Why does my boyfriend forgive me so easily?

We had an argument where i was in the wrong, i touched his leg and cuddled him and said sorry and he immediately forgave me and went back to his loving self.

Why?

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  • Why does it matter? It just means that he isn't one to hold grudges or lets goes of things easily. That's nothing to be ashamed of, and I applaud him for being the bigger man.

    So... my question to you is... why are you judging him? Do you think he is weak because he forgives easily?

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    • No, I just wanted to know why. I’ve had exes in the past who hold it against me

    • Then you have a good man.

  • If he's very calm and forgives and forgets easily, I think he knows how to be a "bigger man". You let things slide if you believe it leads to a more desirable outcome. The question isn't about what's fair (an eye-for-an-eye mindset leaves everyone blind), it's about what leads to the best outcome.

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    • He could also be a pushover, but it's pretty easy to tell the difference in those cases. Pushovers are scared of conflict; the "bigger man" type avoids needless ones if it improves the outcome.

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  • means he loves you. next time you argue try to make it less intense and forgive him the way he forgives you quickly as well. i think he sees that the argument isn't worth it and he loves you too much to let it get to him.

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  • He dosent want to loose you.

    A saying - " I felt sad and bad that you left me but when I saw the reason why you left me, I laughed. "

    So if he is a real man, the reason for leaving you won't be "petty / small things ~ immature "

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  • to men, trust is more important than whos right or not. we also view discussions as a problem that needs fixing. he probly trusts you that you know you're wrong (and not faking), and that this is probly a problem already fixed, so he doesn't keep chewing on the fact.

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  • Don't worry. He's a kind and gentle man. That means he won't blow up. He'll forgive--until. Kind and gentle men have a "bullshit tank". Instead of blowing up or repaying your evil with his evil, he forgives and another plop of your bullshit goes into the tank. When it fills up, he will simply stop caring. You won't matter to him any more than a potted plant will. Just keep filling his tank.

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  • Because most of us do not let insignificant things bother us, you apologized. What more is there to say or do, than to forgive you and forget about it. There will be arguments in a relationship, if you can not get past them than you should not be together.

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  • Maybe he's just so used to being right he stopped caring a long time ago and is now only after the right answer but cares enough about you to want you to know it. Or more probably, since im guessing he's young, he's either very into you, maybe not that into the subject in the first place, or just with you for sex. Allthough that last one is the least probable since then he probably wouldn't have cared to discuss it

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  • It doesn't matter, but i have to say that he loves you, i think you shouldn't even be asking that question because it is so obvious. Look now, would you want him to be angry at you for weeks? He knows you wouldn't and plus he loves you so he actually has no reason for being angry at you.
    P. s. you said sorry.

    P. s. (2) dont start arguments that are pointless

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  • Because he couldn't be bothered arguing anymore. You knew you were wrong but still chewed his head off. He knew you were wrong and had a choice to just give up and have some peace and quiet or headbutt you, so he again chose the option with the least hassle

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  • So whenever I get into a heated argument with a partner, its usually because I don't feel my partner really thought about or understands my perspective. Whenever a partner appologizes they either come to understand why I thought no my way, or they remember they care for me and this silly little argument isn't worth losing each other over. (Not saying I don't ever appologize, just pertaining it to the question).

    So to answer your question, by appologizing you either acknowledge/understand his beliefs, or he realizes that you care for him despite this differencing in opinion. Either way, he probably has no reason to be upset with you anymore and move past it.

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  • Well depends on the argument. Was it something petty or?

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  • Probably either he didn't want to deal with drama of carrying on an argument so he just gave in or he thought that sex would be off the table until he forgave you.

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  • Because he's one of those people that doesn't want to argue and would rather be happy with you. If you acknowledged your mistake and said sorry, that's all we ask for sometimes. It's still important to make sure if you are in the wrong, you will make sure to not make that mistake next time. He seems like a sweet guy like me, but if you push him to do that again and again, we will eventually stop doing it and become hardened. Then you will regret taking advantage of it and start fearing him.
    Don't take advantage of this. Be happy he has a mindset like that. Not many guys will be like that, I am like that too but I can see myself stopping that if my girlfriend took advantage of it. Luckily my girlfriend doesn't. x3

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  • Cause men don't normally hold grudges for small things and feel happy being right some times then being told we are wrong all the time and brow beaten.😊

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    • This is actually pretty accurate us guys don't really hold grudges lol

  • Every one is different about how quickly we get upset and forgive. If he forgave ya and showed it, then be relieved.

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  • Would you rather he be pissed off at you for three months instead? Leave well enough alone and don't overanalyze.

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  • Because he is kind gentle person and you are lucky as all hell to have that kind of guy. Hopefully if he is in the wrong next time you will do the same.

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  • he's the forgiving sort. Please dont take advantage of that.

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  • He is stupid, i was like that
    That is means that he values you more than anything, and later on you wilk break his heart

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  • He can let go of the things that are wrong with ease. That's a good thing. Unless he holds it in and brings it out later to throw it in your face.

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  • He loves you to bits and he's a keeper
    Don't use him, he's precious lol

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  • Argument was probably not that big of a deal and you admitted you were wrong.

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  • He loves you 😇 I would do the same thing. I couldn't be angry at my ex ☺️

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  • Well you were wrong, you noticed it and you said sorry... As long as it wasn't a huge argument I do not see anything wrong here.

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  • Because he really cares about you and he probably appreciates that you recognize you were in the wrong

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  • Bcz I guess sometimes loosing an argument is way much better than loosing a person u love.

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  • What's the point of staying angry and arguing? That kills relationships.

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  • He loves you and y'all argument was probably over some petty shit. Why ruin a whole day over that?

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  • U have 2 options, he's either so in love with u and he can't afford losing u, or he just want to get under ur pants.. u know what i mean

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    • Other option : he does not care because he find her dumb anyway.

  • he values a good relationship with you more than being angry and punishing you.

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  • It probably wasn't that big of a deal and plus you apologised so that's goodm

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  • Because he loves you and doesn't want to keep an argument with you. He likes you two to be happy.

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  • because that person dosent ever want to lose you, you mean the world to that person

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  • Because he's a good person?

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  • He loves you?

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  • He is likely a very forgiving person.

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  • His dick was hard

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  • You must be hot or give him really good head loll

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  • Coz he likes u..

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  • He loves you, girl.

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  • it depends what you did

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  • He has pure heart

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  • Because he loves you. My so forgives me easily too.

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