I found the love of my life this year, I can't imagine my future with out her. She is almost exactly like me and from the first 20 minutes of the first date she has finished every joke or funny story I've told. But the problem comes down to this, we've talked about marriage and children and retirement and all the things 23 year olds talk about when they get tired of one night stands. She doesn't want children... Ever and that bothers me a lot because the thing I want more in my life is to be a father to a little boy or girl. It turns me off to the point it's been a month and I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore and now as of last night I slept with a single mother out of quick last minute decision and part of me regrets it and wants to make it work with my girlfriend and part of me wants to pursue things with the single mother. I need to make a decision because neither of these girls deserve to be lied too. But my heart is being pulled in two directions.