Under these circumstances, would you like to know your spouse cheated/is cheating?

Say you've been this person's spouse for 15 years, suddenly you get a message with proof showing you that your spouse is cheating/has previously cheated on you. You guys also have a kid that is just about in high school. The person who messages you is the person your spouse is currently "cheating" on you with, but claims they never had the intention and only wanted to expose them, despite you not know them. The relationship you have with your partner is also described by them as "having lost that spark."

So, honestly, would you want to find out? Why, or why not? Would you prefer to find out from someone else even if it means never finding out - just so you won't hear it from a stranger?

If you were put in the position of finding the cheater, and do not know their family, you've started to play along, would you try to find and contact their family? Why, or why not?
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