Thanks so much you are telling me this now?
She and the other friend of mine knew this and didn't tell me anything... I was mad but I still keep talking to them. I feel I deserve better friends...
- Your friends are bitches.
- No, I would do the same.
Most Helpful Guy
Your friends didn't tell you because, they might think you wouldn't believe them, and you might think they were jealous. At the end of the day, for your friends to tell you would of being of very hard for them. They probably wanted to tell you, but scared if they did, they would lose you as a friend. They were damned if you do, and damned if they don't.
Remember the Messenger always get shot, in these situations.6
Most Helpful Girl
That’s really unfair of them to keep it from you, especially if they were not mutual friends with your ex...
I’m sorry that happened to you, that sounds awful 😣
My best advice would be to talk to the friends about why they kept it from you, and if their answer is self-serving in ANY capacity, then cut ties... friends who don’t look out for your wellbeing and happiness aren’t truly your friends.2