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Emotional. Then mental. Then physical.
An emotional connection is extremely important to me. I want to be comfortable enough in a relationship to be able to share our thoughts and feelings with each other. I want to be able to have a deep love and understanding for one another... To be able to "read" each other.
A mental connection is important, too. It's important to be intellectually compatible, and to be able to discuss or debate different topics in a respectful way.
Being attracted to each other is important, but it's certainly not the most important thing to me out of the three.