturbated about her giving me a blowjob yesterday. It felt hot up until the point when I was going to cum. For some reason I didn't like completing thinking of her. So I guess I don't fancy her? I'd much rather date or masturbate about someone else. Thoughts?

    • Well if you don't fancy her then you don't. She obviously blocks you from meeting the other girl because she doesn't want you being with anyone else but her. But do you like her sexually? since you get hot when you masturbated about her?

    • I know, it's irritating that she blocked it. I think she is jealous of said girl too. This girl sounds great and is from a similar background to me. Dammit! I don't fancy L. I don't want to be in a relationship with her and doubt we will be life long friends. I don't know about whether I like her sexually. Yes, I do get hot when masturbating about her. The thought of HER sucking my dick is very very hot. The thought of it gets me hard. I ended up masturbating to a similar looking p*rnstar the other day. It felt good and I was pretending it was her. But when it came to releasing/cumming, I didn't want to do it to the thought of her. I changed to a picture of someone else and came. What does this mean? I guess I don't like her then.

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  • She just wants attention and toying with you.

    • That's what I was wondering. Why is it that: 1. I find it incredibly hot thinking about HER going down on me. So much so that I masturbate about it. Is it because I like dominating her? 2. I like to fap to a p*rnstar who resembles her. 3. But I don't feel happy if I cum about her. I prefer cumming about someone else, either another hot friend or a p*rnstar. 4. I get aroused thinking about HER rubbing my dick with her feet. Am I just feeling hot about dominating her for wronging me as someone else here suggested? I feel annoyed she blocks me with other girls. And the fact that I prefer completing to someone else, does it mean I am not attracted to her? Only thing is I still find it hot to masturbate about her giving me a blowjob.

    • Why do I smell troll on this one?

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