So I've been talking to this guy on snapchat (who lives in a different country than me) for almost three months now. We talk basically everyday. In the beginning, we would flirt a lot with each other, but now it's to the point where it's just a winky face or a sly comment every once in a while. It's basically just an average friendship at this point. Now that our friendship is actually staring to get serious, I feel like I'm starting to actually catch feelings for him. Anyways, when I graduate in two years, I plan on flying to where he lives to meet him in person (he thinks I'm just coming to tour). The thing is, if it weren't for him, I wouldn't be saving my paychecks to buy a $2000 ticket to get there. Should I tell him how I feel about him? If I told him and he was fine with it or even if he felt the same, I would continue to save so that I could fly out to him. But if I told him and I made him feel uncomfortable and he doesn't see me like that, then what's the point in saving honestly? I hope you see where I'm coming from. By all means, I want to see him if he feels the same or not, but if I tell him and he doesn't see me like that, I'll be feeling awkward asf while I'm there and he probably would be too. So my question is, should I tell him that I'm catching feelings for him or just keep it to myself? Also, any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
I was the same. I met a girl from snapchat and we were talkinf every day. Time zones were shit as i was awake until 4am to talk to her on Skype. We would play music and it really was powerful. We had so much feelings for eachother and didn't tell. I got a ticket to Canada after i graduated school to be with her. It was so good. I was so in love with her. I moved to america which was 800km awau from her but i drove to her every second week and spent 3 days with her. We broke up after i moved to Ireland as long distance doesn't work. If you are willing to move to where he lives then tell him. If you aren't and tell him, yous won't be speaking in 4 months1
Most Helpful Girl
I was in a committed 3 year relationship, of which the last one year was long distance relationship. And I didn't even bother to move to Germany to not jeopardize my career even though I was 25 and ready to get married and settle down. It makes me laugh you met someone you have no idea of on an app which is used to send nudes and masturbation videos, then you catch feelings (cyber feelings) within 3 months, and now thinking of moving to his country if he shares the same feelings. Lol. Go get a life first at that age, build something for yourself, then think about a guy near you. Not someone who is thousands miles away that you never had any kind of physical connection yet.
I wonder if there is a single normal smart girl on this website who can think things through based on their age and what great things life will over within a year or two or three, and not waste their youth on useless online things.0