i've wanted to be with someone else but not necessarily wanted to have sex with them. like basically i was in a relationship with a person i no longer was into and was interested in someone else.
As far as I every got to acting on it was a single masturbation session. I then feel so guilty I have never acted on attraction whole in a relationship in and way since, with any girl.
physical attraction is linked to the basic instinct so yah sure all men would want "many" not only "someone" but it doesn't mean they would actually go for it or consider it necessarily ! "wanting" isn't a choice but "doing" is !
Yah, and when that happened I began to think hard about my current relationship and realized I wasn’t happy and I was only wasting her time and my time. So I broke up with her
Complitely normal, but if u want someone doesn't mean u have to do it. After all if u find that someone more atractive that ur curent partner, break up and go be with someone else.
Smh... Don't assume because of a response... I'm as loyal as they come but I'm just speaking in general... Most of my responses won't be about me but in general... A good 90 - 95% of men cheat anyway...
Agreed but one quote I will always remember “a man will truly be loyal for someone he loves and cherishes as his own” so yes they cheat but they will change for “the one”
Yes, of course. There is no law of nature that says you can't love more than one person at a time. Mature adults don't act on every impulse or feeling however.
No. I'm superselective when it comes to guys. When I am in a relationship with someone, it means that they 100% match all my criteria, which are a lot.
@mo_adams Maybe, but the relationships I had were all very well and very long lasting, and never ended badly or for a non-external decision (except for the first, but I was 14 when it was over). So it works.
Um... yeah duh, of course. Extremely normal. I really like my girlfriend and enjoy my time with her and enjoy sex with her, but I constantly want other girls too. Pretty much just how it is being male, for most of us.
The downvotes are amusing, but they really don't matter; fake Internet points don't change real-world truth. If you don't like how guys think, you can either get mad and start shouting at the sky like a crazy person, or you can just learn gradually to accept it. Downvotes don't change that.
@Anon-ymous1 Females simply don't like the idea that their man probably prefers to think of and look at other women when he jerks it. The dudes here that claim they would never are just virtue signaling or else they have the sex drive of a panda bear... they want to look like they're better than guys like me (I bluntly tell my wife I'd love to bang her new friend).
Two types of guys in this world, guys that jerk off and liars... because I know some liar is going to say they don't. Personally I think it's the 'Coolidge effect' that makes a different girl the prefered source to play the skin flute to. ... and I know damn well a woman flicking the bean isn't thinking about their man either, but the question about women is if she will flick the bean at all. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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Constantly...
That's how I know I'm happy with my partner... Wanting someone else but not bothered to act on it...
The day that I make an effort to act on wanting another person is the day I have to reassess my present relationship...
i've wanted to be with someone else but not necessarily wanted to have sex with them. like basically i was in a relationship with a person i no longer was into and was interested in someone else.
As far as I every got to acting on it was a single masturbation session. I then feel so guilty I have never acted on attraction whole in a relationship in and way since, with any girl.
physical attraction is linked to the basic instinct so yah sure all men would want "many" not only "someone" but it doesn't mean they would actually go for it or consider it necessarily !
"wanting" isn't a choice but "doing" is !
Not that much to be honest...
When I like a girl I really like her... and it just grows and grows more and more...
Well, I have always been single. Hence no I neither want sex ( because I am asexual) and I never want anyone either.
Yah, and when that happened I began to think hard about my current relationship and realized I wasn’t happy and I was only wasting her time and my time. So I broke up with her
When I'm in a relationship I'm committed and don't flirt or look at other guys. If you don't give your guy a reason to be jealous he will do the same.
Always, I wish I had 100 wives.
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You think you can handle 100 marriages?
@Reach500 Hard to tell, but I'm willing to give it a try.
@BeHappy1985 With those hotties? Sign me up.
Complitely normal, but if u want someone doesn't mean u have to do it. After all if u find that someone more atractive that ur curent partner, break up and go be with someone else.
You aren't ment for one person... We have more than one soulmate so you're going to want to be with others while in a relationship
You obviously will never settle down sir... learn to be loyal please you’ll fix a lot of hearts 🌹💕
Smh... Don't assume because of a response... I'm as loyal as they come but I'm just speaking in general... Most of my responses won't be about me but in general... A good 90 - 95% of men cheat anyway...
Agreed but one quote I will always remember “a man will truly be loyal for someone he loves and cherishes as his own” so yes they cheat but they will change for “the one”
You're exactly right speaking from experience
I have knowledge in a lot of things by what I’ve seen in this world.. I’m just beginning
I know what you mean... Its like becoming conscious and having to reprogram because everything you know is a lie
I'd always be loyal to her, but I can't say always say the same for her unfortunately..
Yes~ that made me realise that I wasn't happy in my relationship so I left them~ I would never cheat
All the time... that's probably why I'm so intrigued by open relationships.
Yes, of course. There is no law of nature that says you can't love more than one person at a time. Mature adults don't act on every impulse or feeling however.
Sure everyone does at some point but doesn’t mean anything unless you act on it
No. I'm superselective when it comes to guys. When I am in a relationship with someone, it means that they 100% match all my criteria, which are a lot.
I think dear, having tendency to perfectionism would make you lose a lot of good people. We are not designed to be perfect humans :)
@mo_adams Maybe, but the relationships I had were all very well and very long lasting, and never ended badly or for a non-external decision (except for the first, but I was 14 when it was over).
So it works.
Awesome! Well it didn't work for me :/ but I don't regret taking risks and starting relation that has ambiguity :)
Im curious to know your criteria..
Um... yeah duh, of course. Extremely normal. I really like my girlfriend and enjoy my time with her and enjoy sex with her, but I constantly want other girls too. Pretty much just how it is being male, for most of us.
The downvotes are amusing, but they really don't matter; fake Internet points don't change real-world truth. If you don't like how guys think, you can either get mad and start shouting at the sky like a crazy person, or you can just learn gradually to accept it. Downvotes don't change that.
Always... I can't help but think about banging every hawt girl I come into contact with.
I don't understand what it is that's so hard about this ^ very basic truth that's difficult for people to grasp, most of them female.
@Anon-ymous1 Females simply don't like the idea that their man probably prefers to think of and look at other women when he jerks it. The dudes here that claim they would never are just virtue signaling or else they have the sex drive of a panda bear... they want to look like they're better than guys like me (I bluntly tell my wife I'd love to bang her new friend).
Two types of guys in this world, guys that jerk off and liars... because I know some liar is going to say they don't. Personally I think it's the 'Coolidge effect' that makes a different girl the prefered source to play the skin flute to. ... and I know damn well a woman flicking the bean isn't thinking about their man either, but the question about women is if she will flick the bean at all. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Just sex, but never wanted another woman as a partner whilst in a relationship.