My Girlfriend Lied to me about her sexual past, we have made up but im looking for ways to get over it, this happened less than 24 hours ago?

We have been dating for 8 months and I've asked her in the past what she has done with other guys and she has told me, but I always felt as though there was someone else she wasn't telling me about and she just told me about him. I felt really hurt about how many times I asked her for her honesty and she waited till now. Im sure she wanted to protect me because I lost my virginity and her body count is sort of high for her age, she's done things (bj/fingering) with 7 guys including myself and has had sex with 4 including myself. I really want to get over this because she has never lied to me about anything other than this and I think she was nervous more than anything, she wouldn't cheat im sure of that, I just need help forgiving and forgetting
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just try to think she’s with you now, none of that matters anymore - I doubt she ever even thinks of any of the other guys until you brought it up. She didn’t really do anything wrong with lying, maybe she was just worried it would bother you. Just remember she’s with you now and she loves you not them ☺️

  • Get over it. People sleep with other people it’s not like she cheated on you. It’s her privacy too if she wants to keep it that way.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You have to move on, seriously.
    I mean, she eventually told you. You pestered her to tell you and she did. People have lives/histories, some choose to keep things private (which seems like what she was trying to do) others, not really I guess.
    You just have to move on.

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  • I guess talking straight with a hint of love would do the trick