If you had a boyfriend/girlfriend or if you do.. do you consider them family? and if you do what would you do or how would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend excluded you from their family making you feel like you are not a part of him/her family and they make it seem they have a perfect/happy family that they glorify? would that bother you and what would you do?
- Yes I do and that would bother me.Vote A
- No I don't and I wouldn't careVote B
Most Helpful Guy
It would bother me, but my wife has been an almost adopted part of my family for many-many years. She's been my sister's best friend when they were 7 (23 years), so in all reality, she has always been included in stuff. Now my ex-wife, not so much, it bothered me a little bit, but it makes sense why they didn't include her,1
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend is super important to me, but I don't consider him to be "officially" part of my family. I still do certain things with my family that I don't invite him to, because I want to make sure that I spend some quality time with my sibling, etc. Likewise, I respect his right to sometimes have family time or certain things that he wants to do with just his biological family. I think that's healthy, especially since we are not married. My personal feeling is that once a couple is married, they are much more officially part of the family.1