Why?
Why does my boyfriend forgive me so easily?
Why?
If he's very calm and forgives and forgets easily, I think he knows how to be a "bigger man". You let things slide if you believe it leads to a more desirable outcome. The question isn't about what's fair (an eye-for-an-eye mindset leaves everyone blind), it's about what leads to the best outcome.
Why does it matter? It just means that he isn't one to hold grudges or lets goes of things easily. That's nothing to be ashamed of, and I applaud him for being the bigger man.
So... my question to you is... why are you judging him? Do you think he is weak because he forgives easily?
No, I just wanted to know why. I’ve had exes in the past who hold it against me
Then you have a good man.
He dosent want to loose you.
A saying - " I felt sad and bad that you left me but when I saw the reason why you left me, I laughed. "
So if he is a real man, the reason for leaving you won't be "petty / small things ~ immature "
means he loves you. next time you argue try to make it less intense and forgive him the way he forgives you quickly as well. i think he sees that the argument isn't worth it and he loves you too much to let it get to him.
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So whenever I get into a heated argument with a partner, its usually because I don't feel my partner really thought about or understands my perspective. Whenever a partner appologizes they either come to understand why I thought no my way, or they remember they care for me and this silly little argument isn't worth losing each other over. (Not saying I don't ever appologize, just pertaining it to the question).
So to answer your question, by appologizing you either acknowledge/understand his beliefs, or he realizes that you care for him despite this differencing in opinion. Either way, he probably has no reason to be upset with you anymore and move past it.
Because he's one of those people that doesn't want to argue and would rather be happy with you. If you acknowledged your mistake and said sorry, that's all we ask for sometimes. It's still important to make sure if you are in the wrong, you will make sure to not make that mistake next time. He seems like a sweet guy like me, but if you push him to do that again and again, we will eventually stop doing it and become hardened. Then you will regret taking advantage of it and start fearing him.
Don't take advantage of this. Be happy he has a mindset like that. Not many guys will be like that, I am like that too but I can see myself stopping that if my girlfriend took advantage of it. Luckily my girlfriend doesn't. x3
to men, trust is more important than whos right or not. we also view discussions as a problem that needs fixing. he probly trusts you that you know you're wrong (and not faking), and that this is probly a problem already fixed, so he doesn't keep chewing on the fact.
Because most of us do not let insignificant things bother us, you apologized. What more is there to say or do, than to forgive you and forget about it. There will be arguments in a relationship, if you can not get past them than you should not be together.
Maybe he's just so used to being right he stopped caring a long time ago and is now only after the right answer but cares enough about you to want you to know it. Or more probably, since im guessing he's young, he's either very into you, maybe not that into the subject in the first place, or just with you for sex. Allthough that last one is the least probable since then he probably wouldn't have cared to discuss it
Don't worry. He's a kind and gentle man. That means he won't blow up. He'll forgive--until. Kind and gentle men have a "bullshit tank". Instead of blowing up or repaying your evil with his evil, he forgives and another plop of your bullshit goes into the tank. When it fills up, he will simply stop caring. You won't matter to him any more than a potted plant will. Just keep filling his tank.
It doesn't matter, but i have to say that he loves you, i think you shouldn't even be asking that question because it is so obvious. Look now, would you want him to be angry at you for weeks? He knows you wouldn't and plus he loves you so he actually has no reason for being angry at you.
P. s. you said sorry.
P. s. (2) dont start arguments that are pointless
Because he couldn't be bothered arguing anymore. You knew you were wrong but still chewed his head off. He knew you were wrong and had a choice to just give up and have some peace and quiet or headbutt you, so he again chose the option with the least hassle
Well you were wrong, you noticed it and you said sorry... As long as it wasn't a huge argument I do not see anything wrong here.
Well depends on the argument. Was it something petty or?
Because he really cares about you and he probably appreciates that you recognize you were in the wrong
Probably either he didn't want to deal with drama of carrying on an argument so he just gave in or he thought that sex would be off the table until he forgave you.
Would you rather he be pissed off at you for three months instead? Leave well enough alone and don't overanalyze.
What's the point of staying angry and arguing? That kills relationships.
If you’re a guy then it feels like you’re always in the wrong. In my experience if I might have done something wrong then I am in the wrong completely. If it’s her fault then a mutual apology is in order. You don’t argue with women to win.
he's the forgiving sort. Please dont take advantage of that.
He loves you and y'all argument was probably over some petty shit. Why ruin a whole day over that?
He loves you to bits and he's a keeper
Don't use him, he's precious lol
what's the argument? did you forget to raise the toilet seat after peeing?
No he wouldn't give me head as he doesn't like it and he went on to explain that he wouldn't make me do anything i didn't want to
aw yeah I can see why he thinks he's right and can forgive you, good for you
Because he is kind gentle person and you are lucky as all hell to have that kind of guy. Hopefully if he is in the wrong next time you will do the same.
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