One night on a road trip, my friend and I were in the backseat, and somehow we ended up linking arms. Both of us were incredibly sleepy, so I don't remember all the details but later he gives me his jacket, offers to have me sleep on him, and then he holds me. I feel absolutely horrible, my boyfriend doesn't know, and I don't know what to do. My guy friend and my boyfriend are good friends and we are all in the same friend group.
Most Helpful Guy
If your planning on staying with your boyfriend, I would think long and hard before telling him. If what you put in this post is all that happened, and nothing else happened at all and won't happen? then I wouldn't want to know about it. Sorry, but even being in the "backseat" is not an excuse for what happend. I have been in the backseat with people and fallen asleep and never ended up cuddling them. So honestly I don't buy that there isn't more to this story your not saying. If the guy is really a "friend", he isn't much of a friend. If you tell your "boyfriend" then it will 100% end that friendship. There is zero upside to saying anything. Unless you want to go after the guy you "cuddled". You are very very much in the wrong. Live with the guilt. And you should feel a lot of it.1
Most Helpful Girl
Tell your boyfriend about what you did. (preferably without the inclusion of things like 'we were incredibly sleepy' or that you don't remember all the details. Things like that just make it sounds like you don't even want to take much of the blame on yourself which would make telling your boyfriend in the first place make not much sense.)3