If the person you are dating couldn't make it to your birthday party, would you break up with them?

And they assured you that they will be present.
If the person you are dating couldn't make it to your birthday party, would you break up with them?How upset would you be and what would you do?

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  • Just because the "couldn't" make it that in and of itself isn't a reason. Are there some more details to this? What were they doing while the party was happening, where are they?

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  • No, they may have a good reason. Especially if they are there for everything else, now if they have a history of not showing up for things that they said they would then yes I would break up with him as a that's it I'm done!!!

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  • If they assured u then yes i’d be pissed. Thats why i dont make promises. I told my boyfriend i would try to fly in for his bday but only if i had the money

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What Guys Said 41

  • if they had a legitimate reason for not being able to make the party no i wouldn't

    if they simply bailed with a lame or no excuse then i would consider breaking up with them

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  • A if don't do birthday parties
    B if they couldn't attend for certain circumstances and they apologised or informed me that they're not coming I wouldn't be upset from them at all I'd be a little down because if the time I was expecting that we will have other than that nothing on the person

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  • No. If that was the case, you'd be devoid of family and friends for not showing up. :/

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  • I think it matters why he missed it. But still probably not an issue

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  • Wow are you people even real? Person a doesn't go to an event. Time to break up a loving relationship, sever the connection because I'm a ridicolous snowflake who is totally absorbed in my own little completely selfish world where I think the word completely revolves around me and my feelings. Grow up. Travel the world. You are 19, that's too old to think like an 8 year old.

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    • Eh notice that this is question I'm asking to see different people's opinions.
      I'm not saying I would break up. But I'm enquiring as to if people would.

      In case you didn't notice there is also rest of the question,
      "How upset would you be and what would you do?"

  • Depends on the reason. Mainly talk to them about making promises they can't keep. And maybe priorities. But i can think of a few reasons why my birthday would be less important.

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  • I don't think so, I mean it depends on the reason why she couldn't manage to make it.

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  • No, if a birthday is that high on your priority list than I would revaluate. Now consistantly failing to show up when promised... thats another story.

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  • I don't care about my birthday so no I wouldn't. I wouldn't do that even if I did care about my birthday.

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  • Nope. I will ask why she didn't came but its a detail.

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  • I dont care about birtdays or any other holiday or gifts.

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  • Doesn't matter.. At least I can have all the cake 😂

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  • No
    Obviously why would you want to do something like that

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  • Well I don't really like birthday parties to begin so maybe I am less inclined to see it as a big deal
    What is a big deal though is if they had promised to be there and did not show up
    I understand circumstances can change but if at all possible you keep your word and if you can't you let the person know you can't and why as soon as you know
    If the person just didn't show with no word I think that would end that pretty quick for me... Not for it being a birthday I think it would be the same any other day

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  • No way. I don't expect anyone to show up. If they do fantastic, if not that's ok

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  • not sure without knowing reasons behind her absence

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  • Of course, I would also try to murder her

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  • I don't have birthday parties.

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  • When is your bday?

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  • Depends what their excuse was

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What Girls Said 19

  • I'd bee upset and all but I'd also try to understand why he wasn't there. If the reason is good enough, I might as well forgive him. If not, you know, a huge argument is gonna follow.

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  • No i wouldn't, if they had a valid reason lol

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  • It depends. Maybe something really important came up. If he/she explains why they couldn't make it, and it is reasonable, then hell no!. People get caught up in their own things, and sometimes things happen that they need to attend. But if it's because he/she is a lazy ass, then I'd suggest to ask for some explanations or move on, definitely.

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  • I would be upset, not so much about the birthday event itself, but more on why the person didn't even bother to call or message that he/she's not coming.
    Though not to the extent of breaking up.

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  • Maybe they have a reason for it. Got stuck in workplace, traffic etc. As long as they make up to me, it's fine

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  • It depends on why he didn't make it. Either way, i'd make him make up for it.

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  • I’d be upset but I don’t think that I’d throw away a good relationship for that

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  • depends on why they couldn't but i probably wouldn't

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  • Nope I would not. But I would love to get a genuine reason from them

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  • Of course not, as long as they had a real reason for having to miss it.

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  • Oooh is be pissed. Especially if they assured me they’d be there! As far as breaking up, umm probably wouldn’t if they had a very good explanation.

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  • I want to say no, but it really depends on what their reason for not being able to make it is.

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  • I wouldn't break up with them, just cry a lot

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  • Nope.

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  • I'd first know the reason why and talk to them.

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  • I would get mad but not break up , that's silly

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  • Noo i wouldn't

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  • They need to have a really good explanation

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  • No at least they will give u something. It may be something important thats probably why they couldnt make it.

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