Most Helpful Guys
How she handles conflict. It’s by far the biggest influence on how well my relationships run whether they be simply friendships or romantic. If she avoids conflict entirely things just fester until it all falls apart. If she’s quick to conflict everything is a painful experience with her. If she uses passive aggression or manipulation rather than just being upfront about it trust just disappears from the relationship and it just becomes a Cold War of sorts. Pretty much if I can’t sit down and have a clear calm loving confrontational conversation with a girl we might as well break up immediately. Honesty, openness, and agreeableness are crucial. But that’s just me I can’t speak for anyone else.1
i once dated a chubby filipina girl when i was 24 years old, the moment she took off her pants it's like wtf yo... that urine stench of hers burns my nose like as if water went in my nose while i'm swimming. after things were done, we went out for a while. when i got home, my room smelled like funky cheese like i don't know if her vagina shares the same culture with parmesan cheese or if i went into the cheese department at wholefoods but the smell was soooooooooo BAD! a week later, drops of blood started coming out after i urinate, i found out i got UTI from her from, the doctor and was put on antibiotics for a while. it was a huge turn off especially when i told her about it, she said "it's gonorrhea and it's not me" and i'm just like i'm fucking done, bye!1
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Most Helpful Girls
Dishonesty and lack of willingness to communicate.
(Note that it's the lack of willingness to communicate that's a huge turn-off, not the lack of skills to communicate, because a guy can be poor at communication, but if he is willing to try, then that's what makes a difference.)1