Shouldn't women give their boyfriend a free pass to bang trans female/other men?

From a basic logical principle, if a gay person has sex with someone from opposite sex while in a relationship then it is not cheating. Similarly, if a person is in a straight relationship and they have sex with someone of the same sex it is not considered cheating.


Most men follow through with this logic which is why if a guy came home to his girlfriend getting eaten out by another female, he would be cool with it. Hell, most men will be very accommodating, and chill to both girls after they are done.

So should women pay men the same courtesy? So let say girls you came home and caught your boyfriend having sex, doggy style, with this transgender woman below:
Shouldn't women give their boyfriend a free pass to bang trans female/other men?
Shouldn't women give their boyfriend a free pass to bang trans female/other men?
Would you trip out and get mad at him or be considerate and let him finish then act cool and natural towards him?
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  • Its still cheating and if a male is banging a transgender then its because he was mostly initially attracted to the outside feminine appearance. You know the same attraction he would have towards a hot looking woman. The intention in the beginning would be to fuck a hot looking woman no matter if they are transgender because lets be honest some of them are really very attractive.

    One night my boyfriend and I were talking and we have a very honest relationship, he tells me everything about his past. On this occasion he was telling me that a few years ago (obviously I never knew he existed at this stage lol) he was holidaying in Thailand and he was single at the time. He was drunk, had too much to drink and ended up fucking a transgender. He said she was extremely hot looking, awesome body just that the he/she had a dick. I was a little surprised but didn't want to make him feel like he could never talk to me about anything ever again so I kept the conversation non judgmental. I did say "Really?" and he said "Yes. When your that drunk, you will fuck anything". He said it didn't really bother him that he was fucking the he/she and just blocked from his mind the dick that was hanging their but he did admit it was just like giving anal sex to a real woman and he was extremely horny so there you go people. Thought I'd share and no my boyfriend isn't gay and has never done that again. LOL

  • It's still cheating! If he's not having sex with me but someone else.. it is cheating! A lot of men have this flawed type of thinking cause they are selfish and only thinking about their physical wants and don't care how their girlfriend or wife feels. Also if a man willfully sleeps with a transgender "woman" he's gay. I don't care if they are snipped or un snipped.. sleeping with a biological man is considered gay. So if you want to sleep around with men deceiving/pretending to be women.. then be my guest... you are free to do so cause we are no longer together.

  • These trans men. Had to take hormones and will have to continue. Have surgery upon surgery to look like a female. 100% fake.

    If you think trans women are hot, then imagine a female doing surgery. It will be even better and plus we can give you children.

    It is gay to have sex with a biological male. Just come out the closet and fuck men who dress like women.

  • This is so fucking ignorant. If you're gay, then you don't have sexual desire for the opposite sex, and wouldn't do it. If you're straight, then don't have sexual desire for the same sex, and wouldn't do it.

    Cheating is ANY sex act you commit outside of your relationship, without the knowledge and consent of your partner before it happens.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Tbh I wouldn't really give a damn if I walked in on my girl with another girl. A little surprised at first forsure, but as long as I got to join in at times, I wouldn't really give shit if they did it regularly without me.

    However, knowing women, most women DO NOT like the thought of they're man having sex with another man/trans. The see it as feminine and woman want their men to be masculine, it turns them off. But there are some kinky women who get turned on by the idea of their man being with another man/trans, they're just waaaaaayyy outnumbered by the women who don't like it. You're best bet is finding a woman who's into that sort of thing.

  • First off, why would any straight man, in his right mind, want to have sex with a trans? They wouldn't. And yes it's gay and yes it's cheating. We have become acceptable to the fact that same gender sex is ok, but it's not. Yes men think it's hot seeing two girls making out but I don't think women feel the same when it's two guys doing it. Why we have accepted this is beyond my knowledge.

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  • My boyfriend would dump my ass if I had sex with another woman - not just a man lol

    Cheating is a betrayal of trust , so a person is betraying their partner regardless of which gender they fuck

  • Nope. I refrain from sleeping with other women, and I expect him to refrain from sleeping with other men.

  • You are disgusting.

  • Why be in a relationship at all if you just want to cheat?

    • exactly.

    • Sometimes after having vanilla ice cream every night, you want strawberry or chocolate

    • fuck no. if I like black currant with Choco chips, then I eat black currant with Choco chips for the rest of my life

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  • HAHAHA

    "Basic logic princible"

    XD

    "Basic stupid-crazy princible" more like

  • "Cheater's logic" isn't logic at all. No matter what sex, or gender, you cheat on your SO with, it's still cheating, because (onless you are in an open relationship) you made a commitment to only fuck that one person and you broke it.

    • Yep. Also, if you give "logic" any significant importance in yr relationship, then... well... you should sit down and think about why you're in a relationship with no emotional investment.

    • @redeyemindtricks There is that too! Very good point!

  • yeah no thanks i don't want to be in a relationship with a gay guy.

  • having sex with anyone other than your partner is cheating unless they say otherwise. Gender doesn't matter.

  • No it's still cheating. And having sex knowingly with someone of the opposite sex when you're 'gay' totally means you're not gay.

  • You must want to have sex with a transgender woman.

  • cheating is cheating. having sex with the same sex if you're straight is not cheating? that's the most stupid and flawed logical thing I've ever heard lol

  • Never overstep the boundaries of your relationship, talk about it. Cheating is cheating if its not with the person you've consciously chose to commit yourself to.

  • Cheating is cheating regardless of what sex the other person is.

  • What a complete load of fucking crap. smh

  • Cheating is wrong, no matter who you are or with whom you do it to! I don't even date and I can't stand unfaithful bastards.

  • What the fuck? Honestly? Sex is sex , gay or not (trans is gay, just looks better). You're still cheating.

    • Now if you want to go stick your dick in the cow down the lane, that'll be ok. (Or horse, dog, goat, pig, what ever)

  • um if a guy cheated on me with another guy, then he still cheated on me. also trans women are women and trans men are men.

  • If he's having sex with someone else then thats cheating also I wouldn't even give him a pass to sleep with a cis women so I definitely wouldn't give him a pass to sleep with a man/trans woman.

  • I'm going to stop you at the word logical. nothing logical about sex,
    that's just your dick talking bud.

  • Lame

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