My boyfriend is cheating on me. but I'm not going to do anything about it.. yet. What do you think?

my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. I got pregnant.
he has an exgf and has kids with her.
I learned that they got back together.
When she found out about me she freaked out and ask him to get back with her.
so I asked him if he wants to and he said no he wants to stay with me.
so months passed we are still together.
I got in his email and found out that they got back together.
And he's still with me.
I decided to pretend I don't know.
I actually expected more from him. He has a good heart, good to people, great to me, amazing father to his kids. so I never expected him to cheat on me.
why am I pretending not to know that he got back with her?

maybe he'll end the affair when the baby comes

maybe I just don't want to be alone during this pregnancy

but I do know one thing is that even knowing this I still foolishly love him. Love is definitely blind huh.

what am I hoping for?

at the moment my plan is wait until my baby comes.
stay with him. See what he does. when his choice is to keep cheating.
I will leave him tell him what I knew all this time.
he can be a father to our baby. but that would be his time limit.

I know they weren't together when he started dating me because the exgf messaged me about it, how she wants to get back with him.
And he said he chose me.
I'm definitely disappointed in him. but I'm staying at least until our baby is born and ask again for his decision.
am I stupid? most likely.
My boyfriend is cheating on me. but I'm not going to do anything about it.. yet. What do you think?
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