I've noticed my brother's wife makes most of the decisions in their relationship, do you think it should be that way? Should one person make most of them?
Most Helpful Girl
Every relationship has different dynamics, people find what works for them and if that means one makes the decisions then great.
Personally we each have our strengths and a firmer attitude when it comes to making a decision within those strengths. So I'm better with money so seem to make most of our joint financial investments (after a discussion) and savings for bigger things.
My husband is amazing at making decisions on what we'll do next... when to move, when to start a family, when to give up/change directions on one of our goals... things that I tend to get caught up on the emotional aspect of. It works for us, but wouldn't for everyone0
Most Helpful Guy
It should be pretty split but not "you make one decision i make the other" instead it should be "let's agree on some things, and for those we can't we won't force it