So my boyfriend has basically been mad at me for the past 24 hours. I cooked him dinner last night bc he was sick and he didn’t eat any, slept on the floor and has ignored me the whole day even though I’ve said sorry (for doing I don't know what) and have tried to talk to him. When he leaves tomorrow I’m giving him 1 chance to say sorry or to stop his shitty attitude. If he doesn’t, I’m thinking of ignoring him until he realises what he’s done and apologises. This has worked in the past. Please help!
My boyfriend is being a complete jerk. how do I go about this/get back at him?
What Guys Said 15
Maybe that's worked before in the sense that it's forced him to come to the negotiating table like a defeated army, but I doubt it was more effective than that. In general, not talking is a poor way to solve relationship problems. If you don't learn to tell each other your problems, you won't fix them.2
my idea is not be with someone who pisses you off to the point you have to play games to get attention1
Maybe he isn't mad and just wants to get better as fast as possible. Maybe he wasn't hungry. And honestly sometimes the floor just feels better0
While I feel bad for younregarding your boyfriend's attitude, I am concerned with your decision as well. Are you two always doing this?0
Don't play mind games. No guy likes this. Be up front and discuss why you are mad.0
Ure a silly girl.2
What did u feed him?1
What Girls Said 6
I'd suggest grab his hand all of a sudden tomorrow morning & take him to your car & he'd be surprised & he'll ask something like "what's up" & then tell him that he's been behaving so weird since the last day that it made you worried & you're planning to take him to the doctor lol 😂😂😂 ok jokes apart, why not ask him straight?0
Don't get back at him or ignore him back, sorry to say this but that's the most childish solution I've ever heard for something like this.
You shouldn't have to use that sort of method to get him to treat you decently.
Being sick isn't an excuse for him being a prick and there was no reason for you to be ignored; he's just seeking attention and acting like a child.
I'm gonna go ahead and guess this is a highschool relationship, there's your first mistake... Girl, you deserve better. Maybe he's not ready to properly support you in a romantic way.
Since you're asking for solutions I would recommend talking to him about it seriously, and trying to have a mature conversation about it and how it made you feel. If he doesn't respond to that like... oh, I don't know, a decent human being... break it off, because he isn't ready for a relationship lmao
He sounds so childish, are you dating a kid or a man because the way he was acting towards is a big no. I wouldn’t handle his shit any longer0
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