Calling himself daddy, why?

Why does my man acts like he wants me to call him daddy. Not in bed or any sexual way but he would say "daddy works a lot" or "daddy needs a massage" like wth we have no children lol I don't mind it but why? I never had a guy say that kind of stuff to me.
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  • My boyfriend calls himself "big daddy" at first I thought it was really weird, but it's kind of growing on me. He says "come to big daddy" when he wants to cuddle and stuff like that. But for us it's a little more sexual, he doesn't really do it when talking about normal stuff. Kinda like "do you want big daddy's dick", he never really expects me to say back to him tho. And I think he only says that stuff cuz some of the mexican rappers he listens to go by "king daddy" or "big daddy".

  • Perhaps he see's himself in that role but none sexually, some men and some women would like to be called that etc. It's kind of a kink if that's what you will call it, maybe explore it with him, and see what he wants.

  • that would creep the hell out of me...
    maybe it's his fetish. ask him?

  • I think it is his way of showing dominance over you

Most Helpful Guys

  • I personally like to be called daddy particularly during sex. The reason is its like her telling me she loves me and trusts me to protect her and provide for her just as her father has done for her. Its kind of an assertion of my masculinity and of her femininity all at once. So perhaps this is why he says it, it makes him feel good when you respond as a reasurance that you view him in this way.

  • I don't know if it necessarily means anything. I work with a guy who calls himself daddy. For example, he'll say something like "time for daddy to cut some steaks". (I work in a restaurant) He is in his forties too. I think it's just a way of being dominant. Daddy=head of household. I wouldn't think too much of it.

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  • How could we know? Why wouldn't just ask him?

  • He wants to be your daddy-o.

  • Haha that's weird I've only heard of it during sex

  • I actually don't know, I would find it extremely creepy. Although I have seen girls claim that they want to call their boyfriends daddy, and I did say I would find that equally creepy.

  • Daddy wants some kids i guess

  • Straight up ask him why he does that lol.

    • Lol right

  • errmmm maybe its his fetish or something

  • Maybe he just likes to speak if himself in third person and when he refers to himself as daddy, it's not that awkward.

  • sugar daddy...

  • no, in my opinion that's disgusting, "daddy" or "papi" but I hate "papi" even more

  • Just slap him next time he says such thing.

    He thinks you are his child or something.