I'm really insecure about my small boobs? I feel like I'm not enough for my boyfriend?

I'm a size 36A/32B and I always feel like I'm not pleasing my boyfriend. He gets erections and everything, but I feel awful for not having bigger boobs.

Whenever we have sex, I feel bad that he doesn't have anything to "grab on to" which prevents me from any kind of sexual activity at all.

I'm very insecure about it and I'm not sure what to do?
I'm turning 18 in a few days by the way, so I doubt they will ever grow :(
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  • Um you're not small boobed, you're medium. If you're a 36A you should also be able to wear 32C not B. Im personally a 30D/32C so basically you have about the same volume of boobs as I do, and trust me you ain't small you're medium size.
    My SO likes big boobs but he says he loves mine a lot too and always plays around with them anyway and he likes it even more that Im super confident in my boobs as it apparently makes me even more attractive.
    And don't worry about them not growing any more, because they're medium size you can rock much much lower cut tops and go braless like I do all the time.

    A lot of girls are fed the belief that guys only like big boobs, not true at all, many actually prefer medium size, and some prefer small.
    I used to wear push up bra cause I was insecure when I was younger but now I really don't give a crap and go braless majority of the time.

  • Awww girl, you are beautiful the way you are. I think the way that you are feeling is just anxiety in your mind. Especially if you reallly love him. You will want to really please him and if you have self doubts and insecurity, that will play into your relationship. You will think that your anxieties are things that he knows about and thinks about, when it is not. It is just you. If he loves you then he will love any shape and size of your body. If he loves you he will like your small breasts. You are made beautifully and I hope that you realize a guy who loves you, will genuinely love every part of you.

  • ? that makes no sense, i have B cups as well and my boyfriend tells me he will play and grab on to them all the time (we haven't met yet), so i dont really see an issue. unless you are LITERALLY flat chested, which clearly you are not seeing your bra sizes, i dont see a problem lmao

Most Helpful Guys

  • Size of your boobs Don't matter.
    This girl I'm interested in now, never mind her body, but her boobs are HUGE. I'm not sure on the exact size, but they have to be at least a G, or bigger probably. I like them a lot.

    One of my best friends, we're just friends, but I won't deny I'm attracted to her. Her boobs are similar in size to yours, and they're perfect. I look at them often and get hard when I do. I don't prefer the other girl's over hers. Its just whatever looks best on you.

  • Most likely it's all in your head. He's probably very happy/satisfied. If we like you, we like you for you, not your boobs. It doesn't matter the size. A lot of us guys even prefer smaller boobs like yours. So talk to him about how you feel, ask him how he likes them. He'll likely tell you not to worry and that he loves them.

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  • If you are a 36A you are actually a 32C, which is my size and not small lol, it's medium

    • Maybe I'm thinking of a 34A.. there is no way I could fit into a C

    • If you're a 36A that's equivalent to a 34B

  • What you have is what you have. Try not to be insecure about it because they aren't about to change unless you gain weight or maybe have kids. Focus on your positives.

  • What?

    You're either a 32 or a 36. You can't be both. 😂😂

    • lol are you laughing? look at your size...

    • Laughing at the comment. Not about her being flat. As you know. So... when you come back with your next account, go ahead and tell everyone where I go to school and how tall I am. Those two things, plus my age and that I'm flat chested is all you know about me... which is what everyone knows about me. Keep trying douche.

    • @CheerGirl38139 Well spotted, to be honest I hadn't noticed this.

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  • If he cared, he wouldn't be with you in the first place. If he liked big boobs better, he would've left you for a girl with bigger boobs by now. But he hasn't, so clearly he is content.

  • Don't worry about this. Your boyfriend is probably not thinking about this at all. He's just happy to be with you.

  • If it were only possible, I'd swap with you in a heartbeat.

    • I volunteer to swap with you! I'm 32 C

    • @BurCelf Do you mean with me? :) Because to me that is an absolutely lovely size to be.

    • What size are you?

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  • Honestly, it doesn't matter to most guys, at least not to the point where it's a deal-breaker if they love a lot of other things about you. It won't prevent him from being sexually attracted to you.

  • Any boobs is good boobs as long as he doesn't put you down for it, keep your chin up because if he really loves you he wouldn't care if you'd have Double D's or negative size boobs

  • I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it
    he ll let you know how much of a stunner you are to him

  • Getover your insecurities? I love A boobs!

  • Small tits are completely fine, I honestly don't mind them at all. As long as your boyfriend is getting turned on you're all good.

  • You have NOTHING to be insecure about !! Curvy hips / feminine legs are a far more powerful attraction trigger for men. I have NEVER been drawn to boobs !!

  • it doesn't mean they won't grow, also if you are really really thin you could try gaining some weight to see if that helps, you can always get surgery so don't feel bad, i've donated money on a site so girls can get their implants paid for

  • What @malifebelikeoooaaah and @slatyb said. Unless he's said anything, he's good with your boobs.

    • Thanks for the mention ^^

  • Honestly all this media bullshit, people are so superficial online... in reality it's way different... you have nothing to worry about.
    I would not care it's about personality and face boobs or butt I don't care about.

  • If he loves and accepts you , your breast size shouldn't matter to him.
    Me personally, I love breasts of all sizes even A cup because all breasts are beautiful no matter the size.
    Personality is more important

  • Put balloons in your shirt for the time being

  • Either get implants or move the fuck on. Sure, he'd rather have perfect tits to grip onto but it's not a deal breaker.

  • Don't be so hard on yourself. Don't focus on what you don't have focus on the good things about yourself. Remember some people have it way worse in life. 😀

  • leave them natural is always sexier!

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