How to know your true feelings?

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How to know your true feelings?

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In which stage or how to know if you're becoming cold to your loved one?
I can't figure out how to know my real feelings, if I still love this person or not, pretty confused.. help

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AskAlthea | 383 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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If your loved one broke up with you how would you feel? If that person started happily dating someone else how would you feel?

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Is this still revelant?
- troublemaker89
  
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  no.. how to know your true feelings to know if you still love to your man/woman
- DanielleinaD
  
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  Asker, you didn't understand the reply... In order to evaluate your feelings (if you still love him), you should imagine how would you feel if he were the one who would walk away. Yould you feel hurt? would you miss him a lot? would you feel jealous if you discovered that he found someone else?
- troublemaker89
  
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  we faced those moments where he was about to leave me and I felt fire, I been physically sick and lost sleep for 2-3 days but same time when it's casual normal days and if I'm not able to contact with him I feel normal...
  Our fights effecting me by being okay.
  He's accusing me. not trusting me. not caring what I am doing, if I write him, if I might go out with someone else, if I leave him and he stopped telling me about something what bothering him so it makes me normal to everything and lately I don't understand my feelings at all
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- DanielleinaD
  
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  That's frustration dear... you hate it that you can't "teach him a lesson". By what you explained, I understand that He's the one with bigger questions. Have you ever done something which he could perceive as betrayal? Some people (like myself) tend to not mention disturbing things which we find out about our partner. We just wait to see for how long they will try to cover it up. At the same time, our behavior switches dramatically
- troublemaker89
  
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  I work as bartender and everyone knows how is it all the restaurants and pubs: busy times, full place, no time and sleeping till 3-4pm... I can't always chat during work and he take it as I've changed, he suspects me that I make new friends with clients or seeing someone else, being flirty which is not true and he thinks I've changed since I worked there but the only thing that changed is free time which taken by my work...
  I'm loyal girl and won't even make guy's friends... I've talked to him today and he sound upset but he don't share with me what bothers him, what's wrong so I couldn't say anything else but " as you like "...
  as you said its frustrating because it doesn't make relationship closer, instead it make it turn to wrong direction
- DanielleinaD
  
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  ... My best bet is that he's dissapointed, which explains his behavior. He seems so me! :))
  Me and my ex experienced the same situation: She started working, her time was limited and I started not necesarily to doubt her, but I felt unwanted and not taken care of. I acted selfish and treated her the same way (in my clumsy mind I thought she would start begging for my attention). The result? -She gave up... kinda what you seem to take into consideration. I told you all my details in hopes that your story doesn't end the same way for you two! Good luck :)

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Lumberman53
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Once you have moved past the initial courting stages

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- Lumberman53
  
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  Thanks For MHO!!!

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if you don't think about that person and he doesn't come first in ur life then u are losing interest

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natured | 442 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yoda · Accepted Answer

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Usually, true feelings are there when you just can't get enough of that person and the second he is going away you already miss him

troublemaker89

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I can't get enough from him and I do miss him when we're apart but at times when I'm busy and can't contact him that often feels normal

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