Most Helpful Guy
Not if it's a good relationship. A good partner will encourage you to continue doing the things you enjoy, whether or not they participate. Of course if you are in a partnership you will have to make some time to be a partner, but how much that is depends on you and your partner.
No matter what, do not give up control of all financial resources. Adults, even if in a happy partnership, need some money that they can spend freely. My wife and I both have our own bank accounts and we don't worry about what the other spends.
Most Helpful Girl
It depends who you date. One thing that scares me off from long term dating is my fear of pregnancy and motherhood. I don't know if I'm responsible enough to be a mother or to take care of a dying husband if he gets cancer or disease one day.